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topic posted Thu, July 31, 2008 - 11:32 AM by  Imperial Animus
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Let's get this going: what's your story?

Each of us have a history. Each of us is unique, but our stories always collide at one point or another and therefore are always somewhat similar or even the same.

We all want to hear about YOU!
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Imperial Animus
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    Hi guys. I just, JUST, joined this site - mostly because I found this tribe while I was googling something. Anyway, hi, I'm Nik and I'm transgenderqueer as I like to put it. I'm from Pittsburgh, PA, a place that doesn't seem to have many other people like me. Or maybe I'm just not looking hard enough. I've known for a while that I was differently gendered, but it's only been in the last year or so that I've really come to embrace that fact. I'm not entirely open, but I'm getting there.

    Other than that, I like punk rock, bad horror movies from the 30's-50's, taking photos and occaisionally dressing as a Victorian dandy for the hell of it.

    I'd love to make some friends around here with similar interests. It would be really awesome to have some folks to talk to who really get it. I have friends I can talk to, but they're not really in my situation and I think it's hard for them to really relate.
    • Tom
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      Bio-gay man here looking to mee t a fully transitioned transman-boi here in miami..I like white and thin, preferebly hairy.. ;) I'm here, hit me up!!! I like old movies, (Bette Davis, Marilyn Monroe), the beach (here in Miami it's aqua and clear and warm) sunny days, relaxing with that special someone infront of the TV...
    • Hey Nik,
      I'm living near Pitt and am FtM as well. I'm straight, been with the same woman for almost 2 years now. I've been having the hardest time finding like minded people to hang with around here, mostly in part because I just moved here a few months ago. I've also just recently started transitioning. But I do fully identify as male and live 100% male since May of this year. I have my intake appt at the PERSAD center and the end of this month which I'm super psyched for. I just wish that I new more people going through the same thing as me.
    • Sky
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      Now this Victorian dandy dress-up.. Please tell me it's been documented. Please.

      In any case, I have a difficult time imagining anywhere quite so apparently void of young gentlemen such as myself here in Phoenix, AZ. The pit of hell, a cultural out-house, and the desert where thrill and intrigue go to die, -- as tragically befitting.

      Well, that.. Or I like to pretend that I'm anything sort of a social train-wreck without a monitor defending me from the bashful truth of my nature. ;] I'm actually right there with you -- Across the board. I joined 'tribe' only moments ago, and likewise only ended my introspective identity war in the past year. My transition has been far too long in the making for me to hold back the wonderful truth of what I know to hold back on the social stages of my change -- So I'm fairly open -- But I've not begun HRT, though my goal is to have officially begun the physiological process before the year turns over.

      I'm still figuring out just how to advertise it (since we all know that would be the only way of getting somewhere), but I am purely an androphile.. Through and through. Obvious, I'd imagine, due to my presence in this group. xD

      Hit me up sometime and we may begin the process of designing a friendship. :D
  • Hi guys Im Lee in south florida. I have been on T since Feb 2007. I am pre-op. I would like to find some guys in my area for friendship, hangin out and more. I consider myself bi but as of late I seem to be leaning more and more towards straight up gay. I am VERY attracted to bio boys and ftm bois. I have had a few ftm boifriends in the past, but not since I started T. Im open to chat with anyone even if not in my area. BUT if anyone is down here I would love to chat. I dont really know what else to write so....lol lol lol lol Thanks, glad this Tribe is here.
    • Yo I'm Jayden and I live in South FL too. Might as well make this my Intro ....I've only been in FL a few months, My hometown is LA, And I'm into anything that has to do w/ Graphic Media Arts. I'm pre everything but I've been full time for over a year. Nice to meet you all.
  • Hi! I'm Just. I'm pre everything but I pass very well.

    I'm currently in Germany for treatment but then I'll be hopefully moving to FL or CA. :)

    I love art and music, doing, listening to and watching. :)

    I enjoy cooking sometimes and my big plan in life is to find a huma stuffy to sleep on. XD

    I'm constantly mistaken for U16 but I'm 23, I swear. -_____________-;;;
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    I'm Asher. I'm 19, pre everything, and don't pass particularly well because of being flamingly femme. :D I'm pansexual but mainly attracted to very masculine, dominant bio males. I enjoy overly loud music, violent movies, and religiously attending Burning Man, among other things. I'd like to meet some guys in my area for casual fun, partying at the local dungeon, late night philosophical discussions over coffee, throwing rocks at cats, etc.
    • Sky
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      Asher, my dear boy, I'm right there in the same boat with you on the former. Only just breaking into a social transition to appropriately prepare for the next steps. It's almost more frustrating having the people in my immediate circles who are aware of the situation slip up in light of personal character traits that lying outside the rigid code of the masculinity ideal. :P

      I'm Sky, and I've always fancied myself pansexual. Having existed comfortably within that as the classification of my preference for most of my life. However, in recent months as I've grown more empowered with the gradual reveal of my gender identity to the world I've found myself questioning where my interests are truly devoted.
  • hey there,
    just an average kinky, queer, poly sober, mostly top ftm guy, post-op, hormones etc.

    I've hooked up with gay and bi guys before but haven't done much in the last couple years outside of longtime friends.

    I'm interested in both trans and non trans guys. biggest issue I've had with hooking with gay boys is a lot of them seem to think all ftm guys are bottoms. I'm much more into topping although a good cocking sucking is always good times.
    • <biggest issue I've had with hooking with gay boys is a lot of them seem to think all ftm guys are bottoms.>

      Theo, this has not been my experience. I don't advertise my transsexualism, so in some cases I was being perceived as a bio-guy top, but I've been equally assumed to be top and bottom both in the vanilla and kink senses of the words. And I only hang out in gay (bio) men's spaces. What I've realized is that people have a tendency to see what they want to see. I've had a "Boy" assume that I was another Boy at a play party, and at the same party, an older guy whom I took for a top was dead-set on me topping him. Assumptions abound.

      The other thing I've learned, thru a hilariously disastrous attempt to have sex with a guy I'd been dating without revealing my trans status - is that Bottoms Like Dick. Much more than tops do. The date I was with told me that he could not get excited without seeing and feeling a dick. And Bio dick is much more appealing than either surgically-constructed or store-bought (no matter how amazing the toy) dick. This became clear to me when a man I'm sexually and emotionally involved with talked about his annoyance at having to explain to others why barebacking is so popular. "Because the more excited the top gets, the more excited the bottom gets."

