Very cool dream, Dave - I think some use should be made of this, and whatever use you do make, you will benefit. Like Lettuce says -- make a novel of it! Do the research, get every nuance out of it you can --- test it in the field. Here's the interesting twist, to me: even though in conscious life you would never want or be attracted to someone more messed up than you (and I'm not recommending that either anyway), in the subconscious mind, if you feel actually, factually linked to them, by blood and energy, there is total acceptance of both sides by both sides. Your subconscious mind could be more open than your conscious mind. So, where are you already connected to other men in an undeniable, unavoidable way? The answer you come up with will probably be something you never came up with before.