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Younger men perfer mature women

Black Siren — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 15:31:14 GMT

I have found that younger men perfer a mature women because we don't play games. I think we are at the age that we tell like it is.......Take it or leave it.....Younger men actually appreciate that there is no BS involved.....What do you think?

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Younger Men

Sulema — Mon, 23 Apr 2007 00:51:44 GMT

I just wanted to take a moment to welcome the new members and tell a little about myself. Although I never thought much of the three year difference between my former husband and myself, it was just the beginning of what would be a lasting trend. Six years ago, still in my 30's, I finally put an end to almost seven years of celibacy and an even longer marriage. Once I was single again, it was not long before I met the man that I would come to think of as my "soulmate". Just 19 at the time, I did not think that he would ever be more to me than a passing interest. We spent almost a year together before I realized that he was just not ready for the kind of relationship I was... not a committed or serious one... but an HONEST one. We spent a year apart, and during that year, I dated a few other men... NONE of whom were over the age of 27... most of whom were around the age of 21... one who even showed up to take me out to dinner in his high school football jacket. Of course, this was a topic of amusement and conversation for my friends and me, but underneath it all, I began to wonder if I would ever again be happy with anyone close to my own age. Don't get me wrong... I did not corrupt or in any way harm these young men. For the most part, these were harmless dates that evolved into friendships, but I just was not attracted to most men over 30. As an attractive woman who, I am told, does not look her age, I decided... fine... I would enjoy what I had while I had it! I began to notice that younger men were more attentive and appreciative than their elder counterparts. I attribute this to two main factors... so many seem to have been raised by single mothers (at least part of the time) and the lack of depth and rationale exhibitted by so many of the young women their own age. Sorry, girls... while there are definitely some exceptions, most women my boyfriend's age are short-sighted, selfish, lazy, and expect instant gratification. I blame the ERA for both these issues. When did we start confusing the fact that we are awesome by virtue of the fact that we are WOMEN with the concept that in order to be respected, we must "evolve" to incoporate all those traits we find most distasteful in men? Personally, I think we are WAY off course as a gender league. My first thoughts, that these young wooers were just hoping to hook up with an older woman just to be able to say that they had... that their attention was more curiosity than genuine interest... that they were merely interested in a sexual relationship with someone they called "MILF", usually turned out to be wrong. It turned out they wanted a female who could get and hold their interest... in conversation... NOT because she decided to make out with her best girlfriend in an effort to get attention. NOT because she climbed up on a bar, sans panties, to shake her ass for the masses. True... these things are interesting, but not, as it turns out, what young men want... at least not for more than a few weeks. Do those young women who allow themselves to be exploited by the makers of "Girls Gone Wild" REALLY think some young, attractive, successful man is going to watch her playing with her own breasts on film and think "Gee... I would really like to marry a girl like THAT someday?" If there IS a man out there who thinks that, I sure would like to hear from him. Nah... young men today want the same thing ALL men have wanted... a miracle worker... a woman who can command attention and respect at work... knows how to mop a floor and starch his shirts (and is not too lazy to do it)... can cook like his grandmother (or even better)... and carry on an INTELLIGENT conversation with his peers and colleagues... AND act like a whore... IN THE PRIVACY OF THEIR BEDROOM (or anywhere else he happens to want to take her). The Taoist philosophy of the Five Constant Relationships has been viewed as politically incorrect when referencing the husband/wife alliance, but Taoists could not be MORE right. Take care of your man... he WILL, in turn, take care of you... and ACTUALLY ENJOY doing it. Okay... stepping off my soapbox... My young man and I found our way back together almost four years ago, and I have never known fulfillment or love like I do with him. I hope to hear from more of you... your thoughts... your opinions... your own experiences. Whether you are an older woman who enjoys younger men... to ANY degree... or a younger man who appreciates older women... your input is welcome!

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Objectifying Young Men?

Cindy — Mon, 31 Mar 2008 19:17:28 GMT

If they like it, why Not?

Hi,

I've been playing around with these ideas of power over men. At first it was inspired by a bit of tequila and things guys would write me and it was mostly kind of a joke limited to the internet, just seeing how far I could go with it. I've been finding it more and more fascinating and a little bit thrilling to bring some experiences into real life.

In my continuing saga of finding men who like to be objectified, and women who like to objectify them, I've set up "Man Whores For Women" tribe. I thought some of you might want to join it.

Man Whores For Women
http://tribes.tribe.net/female-pimp

Rules of the group:

In this Tribe the women are the pimps and all of the men are our whores. The women are free to pimp out the men who live in their area to their friends and acquaintances. The men must be willing to do what they are told, and be open to any kind of services and inspection by their pimps.

This is a role play group. There is nothing illegal about our activities. Except for in the state of Nevada and other places/countries where prostitution is legal, our man whores are not allowed to accept money for services rendered. Women in the group, however, are free to be paid for their dating services by their friends and acquaintances however they see fit.

My other groups:

Male Sex Slaves for Women:
http://tribes.tribe.net/sexslaves#
(All males in this group must follow the sexual commands of the women in the group that are within a 50-mile driving distance.)

Real Life Clothed Females and Naked Men:
http://tribes.tribe.net/realcfnm
(All males in this group must be available to strip naked for the women in the group that are within a 50-mile driving distance.)

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trophy boyfreind

Sat, 16 Feb 2008 21:10:25 GMT

I guess the crux of cougar romance is women who see their boyfriends' as an indulgence. A guy younger than yourself, to impress your friends, or purely as an ego boost, has got to be good for anyones psyche' . The other night a lady friend, after returning from a great dinner and movie took off her coat, and casually told me, " take those clothes off I want to beat you." We do things like this on regular basis, but this was the first time I'd realized younger women don't say, or do things like that. In fact I've never met a woman under the age of 40 that was confident enough to actually spell out what kind of sex she wants. As a young guy I was always left to guess, or try and decipher some elaborate code.

At 40 I don't have to work so hard to make myself available to ladies I'm attracted to. Being part of my local S&M community I find it easier to to make myself available to women who have enough grip on life to indulge in boyfriends, rather than pursuing the June Cleaver dream of finding some guy who's going to make their life happen.

I'm guessing most of this group is peopled by cougar seekers ( I'm sure there is a term for milf and mature seekers though i don't know what it is) so let me post this question to our rather quiet group. How did you come to realize your attraction to mature ladies. Conversely how did the ladies of this group come to your attraction to younger, adoring men?

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shhhhhhhhhhh

loki70 — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 21:39:14 GMT

its so quiet on this site, just wanted to say hi and wondering where everyone is from

I am from the los angeles area

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Threesomes?

Sulema — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 01:35:23 GMT

I am wondering what everyone's take on threesomes is. This has been a topic of discussion lately between myself and several other people, and we are divided. Please share your thoughts (and experiences)!

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anyone have similar experiences with older women?

loki70 — Tue, 09 Oct 2007 18:10:04 GMT

my last two lovers have been more mature then me. They were +10 Years older then me. They were some of my best sexual experiences in my life. Has anyone else had such experiences? I would appreciate your input

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Age of Love

Sulema — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 01:38:08 GMT

Have any of you been watching Age of Love? I have been impressed with the fairly accurate portrayal of the differences between the 20 Somethings and the 40 Somethings (with a few exceptions). I find that this art actually does imitate life.

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