Sexual Energy & Empathy

topic posted Wed, February 27, 2008 - 10:59 PM by  cup
I wanna talk about sexual energy! LOL

This doesn't happen to me much, but when I looked a bit better :) I would occasionally sense sexual attraction from soem women.

It would be like they were shooting me a hot cupids arrow of energy and I would sense that.

Wierd!!

Anyone else experience this?
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cup
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  • Re: Sexual Energy & Empathy

    Thu, February 28, 2008 - 12:56 AM
    of course! It is the most fundamental energetic signature of attraction. the love laser.
    we do it to each other.

    a friend of mine recently described her moment around a fire, with friends, where she was pulled into to the orbit of a love ray, and it's a new thing for her. she spoke about the pull.

    we can 'toss out' energy from any chakra center, with all it's associations (phys., ment., emot.) and expectations, and sexual energy is the most charged. It has the greatest amount of creative potential attatched to it's purpose. Just like red is the most visibile 'color' in the spectrum of light - it is the densest energetic vibrational color signature - the most physical and also the color of our root/ reproductive centers.

    Are you denying yourself? Or just currently preoccupied?
    The attraction is the manifestation of the creative potential available to you and .. your heartthrob.

    one must be whole with themselves before becoming whole with another

    ton glen
  • Re: Sexual Energy & Empathy

    Thu, February 28, 2008 - 4:59 AM
    My experience with "sexual" energy has been entirely negative, but I think that is because I have come to perceive sex as negative. Essentially no attention was ever shown me until last year (I'm going to be 34 in a week), so I had long ago decided to shut down any sexual feeling in myself. So when two different guys showed interest in me in the space of a few months.... it really creeped me out. I really have no way of knowing if their interest was creepy in and of itself or if that was just the way I read it because I've trained myself not to want it. But it hit me like a ton of bricks and made me terribly uncomfortable, not the least of which because they had only just met me and already they were thinking of me in a sexual way. I was kind of insulted as well as repulsed.
    • Re: Sexual Energy & Empathy

      Sun, June 8, 2008 - 2:35 PM
      I tend to agree with the negative feeling of most sexual energy I encounter. I have had a lifetime of problems with men not taking me seriously and wanting to cut to the chase and just jump into bed. To this day I know who wants to go to bed the moment I meet them and most all men do.

      Personally I would like to be friends with men but have not found one to just hang around with but am continuously searching. I am coming to the conclusion that what happens to us in life are a series of lessons to learn and this one has been a big one for me. Still trying to learn it.

      I define sexual energy as sacred and throw all of mine into the arts. The superficialities are not a place for the sacred.
  • Re: Sexual Energy & Empathy

    Thu, February 28, 2008 - 6:13 AM
    I can tell the same thing too. My experience is more of a 'wash' of heat. I also got from one person, who I saw a lot, a wash of heat and then a strong burning in my stomach (this person was not so great either) like there was icy fire. It made me realize later that I have to check in because for the longest time I thought it was me and I realized that this was not the case. I think the toughest thing to realize for me is that I have never really been "in love" with anyone. I have not really had that bond and so I step back now and see what and who I am getting involved with. It was tough to realize this because when I looked at the past relationships (once I found I was an empath) and stepped back from it all most of it was not my feelings. I would gradually get "attached" to them but in the long run it wasn't me.

    Now, I just check in and make sure of how I even remotely feel about any situation. Just because another has these feelings doesn't mean I want to reciprocate them or that I even feel the same way. I am taking my time and really standing back and seeing what I want and what type of person I want to bring into my life. Lots of people say I am picky but I feel like it's more I am discerning the reality of the situation.
  • soulgasm!

    Fri, February 29, 2008 - 7:25 AM
    the love laser. thats funny. does feel like that sometimes.
    i have a theory about this. i think there are exchanges of energies between people all the time. sometimes there is more overlap, the signals are stronger, sometimes less.
    the way i look at this is like when you used to hit the scan button on the radio in the car? it would scan for the strongest signal, and because, when we get a strong signal, we can feel it, it's energy experienced physiologically, often the strongest signal that gets locked onto is sex. but here's the thing; what ive discovered is that sometimes it is sexual resonance,a nd sometimes its not, bu its something else, maybe just as strong, but subtler. theres a recognition, or something, that goes way deeper than just sex... the only way i have discovered this is by leting the initial sexual hit subside a little, and looking deeper... and what i have found seem to be something like soul paths that have been meant to cross, not, perhaps, for a sexual encounter, though certainly sometimes that is the case, but also, often, something that initially hits the same sexual feeling buttons is actually getting our attention for something more...

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