what's your style when your cats cross over from playing to fighting, let em have at, or make em stop? My boyfriend makes them stop, I'll let my boys keep fighting, cause it's funny! except when it starts unfairly, sometimes Scruffy picks a fight with a sleeping oponent!
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Re: cat fight!
Wed, January 23, 2008 - 9:25 PMUm, you make it clear you're talking about fighting, not playing, and then say you let it continue just because you think it's funny? That's not the mark of a responsible pet owner. But it is a good way to end up with injured cats. It's _not_ funny once it's real fighting, because at that point the cats are trying to literally hurt one another. What the devil is funny about it? -
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Re: cat fight!
Thu, January 24, 2008 - 8:31 AMI don't worry about it getting too rough.... one of mine will back out in a huff if it gets to that stage. -
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Thu, January 24, 2008 - 10:12 PMthat's what my boys do, usualy. it's no more than batting at each other with paws, petey the 8 lb cat will start cuddling & washing off Scruffy the gentle 20lb cat, wich oddly enough leads to the pawswiping, one minute I'm thinking aww, how cute, look at the little darlings, next they're flying off the bed! Scruffy will attack Petey only in his sleep & run off, wondering why petey bit him 5 minutes later. Nimbrethil, they aren't ripping each others throat out & just like when I posted about whether or not to let an indoor kitty eat inscets & flys they catch, I let them do it cause they probobly do that when we aren't home anyway & it doesn't seem to be hurting either of them, they are both fixed, indoor kitties with plenty of toys, hidey holes, a carpeted scratching post (made from recycled carpet samples & scrap lumber 2 stories, right in front of a sunny window, no long strings with toys hanging unless me or my boyfriend is home to supervise & play I worry kitties at play might not notice if strings loop around them) & we have a carpeted hickoryfarms box that they can curl up in, just big enough for one cat, come to think of it they aren't territoral about the box, the food, or the scratchingpost, most fights break out over the couch or the bed, now I wouldn't think it was funny if one pet felt cowed, or was bullied away from food, but to fight over wide open spaces when they weren't playing to begin with, they just have to have the spot the other was just lying on! I was just wondering if others had different views or their cats fight over silly stuff. -
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Thu, January 24, 2008 - 10:27 PMwhen i said Petey bit him, I mean nip at him, Reclaim his spot, & go back to sleep. It's a viscous cycle, sleep attack, cuddle attack.
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Re: cat fight!
Fri, February 22, 2008 - 12:44 PMwhen play turns to fight you should end it quickly. a quick spray of water to the face should do the trick unless your cats love water -
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Fri, February 22, 2008 - 4:34 PMyea, they don't know this but the bottle is empty now, all they do is see it, hear the sqiurty, squirt noise & break it up. we use it to keep petey off the ficus, too.
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Mon, February 25, 2008 - 7:51 AMIf I can tell who started it, I give that cat a "laundry basket time-out" by turning a laundry basket upside down over him or her, trapping the cat for 3 min. or so. Not real long, just enough to give time for the cat to cool down. If the fighting continues after that, or I'm not sure who started, I'll give 'em both a time out. For a while I had separate laundry baskets for the two cats. Then after one evening of repeated fights in spite of multiple time-outs, I stuck 'em both under the same basket, making them confined with the other for a whole five minutes. Oh my goodness! They'll do anything to avoid that! So now, when there's much fighting they go in together, and it's over quickly.
I use laundry baskets rather than the kennel/carrier because I don't want them associating the carrier with punishment. I don't want them to associate the times when they are confined to the carrier for a trip to the vet, or because we are hiding in the basement from a tornado are because I don't like their behavior. I'm not sure how sophisticated their reasoning is on this score. Maybe I'm doing that just for myself. Then again, they can probably tell the difference in my attitude toward the carrier and the laundry basket.