I think if someone treats you like that then theyre not your friend. I'd just cut them out totally. Or severely limit interaction with them. If they actually give a damn enough to inquire then just be honest and tell them how you feel. If they dont understand and give you more negativity just tell them to go fuck themselves and find someone else to manipulate. That youre not their puppet. Fuck'em. I know it sucks when you like the person though. But if theyre toxic what you wish could be a good friendship is probably never going to happen. Life is too short to waste time with some people. If you arent fairly certain that you both truly love each other as friends and people then just let them go. Forget about them. Pretend they are lost souls just wandering around aimlessly. Allow yourself to be sad about it for a few hours or a day or whatever. Then just move on. There are plenty of good people in the world. Just keep in mind that none of us are perfect too. I have to remind myself to keep my own unrealistic expectations of others in check. But for the most part my expectations arent unrealistic. Just think the worst of everyone and when they prove you wrong enjoy the pleasant surprise. lol

IMHO, I would say drop the person completely. If they can't value friendship, and just simply can't be friends, then how could they have success at a relationship? A friendship is more valuable than anything else, as you have to have a friendship before any relationship...

Shells baby you asked the answer.... friendships are so much more precious than a relationship and like is worth more than love. When you're in it for love and its mutual it is sweet and it is beautiful...but a friendship is irreplaceable. You can say more... do more with a friend, forgive a friend, fight and make up with a friend.... but a lover scorned... mm mm mm... is the wretchedest wickedest being.

Well people have to earn the upper body press and really earn the upper and lower body press.

What about the back pat.

So then just what does your "come hither" look look like?

You can get some gnarly facial tattoos,
and wear all spikes, chains and leather...
should reduce the propensity people might have for hugging you.
-Don't forget the nose ring.


;)

As a homo I usually look at hot men and automatically think they are probably straight and only into women. I think it's funny how many straight men look and act totally gay even though they are married to women and supposedly totally not gay at all. How many str8 men are so effeminate and are apparently oblivious to the fact. Simultaneously funny & sad. I pity the fool that try to eat my cereal.

Shells I think even though people hear you, they are hoping things will change. Maybe he's thinking that with time you will fall for him because he is so into you. After all, alot of long term love relationships start off as just good friendships. It could be seen as a natural thing. It's just his desire. Not really creepy unless he continues after a long time. Like if three months or a year from now he is still trying to hump your leg? Then you can just slap the shit out of him and scream "LOOK MOTHER FUCKER!!! I'M NOT INTERESTED!!!" : )

You just haven't got to really know him yet. There's not a man in the world any woman can resist once she gets to really know him.