      No matter how good I am at fucking, no matter how amazing the toys I use, a seasoned gay bottom is likely to miss the feeling of a bio-dick pulsating and getting harder and shooting cum inside of him. So that may be one reason why you come across more tops looking for ftm bottoms. Tops tend to be more attracted to the idea of an extra hole - if you have one - whereas a bottom is looking for a delicious cock to suck on or to feel a guy cumming inside of him.
  • hey there! I'm one of the "men who love them"....I'm Ken....nerdpunkcub, some of you know me...I'm a queer identified fag....cub identified boy...or some mix of the above. I'm one of the guys behind Trannywood Pictures here in SF...and I'm an owner of EROS, a safe sex club for guys....

    Glad to have this tribe :)
  • Hi There from Québec ! I'm Max, 43, gay transman and a bit of a trans activist (and a bit of a prude as Dean would know).

    Looking for friends to have discussions about transmen and the bio guys who are attracted to them.

    Well, hope to hear from you guys soon !

    Max
  • I just joined this tribe, mostly 'cause I have been away from my tribe.net page for a while. My name is Max (or Fido), I'm 29, consider myself bisexual but mostly into men. I live in Philly and I have a 1-year-old kid, which has made it harder for me to find willing guys than being trans ever did. I think when you become a parent people think you are wholesome and asexual. I am neither. I'm a radical faerie, like camping, punkrock, adventures, whiskey and queer history. I am in school to be a family nurse practitioner.
    • Hello Max

      I think you having a kid makes you possibley even more appealing than a guy without one - I always ended up with women (from a queer context) with kids, and have spent most of my life being a co-parent ('dad') to my non-biological kids. One of the best things that ever happened to me in my life, particularly in regard to one of those kids, a boy whom I first met when he was barely two. I would be into it just as much (if not even more, cause now I am settled in my persona, as I never was before transition) now as a guy. The point is whether the guy is genuinely interested in you - if the relationship you have with your kid is a good one, I don't think the kid is an obstacle - to a guy, who as I said, is interested in you - for you.

      Boxer
  • I'm a gay man who happens to be trans. I'm in the middle of my life (at least I hope so), and I've done a lot of living. Most of it has been difficult and painful. So I'm kinda happy that life is half over for me, and I'm hoping that the second half is better than the first.

    I am not into "types", but I do have an age limit. While nothing is set in stone, I prefer men over 40. There is an exception to every rule, but so far I haven't found one for this rule yet (okay, I've been with an exceptional 39-year-old, but he has since turned 40, so it's okay).

    I am non-monogamous, kinky, versatile, and a D/s switch.

    As I am perpetually single, I am always open to meeting new bioguys for sex and, if that goes well, maybe we can have coffee afterwards.

  • Hello, I am new to your list. I am an older guy, (coming up 48 in the spring - a pisces). I am a queer transman living in Dundee, Scotland. I am a graduate student, living on my own at the moment. It is a small(ish) town, seemingly devoid of both queers and trans people. I think alternate people in Dundee are particulary closeted. Very difficult to spot.

    I am aware most of you are in North America, but really feel the need to try and connect with people with whom I can talk about stuff that is really rather difficult to discuss at times with regular straights. And there are some of you who live in other parts of the world - if we can connect sometime, somewhere, that would be a great bonus.

    I am very horny....and hungy for partners. I am attracted to gay and bisexual men and transmen. I am 5' 9", 150 lbs., not very hairy, buzzed head, tatts, earings, blue eyes. I ride a motorcylce (an old BMW), like growing and building things, reading, music, food, guinness, cooking, traveling, marijuana, dogs (well, animals of all kinds really)....and sex. I like to do just about everything, am experimental and adventurous. I like to fuck and be fucked. I enjoy anything oral. I am romantic, but not slushy. I like my lovers, fuck buddies, friends to have a few grey cells between the ears, and I really like the sense of pursuit and seduction. Hot and sweaty is good too. I am looking for friends and sexual buddies who have a sense of humour, a lust for life, who enjoy sex, friendship and honesty. Cause nothiing really happens without that.
  • hey, I'm Kage. 22, bisexual tri-racial transboy. I'm sort of a nerd, kind of a gamer and love to just hang out. I live in Ohio Just looking for friends to chat with and get to know. I love B movies, musicals, drag shows and harry potter. I'm a sucker for big blue eyes. :) let's chat!

    -kage jonas
  • Hi, I'm Nico, a 21 year old pre-everything genderqueer boi. I've only ever known 1 other transguy, and he was into women. But me? I like the mens. ^_^ I live in the TX panhandle, and I would love to meet someone special and make some new friends. Bio-guys or transguys.
  • Hi guys,

    I'm William from Australia. I'm 21 (22 in 2 days ^_^), and realised I was a gay FtM last year. I'm not transitioning or anything yet (which means my parents think that the "gender problem" has passed) and am not sure if I will, though I haven't quite made up my mind on that one yet (it's certainly irritatingly painfully hard being perceived as a gay man when you look like a woman. Needless to say, I'm single :-P). I'm out to all my close friends, who have all been amazingly wonderful, and my parents, who are wonderful but just don't get it. (I haven't figured out how to tell my teenage brother yet, but that'll come eventually).

    Um, so yeah, that's me, pretty much. I'm studying literature and languages at uni, I teach classical piano, I'm addicted to chocolate...

    Hmm, mentioning chocolate when you don't actually have any is a *really* bad idea...

    Anyway, yes, it was an huge relief to find this group, it's always nice to know you're not *completely* weird.

