For me the hardest part of being a transitioned FTM is having friends and loved ones out me. No matter what medical procedures we go through, no matter how mainstream male we behave, sometimes the ones we trusted the most are our Achilles Heel. The only time anyone questions my anatomy or history is when someone I loved has talked about things that are no one's business.

I posted this in my other group:

2 days ago my live-in girlfriend just up and disappeared. We were not fighting, no problems that I was aware of, she had been off work a couple weeks with back problems and kidney stones... I left for work at 9am, at 3pm she was texting with me about plans for the weekend, at 3:40pm she called to ask me to bring home Sprite for her tummy, when I arrived at 4:08pm she and all her stuff was already gone. Still no word from her, no explanation, she sent an email of resignation to her work supervisor, I just saw she had removed herself from SOFFA groups, and I hear from others that she outed me to people who did not need to know.
She lived with me from May 30 to October 16, had access to everything and knew everything, we had plans in motion for family stuff over the next couple months, and now poof. I wonder if it was the commitment issue of family events, the pending move to OUR new home... I don't know. Not knowing what the hell happened is bothersome, but rumors that she is flagging around my Trans status to people who don't even know me is pissing me off more. Ugh!