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I'm 23 and still have night terrors. I woke up today with my hands in front of me like i was trying to push something away, but I wasn't dreaming of anything like that. I forget what I was dreaming now, but I remember that it wasn't anything bad. A couple days ago I was screaming in my sleep. Anyone here have similar experiences and have any tips besides medication?
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Re: Night Terrors
Wed, August 12, 2009 - 4:23 AMI haven't experienced night terrors. But I've done the talking in the sleep, sleep walking and
countless sleep paralysis eps really weird shit to the point I didn't want to sleep. What
helped is getting rid of any stress. If you can find ways to destress before bed that would
be good. Stuff like this tends to run in familes has anyone else in your family dealt with
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Wed, August 12, 2009 - 10:21 AMall these ...night terrors, sleepwalking, sleep paralysis, etc - are "mixed brain states" where the electrical energy patterns of your brain are partly in waking and partly in sleeping mode. meditation and biofeedback are really helpful for many people in working toward a more definiteve sleeping or waking.I'm prone to these, mostly the sleep paralysis but occasional sleepwalking (usually something like running into the living room to chase a ghostly intruder) and jsut general confusion between waking and sleeping (e.g., I have dreamt that a friend has died and wake up thinking that;s really sad, and starting to plan my waking life day with the thought that so-and-so is dead, before I awaken enough to realize that he died IN MY DREAMS. somhow I;m always glad to see that person in waking life...) - I;e also woken up part way and spent a few minutes wondering where I am or "how am I going to explain this to my husband?" before I was awake enough to realize I was in my own bed and had nothing to explain to anyone .
I rather like the Senoi-inspired methods of confronting a dream adversary while awake, drawing a picture of the dream event, or re-entering the dream in a guided meditation and confronting the character, to ask it "why are you chasing me?" or offering OR requesting a gift from the adversary. there's also the approaches before bedtime of painting a golden circle as a smbol of containing energies over your bed at night (I like them freshly drawn or painted), or doing a simple centering ritual asking for calm dreams and a calm awakening before bed - sometiems making some kind of mandala on an altar with nature objects, or ringing bells for a moment or two, works well.
I had a really bad poor-sleep night fro anxiety a couple nights ago, so I'm not 100% on top of this, but it;s a lot better.
check your diet for B-vtamins and supplement as neede; it relly does seem t help with the neurologically-expressed stress. -
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Re: Night Terrors
Wed, August 12, 2009 - 1:37 PMB-vitamins might have something to do with it since I don't eat much red meat or leafy greens.
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Re: Night Terrors
Wed, September 30, 2009 - 4:33 PM
Speaking of the Senoi, Jon Hassel drew inspiration from their cultural approach
to dreaming for his release "Dream Theory in Malaya"
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Wed, August 12, 2009 - 1:37 PMmy dad has sleep apnea and my mom used to sleep walk when she was younger but grew out of it. Maybe I should try some yoga before bed -
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Wed, August 12, 2009 - 2:47 PMCouldn't hurt. My friend does yoga before bed. It's helped her sleep a hell of a lot better.
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Re: Night Terrors
Wed, August 26, 2009 - 10:58 AMI have constant night terrors, but I usually remember what I dreamed. In my experience it's suppressed memories of something that happened in the past, that still lingers in the back of my mind. -
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Thu, August 27, 2009 - 11:58 PMI've had them since I was young. Nothing traumatic happened to me. I was always overly sensitive as a child, though. So every bad thing that happened was traumatic to me haha -
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Fri, August 28, 2009 - 10:46 AMI inherited night terrors and sleepwalking from my father (and insomnia from my grandmother - so really, I could hardly choose if I wanted to go to bed, haha!). At first I'd just have the occasional thing where I'd be in a nightmare and act like I was wide awake: I'd come downstairs and actually tell whoever was there what was happening and beg them to help me, but they thought I was making some kind of strange joke and seekign attention. I never have had the slightest memory of any of this, despite being able to recall "normal" dreams well. I would just get in trouble with my parents for being "weird" and disruptive again. It felt unfair to me. They actually spanked me once while I was dreaming I was drowning and kept coming back in to the living room where they were entertaining some people, and I wouldn't quit, but I have zero memory of it. The spanking did not wake me up and apparently, I didn't seem to feel it. But did quit coming back after that.
The night terrors got really bad when I was in high school, hardly ever slept and I would start screaming and keep screaming on and on until someone actually came and physically woke me. I lived in a little house at the back of the property and so usually this person was our next-door neighbor, that's how loud I was. Plus my parents were so sick of me that they just ignored any screaming. I have never remembered any of it except once, only once, I did wake myself up with the noise, and heard the tail end of a scream and was really confused: was that me? why am I screaming? It's like it happened to some other person who was only there when I was unconscious and did not communicate with "me."
Night terrors and sleepwalking and all of this seemed to happen when I was in an extremely deep sleep state and had not been getting enough sleep. Also there all kinds of anxieties at the time but it was so common to have anxiety that I can't pick that out as a cause. I grew out of it. As far as I know (haha!) it was done by the time I was about 21 and I never even have nightmares more than once a decade or so. At the same time, I stopped sleeping so heavily and went to probably a more normal sleep cycle in my 20s. My father's did not wear off, as far as I know, but were made worse by his being injured in combat. Nobody could live with him after that, he could get dangerous.
I did sleepwalk a couple of months ago, and I know this because I woke up in the living room going WTF? How'd I get here? It was kinda fun.
It's really the strangest aspect of my life, because I keep very mentally aware of myself, my thoughts, my actions, my beliefs, my words, in waking life. But I suspect I had a whole different life in my sleep, but I only know about it if other people witnessed it. I don't think I've ever done any harm to anyone, or eaten stuff (as seems really common), but I do know I've walked right out of the house and taken off down the street many times at various ages. Glad it's over, really.
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Re: Night Terrors
Mon, October 26, 2009 - 11:29 PMMaybe enjoy it because the mind and body do stuff?