    Hugs to everyone. : )

    Will xox
  • Ian
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    I just joined lol obviously ^_^ buuut my name is Ian. I'm a feminine queer trannyboy who is massively geeky and about as snuggly as a gigantic fuzzy teddybear lol. I'm pre um everything sadly but I am working on legally changing my name and getting T. I'm from Erie, Pennsylvania not exactly the best place to be a transman errr I get overexcited over weird things so sometimes I can come off as weird and ditzy lol sooo um yes howdy! :D
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    I'm a 43 year old FTM 12 years post transition. I would love to find an FTM or a bio guy between 40 and 55 for dating and companionship. Most of the FTM's I've met are either too young, straight or into "everything." As for the bio guys...well they have trouble with what's NOT below the belt.
  • Hey, I live in New England, but travel for work so end up in many places in North America and Europe. I am gay, non-trans and have enjoyed dating all kinds of men. I am attracted to maleness and I find that this has nothing to do with sexual organs but more to do with personality and identity. I have been fortunate to meet many trans men over the past few years and have learned a lot from them.

    I was so influenced by the trans folks that I met that I wrote a play about transgender Bible characters (yes, there are trans bible characters!) To me the intersection of faith, sexuality and gender can be quite interesting.

    So yeah, that's it for now. Looking forward to getting to know the guys here.
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      I live for the day when more people share your outlook. It really is about the maleness. I've known many bio men who felt like women emotionally. Were all different and that's what makes us so interesting. There's something for everyone.
      Take Care
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    Hello this is not really something I do but here goes. My name is D. I am 22yrs old and finally have some sort of direction. I am doing carpentry in school. I have been finding myself ever since I began to transition. I have as of apr. 3 been on T for 1 year. I have never been happier and jus looking to open my mind even more.
  • My name is Max, I live in New Jersey. I'm a bio-male, who has never met (to my knowledge) or interacted with any gay FTMs. As mentioned by Peterson, I find myself more attracted to 'maleness' than the male sex organ. I'm not sure how active this community is, but I'd love to talk to more people!
  • Just found this site and still checking things out. Looking for gay identified ftms for discussion and friendship. Still hoping to find Mr. Right.

    34 year old ftm. Short and stocky. Active in both the Leather and Bear communities. Currently working on getting in touch with nature more by hiking, riding my bicycle, and camping. My other love is motorcycling and good pubs. Just moved from AZ to Boston so exploring is still lots of fun.

    Henry
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    Hello to all the cute boys, handsome men, gender queers, furry faggits, bio and trans alike...

    My name is Samonte, or Samo for short. It's so nice to have a space to meet homos like me and homos that like me, does that make any sense? I'm a mixed-raced, mixed gendered, ftmfag. Began my transition when I was 19, almost 9yrs ago, holy shit!!!

    I've liked men my whole life, but I couldn't really be with men until after my transition because it was weird to be with men who only saw a girl. When I finally came out as trans I fell in love and gay married real young, I'm such a romantic, I thought love could conquer all, but it turns out it takes way more than love to make a marriage work. But I don't regret it because I have grown so much and I am a better person for it!

    Ok,ok. Long story short, I was given a fresh start in life. I am no longer looking for a marriage, or a knight in shinning armor to carry me off into the sunset, ok well, maybe some part of me is... but first and foremost I'm looking for flirtatous friendship, light hearted connections, partners in crime, summer adventures, reasons for roadtrips and roadside camping.

    I like both bio guys and trans. I'm sometimes shy when it comes to meeting new people, especially if i like you, so folks that can take the lead are much appreciated. I like boys my age and younger, but also think it would be nice to have a more mature fella take me under their wing.

    I am very open to exploring the possibilities and into traveling aswell.

    Please say hello, if you think we might be good friends or lovers. For more about me read my bio!!!

    *lots of love to you all***

  • can i has a new one??? :D

    This is Justin, 24, awesome, and goin to SF this fall xD!!!!!!!!!!!

    My story... hmm... its complicated... you see... I'm FtM... but.. I'm an athlete.. soz.. I can't do anything about it :( *crai*

    But... when the time comes, brace yourself. :3

    ^_______________________________________^

    sorry just had coke -.-;;;;;
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    i haven't added a pic yet (sorry) but i have to post now because i am SO EXCITED. i didn't know other people like me existed! much less people who would be open to hooking up with someone like me.

    just seeing different people here makes me think my life isn't as trapped as i thought it was.

    i live in oklahoma (lived in seattle for awhile too) and hope to join all the groups like this i can. i don't know if there's any guys near where i live that would be open to me but it's worth joining just to know i'm not all alone in the world.
  • Hi.

    My name is Jake. I just joined, but (like another guy said), felt so excited at finding this, I wanted to introduce myself, immediately.
    (Photo will come soon). I am a Gay FTM. (Actually, INT)-(Folks made VERY, VERY, BAD choice at birth! OUCH!). T since 1999.

    I work out and will surely look fabulous, after I get surgery. pre-op now

    Looking for FRIENDS 35-55+ here. I'm a newbie to the Gay scene/lifestyle. Will someone teach me, please?
    SEXXX, maybe??? ages 35 to 50?? I like to get fucked by and suck Natural DICK. By Men who want MEN only! I am a REAL man.

    I like NFL football ( Proud member of "Steeler Nation"), fast cars, finding "extinct, old" cars (caught in time, and preserved in old movies). Also like "brainy stuff." Hate gossip. Love cats, humor and, the internet.
    Prefer quiet coffee shops, quaint/unique places to bar scene.

    I live in the Greater Los Angeles, CA area.

    Jake
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    I'm Konnor. I'm 19 years old and I live in Ohio. I go to school for electro-mechanical engineering. I enjoy running, wrestling, street bikes, and the military. I'm a pre-everything gay transguy. I came out to my folks about a year ago and they didn't take it well at all. I'm still trying to let it sink in, and hoping things will get better. I recently got my first binder, and I'm presenting male (with a female name) 100% of the time now. I just got out of a serious relationship with a bio-male, so I'm looking for friends at the moment. Maybe that will change if I meet the right person though. I've never dated another FTM, but I'm open to it. To this point I've only had "straight sex" so I'm unsure of my top/bottom status in the gay community, but I have a hunch I'll be a bottom. Not in any hurry to figure that out though. So basically, I'm here for friends and more if it develops. I'm very glad to see so many other gay FTMs and bio-males that like us! Message me if you found any of that interesting! ;)
  • Hi All, Just joined the site, cause i found this wonderful tribe. A little about me, I;m 25, lived in chicago my whole life, have an Ok job, and just kinda livin the day to day. I'm hoping to meet some great friends, and if i can find somone to care for in the process, thats even better. Happy to join guys :)
  • i am a 21 yr old gay transguy looking for friendship, maybe more where i can get it. i know that sounds desperate but im kind of shy and i dont know alot of ppl. i have been out for almost 2 years and my hormones are on hold because of no money. im also pre op until i can save up the money or find a way to trick my insurance to getting it paid for.
    im a huge dork and i love love love movies. comedy and documentaries are my fave. i do love watching horror too but they scare me. im a sucker for fellow dorks. i like tall guys usually thicker built and usually 23-38 but not against my age. i am mature for my age and so im attracted to older guys for the most part. bio or trans is cool.
  • Hey guys-

