My dad just got my mom a sheltie two days ago for mother's day. She has been wanting one for years. She brought the dog home and totally feel in love with her. She just took her to the vet today and found out she has a heart condition, which apparently will take over $2000 for surgery. We don't have this kind of money, so our only option is to take the puppy back. My mother is really sad and I don't know what to say to make her feel better.
Does anyone have an opinion on this? The puppy is only nine weeks old. Is this seriously our only option? Anything I can tell my mom, to make her feel better?
Does anyone have an opinion on this? The puppy is only nine weeks old. Is this seriously our only option? Anything I can tell my mom, to make her feel better?
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Re: Need advice quick, on a sheltie...
Mon, May 5, 2008 - 1:10 PMWell, first off, I would suggest your mom get a second opinion, if possible. Just like when you go in to a doctor with a human ailment, it is always good to get more than one opinion..
Also, if the puppy does need an operation, would the vet take a payment plan? Many vets do and will work with their clients in these matters.
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Mon, May 5, 2008 - 1:11 PMI once had a cat who had a heart condition and the vet didn't even offer to operate on him. He lived to the age of 6 and passed away quietly in his sleep one day. He had a short but happy little life. His 'condition' was a bad heart murmer. I don't know what your mom's dog's condition is - but maybe you don't have to take it back if it is not in too much discomfort and you can adjust to the fact that it may not live that long? -
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Mon, May 5, 2008 - 5:31 PMThanks for the advice, but it looks like we are taking the puppy back tomorrow. My mother is sad, but hopefully we can get another puppy. One that we are able to take care of. If we had the disposable income to take care of her, it wouldn't be issue. But sadly, in this failing economy, it is.
Anyway know a sheltie breeder?
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Re: Need advice quick, on a sheltie...
Mon, May 5, 2008 - 5:53 PMLots of shelties and sheltie mixes in the shelters who need the love.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sheltie
www.sheltie-rescue.org/inform...ies.htm
www.aileashelties.com/health.htm
Here's a couple links you may or may not want to pass on to your parents.
Thing is- dogs take a lot of money, regardless. I really hope your parents have thought about that, especially in this economy these days. A otherwise healthy dog could run out in the street tomorrow, get bitten, or eat something OR have a congenital defect noone knows about yet, and those situations are all very expensive.
Not criticizing, just sayin. -
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Mon, May 5, 2008 - 8:44 PMI agree with Elaine... I second that....Not meaning to be mean or critical, but the shelters are OVERFLOWING with good dogs.
No matter how cute they are...Make SURE you can afford one - before - you get one.
Expect the worse and then you'll be ready for it...There will always be unexpected illnesses, medical needs.
(My Boxer has cost me over $15,000 in vet bills - fortunately I had insurance that paid nearly half, but even so...) -
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Mon, May 5, 2008 - 11:19 PMOf course I know that dogs cost money. My family has never been without a dog ever. Right now we own a 14-yr poodle, and five turtles, but my mother really wants and deserves a puppy. She has wanted one for so many years. We used to own shelties before that had litters, we took care of the puppies (I remember bottle-feeding the runts) and would give them to family. And I'm sure that my parents would pay for bills if something were to happen to the dog, we just didn't want to pay for a heart surgery for a dog we literally got less then 48 hrs ago. My mom doesn't want to give her up, I'm watching her cuddle the dog right now. But we simply can't give this particular pup the care she needs. -
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Mon, May 5, 2008 - 11:30 PMIs the breeder taking the puppy back?
Are they ( whomever had her first) going to be able to help her?
Just curious is all...
And like I said, I am not throwing attitude at you or your parents... getting a dog is just something a lot of people seem to do on a whim and then have no conception of the costs and responsibilities involved. That sort of thinking concerns me, so I say something while trying to assume that those people aren't stupid, just wrapped up in all the awesomeness that comes with having a dog.
Its a hard situation for everyone involved and I am sorry.. I hope everything works out all right for all- your parents, and the puppy. -
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Mon, May 5, 2008 - 11:44 PMI honestly don't know, my mother is taking her back tomorrow. The breeder wanted to keep her in the first place. And no, we didn't get one on a whim, like I said, its something my parents have been considering for years, but they certainly weren't planning on taking a pup that had a whole lot of health problems off the bat. We used to raise shelties, but we haven't for years. So i wasn't sure what options, (if any) we had with this pup. I don't want to take her back, neither does my mother, I've been trying to keep her from crying.
I asked her about sheltie rescue, she says she's checked it out already, but the dogs are old. (At least the ones she checked out were.) I even asked my friends who work at the local shelters to keep an eye out for a sheltie for me for a long time. We thought we lucked out with this breeder. Oh well. It wasn't meant to be with this pup. -
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Mon, May 5, 2008 - 11:47 PMUm ... "but the dogs are old" is something that really gets up my nose. These are dogs that need and deserve a loving home. I am not saying that puppies are any less worthy, but as someone who spent time as a shelter volunteer with the San Francisco SPCA (a no-kill shelter) helping "old" dogs find wonderful second-chance families, I tend to get pissed off when someone dismisses a dog because it is no longer a puppy. -
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Mon, May 5, 2008 - 11:57 PMI understand that old dogs deserve good homes too, I said I had 14 yr old dog and I love her every minute of the day, but my mother deserves a pup.
I admire the work that people in shelters do, and like I said I have friends who work in shelters and I have spent time there as well. Every dog deserves a good home, even puppies. -
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Tue, May 6, 2008 - 12:15 AMI think we can all agree we all like us some dogs.
And the expression" Gets up my nose" got whiskey up my nose. -
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Re: Need advice quick, on a sheltie...
Tue, May 6, 2008 - 12:42 AMLet me know how it all works out. -
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Tue, May 6, 2008 - 9:40 AMYes, I hope it all works out for you... It's easy to get attached fast and having to let her go will be hard.
I wouldn't want to pay the large bill just coming out of the gate so to speak, either.
I understand, it's the breeders responsibility really.
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Re: Need advice quick, on a sheltie...
Tue, May 6, 2008 - 9:46 AMWAIT !
I found some YOUNG SHELTIES up for adoption online in the Los Angeles area.... !
I think you are in Chino Hills.... I will PM you....
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