sex work as a transman

topic posted Tue, August 28, 2007 - 11:37 AM by  Micah
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Throwing out a topic I am interested in, hoping to start discussion. I wanted to know if people have done some or have considered it and how you've presented during it if you have.
How would you feel about having to do drag for sex work?
Would you allow yourself to be fetishized as a transperson? Play on it? Fetishize yourself?


curious...


Micah.
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Micah
SF Bay Area
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  • Re: sex work as a transman

    Tue, August 28, 2007 - 12:13 PM
    I've known at least one guy who has done drag for sex work in SF.

    I think there is a transmasculine sex work LJ community....I'll look....but I don't think it's active....hmmm, I don't see it on my list...I think it may just be connected to one of the anonymous trans sex LJs.

    great questions btw
    • Re: sex work as a transman

      Wed, August 29, 2007 - 11:11 AM
      yeah, I figured that a lot of transguys who could still ever potentially pass as female or even as an MTF (I think i look like an MTF when I dress in drag) do sex work as some women of perhaps different kinds.

      I don't neccessarily need a whole community, really I was here trying to get people talking. =)
  • Re: sex work as a transman

    Sat, September 8, 2007 - 3:07 PM
    It's an interesting question, re "marketing," for lack of a better word.

    I think that a lot of MTF sex workers are engaged by men who know -- on some level -- what they're getting. I'm sure that there are the occasional clients who are too drunk to realize (or do they need to be drunk to allow themselves to get what they want -- to have sex with a MTF?)

    So what do you imagine would be going on with men who choose a FTM sex worker?

    I have to say that I haven't a clue about being a client. I've only had sex with female sex workers -- as a client -- on a couple of occasions and those were at the insistence of friends whom I'd accompanied to brothels (I suspect with a potent clandestine homoerotic motivation).
    • Re: sex work as a transman

      Sat, September 8, 2007 - 4:16 PM
      perhaps men who have homoerotic fantasies who are too homophobic to have sex involving two erectable penises, so they may choose a transman without bottom surgery. Some of the men might be bisexual and are curious about a different anatomy. Some of them might just really be into ftms.

      In my case, the sex work I do mostly involves a wig, make up and skirts. So I do it ftmtf style.

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