    I'm a 25 y/o pre-everything gay FTM. I was beyond excited to find this tribe and had to join. I have been dealing with my gender identity for quite some time now and am still trying to come to full terms with it as a gay FTM. I'm still find myself questioning if I want to proceed with the transition or remain genderqueer/straight bio female...for many various reasons- In this world of confusion and doubt I have also found it rather difficult to find resources for those of us who identify as both- even in places like LA and NYC (I just moved back to LA from NYC). I'm currently just looking for a support system, guys who understand and to just talk to. So, if you're around, please feel free to drop a line.
  • Hi! My name is Fire, I just joined this tribe a few minutes ago. I am a queer bisexual, sometimes butch, sometimes androgynous and I am from the Philippines.

    I used to identify strongly as a bisexual man in a womans body then moved towards just identifying as a queer bisexual. I am attracted to the label "boi" and FTM but am still thinking about things so for now, I remain gender-neutral.

    I hope to make some friends here :)

    Cheers!
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    Hi guys,
    I'm Greg from Baltimore. It would be cool to find a buddy to hang out and do fun cultural stuff with. Seeing film or theater and discussing after over coffee and nosh is one of my favorite passtimes. My favorite film buddy from undergrad went off and got himself married so I don't do it so much anymore. I can be outdoorsy when the opportunity arises. Anyway... I look forward to making new friends around here. I'm a gay cis-guy.

    be peace,
    greg
  • Hey guys I have done an intro before but hitting it again. I live in West Palm Beach Fl. I love bois and bio guys. I have an issue though I have been on Testoserone for nearly 3 years (feb makes it 3) I have had no surgerys yet no money to do so. Its hard to find bio guys who want to play cause I stil have the other parts. Its so depressing, but I understand to a point. So anyway I like all kinds of people and have a broad range of interests. Very easy going down to earth and well rounded good guy. Im am up for questions or friends . Its best to hit me up on myspace (lee_bolaro@yahoo.com) or email same add. I look forward to hearing from guys. I do not get on tribe as much as I used to. Peace and love
    Lee
  • Hi I'm Alex, a pre-everything gay FtM from Surrey, UK. I love football (soccer to you Americans), cars, fitness and Italy. I love maleness, I have a particular thing for bottoming to bioguys and athleticism is my favourite thing. I love fit bodies!

    I'm always looking for friends to chat with, so let me know if you like!
  • Hi all! I'm Randy & I live in west Orlando,FL. I'm a gay bio male 45 y.o. . I agree with all those who say that masculinity is more about the mind & attitude than whats between the legs. I have a keen interest in nullification ( for myself) & do seem to identify with FTM's & other transgendered people more than with most gay bio males.
  • Hey everyone,
    My name is LiSimon I'm 22 years old and am going to school to be a printmaker. I came out to my parents last year. They took it well, in the fact they didn't explode, but they're still wrapping their heads around everything. Most of my friends know and i probably pass 60%-70% percent of the time even without T and surgery which has been pretty great. I've decided that i do at least want chest surgery though, T and bottom surgery I'm still thinking about.

    I've always known I was different but it wasn't until I saw a program on discovery health about FTM's, when I was about 15 that everything really clicked into place. I've always liked guys that was never questioned and have noticed that I tend to be attracted to masculine or androgenous personalities, in others as well.

    Not really sure what else to say,
    -Simon
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    I've been searching for a site like this for years and can finally say I've found it! I'm a 22 year old FtM college student - soon to graduate college :) and am still very early on in the process of coming to terms with who I am. I have not been on any T but thankfully I have a naturally extremely high level of testosterone somehow (just been to the endocrinologist for slight acne) so I do appear very masculine and can pass easily when I put the right clothes on.

    When first came out to my mother and brother (the only family I've told) I thought I was supposed to like girls for some reason and I was confused about how I felt. Thankfully one of my good friends is an LGBT activist and works in a youth center and has spoken to me about gender not having ANY connection to sexuality. I am definitely more attracted to bio-males more than anyone else but still find myself checking girls out from time to time (with no further intentions!)

    I was starting to feel hopeless about finding a boyfriend because it seems that the last few guys I have been attracted to have either been bisexuals who find it "easier" to be with bio guys rather than girls or gays who haven't really discovered themselves yet. Needless to say I am single and find it extremely difficult to find a mutual attraction between guys and myself. It was really refreshing to hear that there are guy out there who are actually specifically attracted to my gendered people. Now I just have to find out where they all are! I'll be turning 23 in May and its getting kind of lonely not having anyone when all my friends seem to find it so easy to meet people :( Anyway, I hope to learn more about everyone here and maybe find some sense of community.
  • Hi guys My name's Matt. I'm FTM and gay, although i've never had a serious relationship because i've always tried to keep a safe distance from people including my family. Everybody thinks that i'm happy being alone and sometimes i even belive it but the thuth is i do feel lonely sometimes, most times.
  • Hi guys -- I'm Reece -- I'm originally from California but I'm now living in Southern England. I'm a queer FTM -- I'm vers, and expereinced in a variety of naughty fun.

    I don't know what I'm looking for exactly -- I'd love to find a boyfriend or some general fun. Friends are always a good thing too!
  • I am new to this site and I am hoping to meet new people and possibly find someone to date or for play. I have been on "T" for over a year and a half, I have had top surgery and a full hysterectomy. I pass completely in public and will not be having lower surgery. I live in Indiana and have been having a difficult time finding men that are interested in me as a transman let alone anything sexually. I don't have a preference over gay or straight, but know that I am interested in men. I would call myself a bottom, but I am not submissive. I tend to be shy at first, but do so very much love sex. Also, the trans population is small here and lacking in any real community sense. I love to cook and drink wine, the arts, books/movies, photography, nature walks, museums, animal friends, and water elements, etc. Would love to hear from others on any level.
  • Hi All,

    I'm just sayin' hey and letting you all know I'm slowly getting active on tribe. I'm so glad to have found y'all.

