Hi, I'm ... and I'm looking for ... (the personals topic)

topic posted Fri, September 14, 2007 - 10:57 AM by  Kim
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Our lovely and talented host suggested that we have a topic where we can let each other know who we're attracted to and what we like to do.

I think everyone should feel free to be as explicit (or as vague) about it as they like. My ad might read "will do anything with anyone." (Well, that's not strictly true, but pretty close.) But perhaps someone else is only interested in 21-25 y.o. redheaded transmen who weigh between 110-125 lbs and are 5'6"-5'8" tall, have blue eyes, are into watersports and cutting (bottom only). Oh, and MUST be left-handed. Gap between front teeth a plus.

I mean, let's face it, what we want changes and sometimes the chemistry is just so right that you'll do that sumo dude even though you're looking for a femme dyke. And you might think you're just looking for hookups but then the person is so sweet and into you that it turns into a regular thing and then all of a sudden you're picking out silver and china.
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  • OK I'll bite..

    I'm a 49 y/o transguy, transitioned 15 years, gay leatherman (mostly top, but will bottom if the chemistry is right), 5'3", 145lb, crewcut, goatee, 1", 6" or 9" LOL. Very left-brained and literal-minded, voracious reader (don't own a TV), gardener, environmentalist, musician (classical, folk, celtic, medieval and renaissance), SCAdian, LEGO freak.

    I'm looking for big furry bears or cute skinny boys into or interested in leather and BDSM. Non-trans or trans guys, any transition stage (however you define your transition). More interested in what's between ears than between legs, but I love doing CBT on whatever parts you have "down there".

    I live in a small ferry-access-only town in coastal BC, Canada, and not likely to move, so hard to get to, but I do visit Vancouver and Victoria.
  • Ok, I'm not single but if I was it would go something like this :

    Me, 43, gay transman into leather, transitioning for 25 years (allready !? wow ... time flies when u'r having fun !!!). A bit shy but warms up quickly.
    Very passionate, lots of imagination, with a little kinky twist !!!

    I would be looking for a gay transman or bio man with the pecs of death. Basicaly, I would be looking for Vin Diesel hahahaha (anybody got his number ... heard he was gay, but I think it's whishful thinking !!!!)

    But seriously, someone with a muscular/gym body who appreciate life for what it is, it's struggles and it's succes, and what it can teach you. I would be looking for someone who was interested in a long time relationship. Maybe a guy older that me ... maybe in his early fifties. A nice leatherman with a open mind and a open heart.

    Max
  • Hi,

    please help ...

    I have a friend, a transman like me, who has been with the same woman (who he loves dearly) for a long time. Now, since his hysterectomy, he has started becoming more and more attracted to gay men. He doesn't know why and would like to try to figure this out.

    He says any anwser would be welcome. He's going out of his mind !!!! He wouldn't cheat of his girlfriend but I see him looking more and more often a men when we walk down main street. He says he isn't gay and he can't see himself in a relation with a man. But he doesn't understand, why out of the blue, he finds himself looking at gay men ...

    Thanks, Max
    • it could pass with time, just like my sexual needs and desires ebb and flow. perhaps him and his partner need to open up their relationship for some time so he can explore a bit and get comfortable with that part of himself. or watch more porn and jerk off together or maybe she should role play with him so he can let his fantasy run. he could also call dan savage's lovecast or email. dan usually gives stellar advice, even if his trans politics could use improvement.
  • new to seattle and liking it much. the fall weather got me all riled up and I want to show off/play with the new chest.

    my ad would (and does read)- boy wants playmates, butch, femme, whatever; male, female or other, some fat to hold on to or slender is fine too, i prefer over 26 but open to all. bear are tasty but so are twinks. no labels, no worries. kink is great, all kinds of kink including vanilla, switch with top tendancies and small fists that like to find warm spaces. short is nice (i am) but I can take down tall folks too. would flag lots of things if I could just remember the damn hanky code.

    have 5'9" switch punk boi that can be included in the package
  • Hmmm

    I'm a 45 y/o intersexed guy. I'm queer. I can't really define my sexuality elsewise, as the definitions are based on a presumption of a gender binary, of which I am not a part. I am kinky. I am mostly a top, but do LOVE to get a good deep fucking or have the right person sit on my face. I am 6'1", medium build, some gynomastia (the coolest thing my body ever did!), short hair, thinning on top, goatee, glasses. I also have hips, soft skin & hair, very small hands & feet (size 9), and tend to lubricate when I'm excited. my OE is a bit over 6", but I have small skilled hands for those looking for a bit more size. I have a very very deep voice.. like Darth Vader or Barry White.

    I'm both very right brained and very left brained, if that makes any sense. I'm a certifed massage therapist, I am fascinated by cryptozoology (study of things like bigfoot & lochness), I like hiking & exploring the bay area. I love discovering hidden beauty with my camera.

    I'm looking for boyish FTMs, androgynous folks (butch gals, femme boys of any gender that like a good spanking or flogging. VERY attracted to anyone with a a fat clit or a small dick. I love the in-between more than the extreme (not into super butch boys or super femme gals)... Ideally, I really want someone with whom I have a conection, such that if we have a play date... and end up chatting the whole time, either of us will regret the time spent. Fuck buddies are dandy.. but I really like to emphasize the friend aspect of FWBs.

    I prefer folks that are in the bay area. I'm happy to chat or exchange messages with anyone, but long distance cyber is just not that hot to me.

    If anyone has any questions, fire away. I'm alot of things, but I'm not shy

    Max

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