At some point you are going to have to emasculate him, or, feminize him. If he does housework, if he obeys you, then the rest is easy. If he still watches TV while you do the ironing you have a problem.
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What are you strengths in yoru relationship with your hubby? What are his weaknesses? Can you play upon those at all? Why does he want to submit to you? What does the erotic charge that he gets out of submission look for feel like to him?

A male submissive can pretty much look and act like anything: a bodyguard, a sissy maid, a butler, breeding stock, a smitten student, a prisoner, a cuckold, etc. What do you want from dominanting him? What gets you both hot? I find that simply observing my boy, commenting on his behavior and experimenting can drop him into subspace almost immediately about half of the time. There was once a specially themed website on female dominance called The Thrallos Foundation, the name of which comes from the idea of keeping a man enthralled.

What makes your guy wanna give it up? From there, the possibilities are endless.

i am not sure of the protocol of this Tribe - as a submissive male, may i respond to Your post? i can at least give You an answer from my perspective.