    OK, so straight up, I came here looking for great conversations, yahoo/skype chatting, and sex with bio gay males. I was kicking around for a minute with another gay FTM and it was very very hot so I'm not into excluding anyone.

    I'm in that liminal space right now where I feel between genders. I haven't had chest surgery and I'm taking only very low doses of hormones. I am a singer and have deferred Test since I first came out as trans in 1994. My career as a singer has become less important than this feeling of jumping out of my skin. I'm almost 50 and I know I want surgery for my 50th birthday. Not sure how I am going to afford it, probably a second job as mine isn't cutting it right now.

    I love great food, I rode horses as a kid and young adult and would love to go riding again soon, I used to mountain bike just about every weekend, and I am a bodybuilder who is floundering and foundering in my extended off season and putting on unwanted pounds. I think some of this is because of my discontent with my body.

    It's weird because I'm doing the opposite of what would make me happy! It's stress I think... A guy can only take so much.

    Woops, I didn't mean to go off like that. I'm babysitting my 4 year old nephew and he's tugging at my sleeve. This is a little disjointed since my attention is divided.

    So I'll sign off now and hope to hear from some of you. Hit me up, guys!

    All the Best,
    Bucky
    Leatherman1960 on FetLife, too.



    • Hi, Bucky.

      I used to sing as well in musicals and the like. Yes, your voice does change, and for a long time it felt like I was too hoarse to sing, but eventually, when your voice is done changing, you'll find you sing very nicely. Just don't try to sing in your old range. I was a soprano, now I'm a tenor. I still have a good range, but no more high notes.

      Hitting the big 5-0 isn't all that bad, I'm past that now and will be 60 in January. Yep, a Saturday born Capricorn. I was old as a kid, but now I'm starting to enjoy life.

      Cheers, and hang in there.

      Jonathon
  • Hey guys, my name is Rick and I am actually pretty shy, so please bear with me (plus I have been sick and am slightly sleep deprived, so I hope I don't come across as a complete idiot). I am a gay bioguy and I recently found out that there are even more sweet men in this world for me to fawn over than I originally realized. I love bioguys and always will, but I have discovered that I love FTM guys as well and always will. I am glad that I found this place, because until the other night, I didn't think there were a lot of Tguys that were gay (and damn am I happy to see that there are gay Tguys). The other day I was watching a youtube video of a hot FTM guy who had the buff blond surfer boy thing goin' on and he was just all energetic and cute and sexy as hell, but....he was next to his wife. While I am happy for the joyful couple, I couldn't help but feel a little jealous of the wife. I figured "Well, no sweet T-guy will ever look at me because I am also a guy and they seem to always be straight!" And then I saw a youtube video of a totally cute Tguy with a handsome sweet face and he had just had surgery...but.... his girlfriend was the one video taping him. ::sigh:: SO. Finding this Tribe put a smile on my face. :D

    Anyway, like a couple of other posters, I like video gaming, I am mainly into PC gaming. I recently played Dragon Age: Origins and just finished Mass Effect 2. I was stoked that they had gay romances in Dragon Age (Zev is hot) but kinda sad that they decided to pull the plug on that for the Mass Effect series. Mass Effect 2 is still fun though, but its very heavy on the male heteronormativity (bi-girls are ok of course). Right now I am playing Oblivion for the 5th time. I always have fun with that. But...now that I am making myself sound more and more like a geek, I think I will stop for now. Ciao!
    • Hey Rick, I'm a gamer too. All PC for many years, but I finally caved and got an xbox. So I am all xbox right now because it's new, and at least a bit different than sitting at my computer all day at work. I have a Wii too but I only fire it up once in a while if guests want to play rock band.

      I just finished Oblivion IV for the first time on xbox. Great game, a bit slow in parts and the ending felt anti-climatic, but fun. Do you have the expansions? If so what are they like? If you haven't played Portal, I heard today they are offering it for free (pc/mac) until the 24th. It's one of the best, most innovative games I've ever played. store.steampowered.com/freeportal/
      • Well, now that its been nearly a month since you replied to me, here I come! lol Sorry about that.

        Anyway, yes, I have the Shivering Isles expansion and Knights of the Nine and all of the DLCs. The DLCs are nothing major (though I do like the Wizard's Tower), but Knights of the Nine rocks, and The Elder Scrolls IV: Shivering Isles has got to be my favorite expansion pack for any game I have ever played. I HIGHLY recommend it.

        With Knights of the Nine, you slowly reform a defunct order of Knights dedicated to the service of the Nine Divines. This happens because a threat arrives on Tamriel from Oblivion in the form of a long-dead Ayleid King named Umaril the Unfeathered and his Deadric minions. Anyway, as you reform the knights and get some very interesting relics from the Divines (which form what I think is the absolute best armor and weapons in the game), you are working to end the threat that Umaril and his Aurorans pose to Tamriel (how he got them is beyond me, as they belong to the Deadric prince, Meridia, and she has always seemed like one of the more benevolent Deadric dieties, to me).

        .And with The Shivering Isles, you travel to the Realm of Sheogorath and attempt to halt a major Cataclysm known as the "Grey March". You eventually learn MUCH more about the Daedric Prince of Madness, Sheogorath, and also about the 16th Daedric Prince of Order, Jyggalag, who had long been an enigma to the people of Tamriel. Some VERY interesting mysteries are solved. And the final prize is rather amazing, if you ask me.

        As for Portal, I have only played a little bit of it, but I did get it with "The Orange Box", along with Half Life 2, and two of its chapters and also Team Fortess 2. It seemed pretty awesome, what little bit I did play.

