I really want a bad boy

topic posted Thu, September 10, 2009 - 8:04 AM by  Tigressa
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I'm with a good boy, boring as hell. I have always enjoyed the bad boys and have been more attracted to them. Why? I am guessing it is because I am more of a bad girl then a good girl.

Why do you suppose that women are so attracted to bad boys?
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Tigressa
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  • Good Girls for Bad Boys

    Thu, September 10, 2009 - 8:44 AM
    Were you a good girl in school who played by the rules but secretly had it bad for a guy from the wrong side of the tracks? Did you root for the seductively dark bad guy in the movies? Secretly want to be taken and done hard? Does Alan Alda make you vomit while you smile politely? Welcome home.
    goodgirls4badboys.tribe.net

    Ring any bells?
  • Re: I really want a bad boy

    Thu, September 10, 2009 - 10:49 AM
    i wonder that too! i think it is because they are a challange



    but i am not a bad boy lover--so if any come my way i will hand them over to you :)
    i like the geeks...secretly dirty boys for me please
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      Re: I really want a bad boy

      Thu, September 10, 2009 - 11:28 AM
      This secretly-dirty geek boy just raised his hand.
      • Re: I really want a bad boy

        Thu, September 10, 2009 - 12:05 PM
        I consider my ex to be a kind of bad boy in some ways.. I know that he drove me crazy MOST of the time:) Maybe it's because they keep you on your toes.. like your always having to work more for their attention?

        I want a good guy now though. Or not good all around, but like the majority of the time.
        • Re: I really want a bad boy

          Thu, September 10, 2009 - 12:58 PM
          Good guy with bad tendencies holding up his hand!!
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            Re: I really want a bad boy

            Thu, September 10, 2009 - 1:37 PM
            Snacky and Luna, there's a complexly versatile raised hand for each of you!

            I'm sure Lester and I can take turns demonstrating our unique mixes of good and bad, clean and dirty, to both of you, one at a time, or all at once, over and over, and then again.

            :-D
  • Pfffft

    Thu, September 10, 2009 - 1:43 PM
    <----- unapologetic bad boy who's grown enough to know when to let it out and when to use it for the forces of good.
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      Re: Pfffft

      Thu, September 10, 2009 - 2:24 PM
      Ok Ti, so tell me, and us...what's your definition of a bad boy, as opposed to a good one?
      • Re: Pfffft

        Thu, September 10, 2009 - 3:28 PM
        Good question, I was just thinking that myself. O.K. my guy's good traits which are all top notch and am lucky to have, any girl would be. Hard worker, good provider, cleans does laundry, you name it he is good at it, except the dirty fun side which is talk naughty, act naughty, be a bit more into some of the kinky things. I love to have conversation with dirty conotations, it is just a thrill for me. He doesn't enjoy that or take part in it. I want him to take part in some of the crazy things I like to do. He gets embarassed if I dance dirty with him, and I love to dance dirty and flirty. He doesn't like it if I straddle his lap. He always thinks that everyone is looking, so what I think! O.k. so now I have to say that I want a good boy that does bad things, O.k. bad things would really be good things Hell now I got myself confused. Does any of that make sense?
        • Re: Pfffft

          Fri, September 11, 2009 - 3:17 AM
          Ti, I like your definition of a "bad boy" because that's who I am. You can sit on my lap and girate to your hearts content anytime you want.I love to talk dirty and suggetively, privately and publicly.. When we are out in public to come up behind you and rub my groin against your ass. Sitting in a car or movie and run my hand up under your skirt and play with your sex.

          Damn, I need a bad girl now.
        • Re: Pfffft

          Sun, September 13, 2009 - 11:31 AM
          <a good boy that does bad things>

          That totally makes sense, T... sounds like me.
          Thanks for the insight!
    • Re: Pfffft

      Thu, September 10, 2009 - 2:38 PM
      <---------lucky girl who has the BEST of both worlds!
      • Re: Pfffft

        Thu, September 10, 2009 - 3:29 PM
        Lucky you shan, any room for a third in that arrangement? : )
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          Re: Pfffft

          Thu, September 10, 2009 - 4:35 PM
          LOL, yes, it makes sense.....
          • Re: Pfffft

            Fri, September 11, 2009 - 8:02 AM
            A good boy that does bad things.. I like that Tigressa:) And why do some guys get weirded out by dancing?? I never understand why guys just can't let go when it comes to that.. as if dancing is some way not cool or something.
        • Re: Pfffft

          Tue, September 15, 2009 - 6:01 AM
          You don't need that Tigressa. You need a good boy like me, who loves being bad and still is the good boy when you want me to be good. You can straddle my lap for all to see and I love dancing dirty and flirty and all those other wonderful bad things you dream about
          • Re: Pfffft

            Thu, September 17, 2009 - 10:40 AM
            that sounds hot!

            sidenote: tribe has been WAY sucking for me, you guys. I'm stuck in this weird sign-in loop. Like today, I had to sign in 12 times just to get here. wtf?.. Anyway I miss you guys, and I hope this thing fixes itself soon, cause it's way annoying.
            • Re: Pfffft

              Thu, September 17, 2009 - 11:15 AM
              There's been some server problems for the last couple of days, Luna. Tribe does have it's problems, and sometimes they get frustrating, but in my eyes, it's the best bunch of people around. I'll put up with some technical glitches to hang out with you and the rest of my friends here.
  • Re: I really want a bad boy

