Good morning, I joined the tribe yesterday, I am not sure I belong I assume all of you will tell me. I like to call my self an Alpha female, or a Goddess, sometimes Contessa. I do not like the term Dominatrix, several years ago I work for a while as a Dom. on the encouragement of several friends in the life, you must understand I am about 6' tall,very white skin, dark haired and blue eyed, like snow white,my Dom friends insisted I would be quite popular, and I was/am. I was uncomfortable at best, I felt sympathy for these men not rage like I was suppossed to. I feel from a biological stand point women are superior, it's just facts. I don't believe it is an excuse to lord over someone. I am a protector, nurturer and from what I am told I am fearless, for lack of better word I am very Yang. The men I enjoy want to please me becuase they are impressed with my strength and innate power. I in turn envision them as sort of knights sworn to protect me and give me comfort. The reason they want to give me pleasure is not fear but admirasion, I encourage quite worship, not over the top belittlement. I see so many sites, ads, magazines, were dominant women are portrayed as mean or bad, I am neither. Is this site right for me?