        Have you ever played any of the older games, such as "American McGee's Alice", "Black & White" and "Clive Barker's Undying"?
  • Hey. I'm transsexual and done transitioning. I've had all the surgery I want and have been on T for a while now. I'm currently a student in a rural area and am having some coming out issues. I was born in the country but have been living in the city for the past several years. I'm planning to transfer to a school in the city but I have about 2 1/2 more quarters out here before I can. I've been with my current boyfriend for a couple years with varrying degrees of intensity and recently realized my struggles with commitment have to do partly with my own fears arround accepting myself as a gay man. He still lives in the city and I want to commit to a deeper relationship and work on building a life with him. I've just got to sort through my issues with my sexuality. I'm new to this site and would be interested in any referrals to tribes that may discuss coming out issues. I have a lot of fear about being out as gay to people I don't know well, I live in a dorm and the majority of the guys I hang out with are the jock types since I'm into bodybuilding and athletics. I'm out to my family and friends back in the city and they are supportive. I think my primary issues is just accepting myself as gay and figuring out what that means for me and I hope that will lead to less fear around how others will react to my sexuality if it comes up. I know my fears are likely worse than reality but still. I'm just figuring out how to assimilate this new aspect of myself and being a gay man in the country, as much as I love it is terrifying to me.
    • Hey Cielo, it sounds like you have a lot to deal with. Coming out as a gay man isn't easy. But my hunch is transitioning is no cake walk either. I can only imagine all the inner strength that has taken, so I'm betting you have lots of inner strength.

      I can kind of relate to your sitation, I am a gay man who has only recently discovered (actually knew it for years, just finally had a chance to act upon it) his sexual attraction to transmen. I am out as a gay man and now I'm outing myself as a gay bio man who likes gay transmen. I have told only one friend, the one I knew who would be supportive and get it. I guess what I'm saying is take care of yourself and take your safety into consideration. If you don't feel safe, keep you cards close to your chest and watch the game. Good luck.
  • Greetings

    04/15
    Hey everyone, I'm Dominic. I just found this tribe while searching online for communities for gay/bisexual men.

    I am ftm spectrum, pre-medical transition, but have been living as a man as fully as I am able to without hormone therapy for almost a year. I hope to start hormones at some point, though I have no immediate plans for it due to financial issues.

    I live in Indiana, and if any of you do too, be in touch!

    Cheers,
    Dominic
  • French transman from the Mediterranean area, 24 years old, soon to be 25. I had two main affairs in my life, one with a guy who saw me as his girl, and hadn't a chance because of that, and one with a gender-fluid person if it has a sense in english, which we lived as a gay love story. I turn on watching hot gay couples or movies, let's say, men only ( I mean whatever kind of men you could name ) and off watching the babes my friends find 'so sexy'. So I think there's no question about it, I'm gay.
    People, like my friends and the shrinks, are a bit reluctant to call me a transman because I'm a bit feminine in my activities and tastes, and of course love to get embraced by big mean macho guys.
    I'm sure they're the ones who are mistaken.
  • Alright lads, my name is Aidan. I’m Scottish and still live in the land of whisky, the Loch Ness Monster, and kilt-wearing-men! ; ) I’m a chef, almost 30 (where does time go eh?!) and would describe myself as an easy going trans lad. I’m out and have been on hormones for a few years now. I have an amazing group of friends among the spectrum but it’s always grand to make more. : )

    Although I’m not overly familiar with being in online groups, posting messages and such like, I stumbled across this and other ftm related tribes and I had to join! It’s great to find a space like this.

    Cheers,
    Aidan
  • hmm... i dont really have a story other than im an omnisexual person. i dont care about gender, but i do care about personality. if i'm not attracted to what's on the inside of your flesh then it doesnt matter you have or have not, cus i cant lay down with someone that i dont want to know. sex is sex. i know i walk a crooked line between tribes.. offending everyone. lol but i'd rather experince love no matter what human form it resides in than to miss out on an opportunity to be happy. ive seen fascism in the gay community just as often as in the straight world. but i digress. just offering up some encouragement... be true to yourself. complacency is death. cheers.
  • Hey there, bi ftm in minneapolis. Transitioned 10+ years. Happily married for even longer but open relationship, and I like to play with guys on the side. Chubby, fairly hairy bear. Have done a little craigslist 'shopping' on and off over the years and had a few encounters, had some fun, but too much bull and now craigslist requires phone verification to post. Into casual encounters, but it would be very nice to have something semi-regular but still drama-free/mostly-NSA. If you're talking the gay male "fucker or fuckee?" version of top/bottom then I'm a bottom, though certainly also fun to fuck someone who would enjoy it. Guess that makes me vers.

    I'm looking for good (free, anonymous) places online to meet guys to hook up with, perhaps some swapping of 'war stories' with others here, and hopefully turning up in someone's search who is in my area and looking for some fun. :)
  • Hi guys, I’m Nicholas [NiCo], 21 from Glasgow, Scotland and been full time for 6 years, I’ve been on T for a year, post-hysto for one month now and got chest surgery in 4 weeks. Due my GRC in 2 months…so aye, everything is happening this year! =] live with my boyfriend, we’ve been together for 10 months but known each other for 15 years. We got engaged last month. Nice to meet you all =]
  • Hey guys, I'm a bio guy in Seattle... I've only ever dated other bio males, but I'm just as attracted to transguys -- a man is a man!

    Don't really know what to say about myself.. Just looking to meet new people. Anyone else in Seattle? :)
  • Hello All

    I'm Liam, 19yrs, I live Australia. Pre-Everything, but I've got my first appoinment with a specialist soon. I've wanted to transition for seven years, but I had been living a lie, and now I've decided to just go for it. I'm out to all (except Dad, don't know how thats going to work). I have a supportive partner who saw right through me from day 1, although he admits he has know idea how it feels to be an f2M. I live in a very rural area so no chance of like souls around here. It would be great to just know someone in the same boat. I love Punk Rock, Opera, Dandy/Ouja, Leather and Games (bit of a gamer)

    Nice to meet you. Msg Me
    • Hey Liam, nice to meet ya! :)

      BTW, I have long loved the name "Liam" ever since I first saw Liam Neeson in the movie "High Spirits". GOD he made a hot ghost in that movie. lol
      • one of my favorite films! love peter o'toole! (yeah hes been on that bucket list of mine for decades now.. lol so was ruth gordon, but sadly she passed away before i could romance her). but had to reply to this!
        later
  • Jay, aka Jill. a 22 year old pansexual trans bio girl. trying to find out stuff about ftm and the transition. dont come on this site often. I havnt started my transition yet, just thinking about it. Currently a senior at the School of the Art Institute of Chicago. Tried to make GLBT student group but that failed. Now I am just working on me and my art. Live in Chicago, born San Antonio TX. Dont like it there.

