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Hi all, I am just another blogger confused about a capricorn. Met this lovely, confusing the hell out of me guy almost a month ago through mutual freinds. We hung out on a saturday night and things moved VERY quickly. I'll spare you the hot details. LOL. Well, I woke up that sunday morning with that OOPS fator & i was suprised that I wasn't ready to run away . Although that may of been hard because he had me in his embrace/ restraint., I'm not a cuddler unless it's a boyfriend. It usually makes me very uncomfortable. He on the other hand had me feeling quite cozy. We spent half the day watching movies, well atleast he did. I can't seem to sit still for to long..lol. His friend poppd up at my door 2 pick him up and spoiled the party. I heard from my friend that my cap was avoiding his phone calls like he didn't want to leave. He gave me the wierdest goodbye I've ever had. He kissed me on my lips, cheek, fore head and eyebrow? wierd but nice. so he called me 2 say hi the next day, VERY brief but left me feeling like I made a good impression after that big OOPS factor. NOW, this is where the chase begins. I call him, no answer. He calls me, I answer. I tex , no responce...no responce.....no responce. About two weeks go by and I got the feeling that he wasn't interested. so , i texd him and told him I enjoyed his company but i'm a big girl that can take a hint and to take care. I got an immediate responce in which he said, " NO NO NO baby I will see you soon." We hooked up again and I was on cloud nine the entire time. He is such a gentlemen. I've never had a guy butter my waffle ..lol , yes I mean "waffle" . He stayed the night again and left the next day. about a week went by and he didn't call to say hi or anything. I was trying to be patient becasue of the whole distant cap thing and that failed quickly so I texd him askin if he liked me and he replied, YES YES YES. It's been a couple days since the YES, YES, YES answer and I texd him this evening and simply said , " hi, how r u..........and no responce????????? I don't get it. I have virgo best friend and she thinks that him saying yes three times was an irritated yes and i took the other way. I don't know if it's a virgo thing but she can't seem to ever step out of her box and her perceptions of people so I don't know if she's the best person to ask in this case. I feel like i'm in grade school. I got butterflies and asking my friends if he likes me. I've read all the other bloggs about these reserved, cautious ......... capricorns. I just want to understand how someone can blow u off and show no signs of you exhisting and then make you feel the total oppositte. His distance makes me feel like he is not interested. I'm not clingy. I don't expect anything from him. Just a casual hello and his company would be nice . I told him the same thing but course ........ no responce. I would appreciate your input! Does he like me ; )????
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Re: Aries women Clueless and confused about cap male.......Need a capricorns insight
Thu, April 23, 2009 - 9:33 PMim no cap, but got enough of a cap influence (5 plantes + asc + saturn conjunct asc) so i might as well give u some useful insight..
We do like the chase (especially being chased) but its gotta be something paused and discreet (like mostly everything else we do)... maybe hes being distant not because of being distant...y, but because hes got just so many things to do and to think about that the 2 seconds hes got to text you back, he probably uses them to sleep or rest for a minute.
on the other hand, aries people many many times do tend to irritate me. their inciative really astounds me (and you seem to be a girl that goes for what she wants, which is really really cool) but aries, in my experiencie, just have this... crassy way of going for what they want. its such a raw force that, while impressive for its, well, force or magnitude, is kind of brute and or coarse. no manners or an "adequate" way of just GOING for what u want.
i must agree with ur virgo friend... the YES YES YES text was probably an irritated yes... hes shown genuine interest though, we dont tend to invest that much of our energy and TIME on someone unless we believe its worth it, so he pretty much likes you the way you do, just keep it up (SUBTLY though) and keep the pressure (in a polite way), let him know youre still out there and wanting to know just whats up with him, hell eventually come your way.
if things keep delaying, be rational (above all) and explain him whats going on, how you feel about whats his (in)actions have been. dont be rude or loud, just keep your cool and, again, be rational, talk calmly and state veridic facts. hell come around after that, if not before.
still, more capricornish input is needed! lets make this a consensus.. -
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Re: Aries women Clueless and confused about cap male.......Need a capricorns insight
Sat, April 25, 2009 - 1:21 AMHey ,
appreciate your side of things. I actually did respond to him in the same polite manner as b4 but simply said my farewell's. I told him simply "keepn it real" goes along way with someone like me. well, my virgo friend and him share a mutual friend who told her that he said I called him every day and was pressuring him to make a decision......Totally false. I may be wrong but I got the feeling that he felt what I felt and it scared the CrAP out of him...lol. ?? who knows. He............Got issues??? What's also wierd is he wants to go to my virgo friends summer bash pool party knowing I'll be there. Well, we probably will run into eachother one of these weekends because of our mutual friends. I don't mind that. I don't have any hard feelings and would not be uncomfortable if in that position, or would I make him feel uncomfortable as well. What actually pisses me off is that he's making me look like some clingy , over emotional , put you in a corner , average chic. That is my only beef w/ him . I don't think I can let that one go with out calling his bluff if in my presence.
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Re: Aries women Clueless and confused about cap male.......Need a capricorns insight
Sat, April 25, 2009 - 1:29 AMappreciate your side of things. I actually did respond to him in the same polite manner as b4 but simply said my farewell's. I told him simply "keepn it real" goes along way with someone like me. I erased his number and after doing so my virgo friend told me the funniest thing ever...You see, him and my virgo friend share a mutual friend who told her that he said I called him every day and was pressuring him to make a decision......Totally false. I actually was quite the oppositte. Telling him I am here at his pace..no strings, no ties, no attitudes, no expectations ..ect.......So I don't know wzup with all the bul sh.........I may be wrong but I got the feeling that he felt what I felt and it scared the CrAP out of him...lol. ?? who knows. Got issues??? What's also wierd is he wants to go to my virgo friends summer bash pool party knowing I'll be there. In any case , we probably will run into eachother one of these weekends because of our mutual friends. I don't mind that. I don't have any hard feelings and would not be uncomfortable if in that position, or would I make him feel uncomfortable as well. What actually pisses me off is that he's making me look like some clingy , over emotional , put you in a corner , average chic. That is my only beef w/ him . I don't think I can let that one go with out calling his bluff if in my presence
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