WAMEDA Hafla 2009

topic posted Sun, September 13, 2009 - 2:55 PM by  anonymous
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I attended the WAMEDA Halfla this weekend and I have never been so rude to. After all of the classes were finished I did a little shopping at one of the venders. Some one I am guessing the coordinator of the event began to bark the vendors needed to close. From what I understood the tables were not going to move but she got the vendors and including my self so anxious that I almost could not compete my purchase. The young lady was trying to swipe my card and this woman kept barking! I do not know where her business sense comes from but obviously she has none. She was rude and created negative energy with all of her barking. She was also rude and mean to some other young lady who was just trying to let her friend know she was there. I do not know what is going on at WAMEDA but it needs to be dealt with if it still wants to exist. I have been to many halflas and bellydance conventions and the energy that I experienced this weekend was anything but positive. I hope the problem is remedied before next year.
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anonymous
Maryland
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  • Re: WAMEDA Hafla 2009

    Tue, September 15, 2009 - 7:01 AM
    **from the moderator**

    I will be forwarding this note to WAMEDA and strongly suggest that you also write them or approach them directly with any feedback or questions regarding this past event rather than post something publicly without any clear followup. Given that they are a membership organization, hearing from the community should be very important.

    Though i understand that anonymity protects some, it also can be very hurtful to others. We've had previous difficulties with anonymous members leaving commentaries and allegations that have really disrupted this tribe and hurt the reputation of its members.

    Please know you are welcome to be a full member of this forum. We look forward to getting to know you.


    Sincerely,

    -Marta
    • Re: WAMEDA Hafla 2009

      Tue, September 15, 2009 - 7:54 AM
      I agree Marta, in the bellydance community we can't give much credence to anonymous postings.
      • Re: WAMEDA Hafla 2009

        Fri, September 18, 2009 - 2:20 PM
        Anthea and Marta,
        Based on current WAMEDA practices I am encouraging Anonymous to put her name and come forward publicly. Contacting you offlist.
        Samira
        • Re: WAMEDA Hafla 2009

          Sat, September 19, 2009 - 7:15 PM
          I've forwarded this thread to WAMEDA and have received a reply confirming they received it.

          That's really all there is to do from my end. Thank you everyone!
  • Re: WAMEDA Hafla 2009

    Tue, September 22, 2009 - 5:29 AM
    As an 2009 Board Member and attendee of the 2009 WAMEDA Hafla, I have to respond, professionally yet firmly, to these accusations. I absolutely did NOT witness any disrespet, "barking," "negative energy" or rudeness by the "Coordinator of the event." Since Anonymous lives in Maryland, she sheuld know the name of the "coordinator" of the Hafla, and I will not cite it here. The 2009 Board of Directors has been under UNNECESSARY attack this year and it is all because they DARED to make a change and to move a SERIOUSLY dying organization into the 21st century to keep it alive. Otherwise, it would have died and those who are past officers know this for a FACT. Most of the individuals who are putting forth complaints haven't been active in WAMEDA for a hundred years (not literally) and now, all of a sudden, they have all kinds of things to say. The 2009 HAFLA and 30th Anniversary weekend was a BIG SUCCESS, despite the attempts of fellow dancers to "boycott," tear down or speak negative things against it. "AND STILL I RISE" - SOOOOOOOOO APPROPRIATE!! The intelligence of the 2009 Board is SERIOUSLY underestimated for BLATANT reasons, and I, as well as the other Board members take offense to that. There is a lot of unnecessary division, jealously and competition between Middle Eastern dancers in the DC area and within the different RACES of dancers in the DC area. I am sooooooo sick of it!! Please get yourselves together and CUT THE NONSENSE!!! We are SUPPOSED to be one community, but NOT!!! Also, before you pounce on the 2009 Board of Directors about what their "current practices" are, you'd better stop yourself and check out the previous Board of Directors' "past practices." Also, if you have a complaint, instead of sending emails to the moderator of this tribe, there is a comment section on the WAMEDA website to leave your comments. Posting them on tribe and on any public forum is UNPROFESSIONAL AND COWARDLY, and I have seen more than I've wanted to this year. This is my ONE AND ONLY response on this as I've seen, in previous discussions, it will turn into a bashing session, and I am SOOOOOOOO ABOVE THAT!! Take it to the website!! Thank you!!

    Pameyla
    • Re: WAMEDA Hafla 2009

      Tue, September 22, 2009 - 8:07 AM
      Thank you Pameyla.

      I've decided to close this thread after WAMEDA's response and will delete any further additions. Any other comments or questions, PLEASE follow up directly with WAMEDA as requested.

      If there is a need to further discuss community building and support in belly dance in our region, then please, let's do that in a new thread.


      -Marta

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