    the end
  • I found this group on Google and decided to join. I'm 26 and have realized that I'm a gay FTM after a few years of identifying as "genderqueer," "androgyne," and other similar terms. I haven't transitioned, although it's something I haven't really thought about at this point. I live in the greater NYC area, in Connecticut specifically, and am looking for friendship. As far as interests go, I'm semi-obsessed with electronic music and even managed a blog about it for a while. I also read short stories, try to fit time in to write, and watch anime and films.
    • hey - im jeff and im 30 and a bi bioguy in boston mass and ive had soem really hot fun with a few ftms in the past and id love to find some more for soem hot times ;)
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        Hello from Wisconsin. I am a 34 year old pre-op FtM and I have been on T. for 6 years. I guess I don't really know what to say here. Let me see, I am fun, into making art, reading fiction, watching sy-fi and comedies, music, like walking, playing on my pc, and just being. I tend to be a home body but I think part of that is just not having alot of people to do things with. I have lived through hell and am still standing, so I guess that's something.
        I am open to quiestions anyone may have. Thanks
  • Hey,

    I'm Mike, trans guy from Arizona. I spend my time taking my dogs for walks, volunteering, hanging out with friends, watching movies and reading.

    I'm a pretty chill guy, I love football and baseball, I like to drink beer and scotch and I like meeting people and sharing ideas.
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    Hey all! My name is DJ I was a part of this group a while ago before i lost my internet and moved. I recently moved to winston salem tryin gto get myself off the ground and meet new people. Hit me up if you wanna be inernet buddies, textin buddies, or whatever.
  • I joined this tribe a long time ago and i just wanted to reintroduce myself i first went with the name davey but now im gabriel. I'm ftm 19 and live in NC. I love writing songs and poems. I'm always interested in meeting new people. I also like to play video games. I'm hoping to go to school to make films. I consider myself to be sorta masculine im really into fem guys. Any one who just wants to be friends is welcomed too :).
  • hi - Im john, Im in sussex in the UK and Im a 32 yr old transman.

    Ive always been attracted to men and woman but since I transitioned I was very wary of approaching guys, I figured if they were gay they wouldn't be interested in a guy without a cock.

    A while ago I figured I would start googling around and see if there were guys who were particularly into transmen and Im really glad youre out there. This is a whole other side to my sexuality that I haven't explored yet, so Im hoping to start meeting people and see where it goes.
  • Hey
    My name is jonathan. i'm a mixed race (half Scottish half Indo-Mauritian) bio bottom boy from Manchester UK.

    I've had a fling with a big top ftm trans bear which has rather opened my eyes to the transman, and i'm a bit hooked. i work as a comedian and host he Great British Bear Bash.

    He was introduced by a (then) dyke friend who is now succesfully trans and i have a couple of trans friends (mainly ftm).

    Am happily married to a gorgeous man, but in a totally honest open relationship and eager to meet ftm fuck buddies....staright forward fucking welcome - though love sadistic top guys - esp if you want to do some cbt!
    love jxxx
  • Hi, guys. I have just joined this site.

    My name's Damian. I'm an FTM (post top op). I'm from the US; however, I'm currently working in Asia.
    If you were to ask me about my identity 15 years ago, I’d certainly say “lesbian butch.” Things have changed as I have been exposed to more and more possibilities in this world. I’ve always been attracted to both men and women. However, because of the “lesbian” identity I thought the reason I’m checking hot guys out is mainly because I wanted to be like them. Three years ago, I was drunk and made out with a man (he claimed to be a straight guy who is attracted to butches/FTMs). That night we did everything except he didn’t penetrate me with his penis. After that night, we’d meet up and make out again and again with no strings attached. It was just pure physical pleasure. At that time, I thought I was crazy. That experience made me rethink about my true identity.
    There is no doubt that I’m certainly attracted to a woman’s body. When I’m with a woman, I’m the “top.” When I was with that man, I was the ‘bottom.’ I guess this makes me a bisexual transman. I am still trying to adjust myself to this new identity.
    If anyone is in Asia, or planning on coming over. Let me know and we’ll see how it goes.
    Cheers.
    -D-
  • Hi Guys! I just found this site. I'm an FTM who has recently discovered my love for gay bio guys. I live in CA and it's not easy meeting other people with my same interests. I'm post op and have been on T for 3 years now. I finally have a new doctor that listens to me and he had upped my dosage, so it's sort of like starting over. It's a good thing and I'm much happier now.

    Anyways, I'm seeking friends with the same interests as myself. Horror movies, hiking, camping, or just a lazy bbq Sunday. I live in the Central Valley area and always looking for like minded souls.

    Drop me a line!
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    Hello, Cave here...
    my story... ok.. its one of truth.. and a painful one i guess.. but stil trying to.. whats the word.. repent maybe... so i met this beautiful boy...
    perfect in every way.. dated for weeks on end.. thought, wicked this is goign to be the gay love of my life...

    then i found out... and in a surprise twist he was FTM.... ok truth.. i kinda lost it... and was questioning everything in my life.. was i gay.. what was going on.. etc etc..

    we stopped dating.. started again... and then we stopped... and i have felt unfulfilled ever since... I am a Gay male i guess ... but i am TRULY only attracted to FTM men... I am searching for FTMs' to talk to.. converse with.. and maybe build relations...
    here in the east coast of Canada... that ain't that easy... and that is the beginning of my story.. would love to talk to others.. please.. chat me up....
    -Cave-
  • my reply is thus: i dont care what flesh you were born with or now reside in. i care about the personality and the soul inside. and i know how cliche that sounds, but i'd rather touch something intangible then merely rub against for sexual gratification. i'm creative and opinionated, romantic and selfish, spontaneous and procrastinator, lover and a fighter, etc etc. i will always be loyal and honest if i receive the same considerations. i will talk to strangers. i would take a bullet for my friends. i would sit outside a restaurant just so i could share my meal with a stray dog. im a starving artist because thats what artistry means to me. selflessness. i dont consider anything that i do a "gift". its all an assimilation of what the cosmos provides. i can play stupid just as good as ewe. i have as many flaws as i do kind gestures.
    im a bio guy. if you have an amazing personality i will totally make out with you. because im old(er) i have some preferences.. kind of like when you discover that you like eating pizza. youre still adventurous to try different "toppings", but you still like what you first fell in love with. that said, i dont usually go for girly girls or girly boys. some effeminate characteristics are okay, but im more into "tomboys" "tankgirls" and the like. i prefer similar tastes in music, literature, etc but its not mandatory. relationships and friendships are about compromises. i enjoy surrounding myself with all types of people, and i know that im rambling, but thats cus we are introducing ourselves. and i throw it all out there. lol
    ask me anything. but just be prepared for anything of an answer.
    later