    Thu, September 17, 2009 - 12:33 PM
    Tigressa, I just reread your original post here, and have been thinking about it, relating it to my own situation. Here's what I think, for what it's worth. You're not bored because of the fact that your guy is a good boy. You're bored because this particular good boy isn't taking enough interest in you as a woman. I bet if he started going to your dance events, taking pictures of you, putting his arms around you in public, kissing you, grabbing your ass, playing with your nipples in public, kissing your neck in public, making love to you like he means it, you'd be much happier with your good boy, wouldn't you? Those aren't bad boy things, are they? You just want your man to love you and not to be afraid to show it. Maybe I have the whole picture wrong, I don't know. What do you think?
    • Re: I really want a bad boy

      Thu, September 17, 2009 - 8:41 PM
      Lester I think you nailed it! I am always number 2, he is gone for a week and I got a quickie that lasted less then a minute this morning, he had to get in the shower to go to work. I just don't get it???? The last time it got to this I left..... I keep wondering if coming back was a big mistake? Part of this is my fault, I have always been extremely supportive with his career. Maybe I just better put my foot down, before I put it in his ass : ) Thanks friend, love ya...... hugs and kisses : )
  • Re: I really want a bad boy

    Thu, October 1, 2009 - 1:44 AM
    i'm a bad girly who enjoys corrupting the good boys. and Oh i've done this so many times! it's a delicious feeling to have this power...
    • Re: I really want a bad boy

      Thu, October 1, 2009 - 11:59 AM
      As long as the bad boys you create still treat you nice.
      • Re: I really want a bad boy

        Thu, October 1, 2009 - 5:46 PM
        of course. i demand it. or they won't get treats.
        • Re: I really want a bad boy

          Thu, October 1, 2009 - 8:03 PM
          Or you could spank them if they don't behave. But some of them might like that. And spank back. Yes, I am following you.
          • Re: I really want a bad boy

            Thu, October 1, 2009 - 8:03 PM
            Because the view is delicious.
            • :: shakes head slowly ::

              Thu, October 1, 2009 - 9:49 PM
              You guys are killin' me. I dont know *what* you're talking about but no self respecting bad boy would have any of it. And no bratty, feisty, alpha girl who secretly wants to be taken would have any respect for a lover who'd roll belly up and pee if she griped about touching her hair during sex. Respecting negotiated limits, yes. Thats the difference between Dominant and dominating. The latter is borne of insecurity and not 'bad' at all, just childish. Dominant is a confidence that radiates with a look. Its strong enough to care about your partners spirit while taking her surrender in a way that just makes her crave to give deeper.

              Just sayin'.
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                Re: :: shakes head slowly ::

                Fri, October 2, 2009 - 9:31 PM
                Great discription of the Dominant Spirit.
                • Re: :: shakes head slowly ::

                  Fri, October 2, 2009 - 10:13 PM
                  Ok, Plaisir, your honest opinion. If I pull Daughter's hair, while she pees in my hand, is that bad boy, or good boy being bad?
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                    Good or bad??

                    Sat, October 3, 2009 - 2:19 PM
                    To me, good is not the opposite of bad, it is a difference in attitude.

                    Lester, I know you to be a very erotic and sensual man, yet a good guy. So as you stand there with a handful of Daughter's hair in your fist and your other hand full of her pee I see you as a good man having a lot of consensual fun. Your attitude, I'm certain, would be one of wanting to provide her with the pleasure she seeks.

                    On the other hand, if you were a cocky sob standing there pulling her hair from it's roots demanding she pee in your hand (which would I'm sure make her cream her panties since we're talking about Daughter..grin..) then I would see you as a bad boy having a lot of consensual fun. Your attitude would probably be one of concern that you got your rocks off.

                    So, my friend, good or bad it was all concensual. IMHO
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                      Re: Good or bad??

                      Sat, October 3, 2009 - 2:29 PM
                      I would also add that I do not equate good or bad with the Dominant Spirit. A Dominant is a Dominant regardless if his personality is good guy or badass....nuff said.
                      • Re: Good or bad??

                        Sat, October 3, 2009 - 2:55 PM
                        i like you! a lot.
                        • Re: Good or bad??

                          Sun, October 4, 2009 - 6:06 AM
                          I am a bit of both.
                          I enjoy being a bad boy even a very naughty boy when its the time and exciting.
                          On the other hand I am a gentleman and like to treat women as something special.
                          I'll treat you naughty, I'll be your bad biker boy, I'll get down and dirty when the time is right.
                          I'll hold the door for you, pull your chair out, offer you my arm, be polite and give you my attention when the time and place call for it.
                          In the bedroom or the car or wheverever, I'll be as naughty and nasty.
                          Is sex dirty?
                          Only if it's done right.
  • Re: I really want a bad boy

    Mon, November 2, 2009 - 12:16 PM
    I think there needs to be a 'bad boy' questionnaire... hey, do I qualify if I got punched by a neighbor? :)

    Sometimes, being a bad boy's all about what's in the mind....
    • Re: I really want a bad boy

      Tue, November 3, 2009 - 5:21 PM
      Not necessarily,
      but if you had punched the neighbor you would be a candidate.
      or
      If you got in your neighbor's wife's pants, you would definitely be a
      bad boy.

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