    -- zach
  • Hey! I'm Chrys, 38, FTM. I live in Portland, Or., 2 years into my transtition, no surgeries yet. I have a techie job but more of an outdoors person really. I'm a switch but mostly a bottom, I'm kinky, open to all genders but been playing with bio men for awhile now. Looking for connections at this point in my life; done with the NSA world, I need something more.
  • AJ
    AJ
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    annyeonghaseyo ..
    i'm aj. [:
    i wish i knew korean haha. well i'm taking it this coming year.
    anyhow. i'm pre everything. i hope to get top surgery in the future, whenever that may be, but i think that might be the only thing (like no bottom surgery or t..although i'm constantly confused over the whole testosterone matter). i don't pass very well and it's bloody annoying.
    i'm super afraid i'll never find someone because i'm not planning a full transition..like i'm not "manly" enough for a bioguy or something. i'm also not too fond of sex for some reason..which could be a major turn off.. oh well.
    soooo, i like costumes, cats, harry potter, lord of the rings, cacti, the colour green, swords, writing, cheese puffs, and renaissance festivals.
    i go to school up north and.. it's okay i reckon.
    tis all. ^.^
  • New to this group. Bio disabled (muscular dystrophy) male in L.A. here. Only 1 friend knows that I find gay FTM attractive. I do have FTM friends and acquaintances, but they're either in a relationship or have issues (drugs, legal, etc.) that I don't want to be around.

    I didn't know about gay FTMs until I read an article in OUT magazine a few years ago. I wondered if I'd be, sexually, attracted to them, so I found some porn with gay FTMs and I found that I was turned on by it.

    I see FTMs as I see bio men. The type of FTMs I'm into are the same as the type of bio men I'm into. I'm into non-smoking, suburban, mostly clean cut guys.

    Hit me up if you'd like to know more about me. Even though I'm in L.A., I'm open to chat with anyone around the world.
  • Rei
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    Hello hello! I'm Rei-- 22 year old transboy into other boys. :3
    I don't actually know many other transguys on a friendly level & so I'd like to make a couple of friends and allocate some mentors who are farther along in their transition than me...
    I'm currently a student in cosmetology school-- I love fashion, beauty and all that jazz! I'm a pretty huge nerd into video games and studying languages (I've conquered intermediate Japanese & am now divulging into German). My other (not so?) conventional interests include drag queens, Miami Bass-influenced German rap, idol groups from Japan, and samurai history. Oh, and I'm bleeding obsessed with tumblr!

    Hoping to make a couple of friends around the community. Cheers! :D
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    I'm Oliver from Miami. I'm FTM. I've been meaning to join this tribe for awhile now. I like gaming and reading (not at the same time unless I put subtitles on). I watch an unfortunate amount of really bad television and I'm passionate about my work in youth development and education.
  • hey, I'm Miles. I just joined this site and am excited to start exploring and meeting people. I am FtM, and am primarily (although not exclusively) attracted to bio-guys. I'm looking to meet folks for friends or more in upstate NY or Vermont. I'm 24 and transitioned several years ago.
  • Hello. I found this site kind of randomly but it looks nice. I'm not exactly a perfectly passing male given my persuasion towards androgynous styles. I'm generally a pretty chill guy I like to think. I'd like to make some friends for sure but I'm never opposed to seeing where the winds take me, so to speak.

    -RWN-
    • Cam
      Cam
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      Hey everybody. My name is Cam and I live in Sacramento. I'm a transgendered male looking for all sorts of excitement. I would like to get to know any of you as a matter of fact, but am wanting those in my area or surrounding cities to please make yourselves known to me so we can do some things. I've been trying to post my pix but cant seem to get it to work. Trust I'm a sight for sore eyes, a good looking dude. So you wont be disappointed on that side of things. People I've been in Sac for 5 months and I'm just about stir crazy. I would very much like to have friends in my life to have some definite fun with. Feel free to drop me a note.
  • Hey guys I am a bi transman in Denver. Though the bi thing is new. I an 31 and have been on T for ten years now. I have been passing as a straight guy my whole life. If your in my area hit me up or if you just want to chat hit me up also.
  • I'm Xavier, brand spanking new to this. Pre everything, just really coming into my masculine identity. From NY live in La La Land, making it happen as a writer/director. Love bois, but been dating girls and now I want to get with bois only FTM and bio boys. Muscles make me weak.
  • Hi my names Levon. I'm a pre op closeted gay FtM. I'm so glad I found this tribe, I'm glad to know that there are gay men who aren't creeped out by us ftms. Anyway, any advice/tips for coming out?


    • Hi, Levon,

      Well, it's been 18 years since I transitioned, but the best advice I can give is to relax. People are so busy going about their own business, they rarely have time to check you out below the belt, and those who do already like what they see.

      It's hard at first, living a dual identity, but I found that wearing mens underwear and socks where no one could see them made me feel better even when I had to present as female.

      Unisex clothing, i.e. mens shirts and jeans, can be worn without notice. These days even mens running shoes or Dockers are fashionable.

      Just build up your wardrobe when you can. Thrift Stores are good for this. I used to buy plenty of things for my "boyfriend" or "my brother."

      You can get a shorter haircut, slowly cut down the makeup until you don't wear any. You can use a short form of your name until you pass enough to use your male name.

      Tell only those people who really need to know. It's too easy to want to tell people, only to have them turn on you. On the other hand, some people will surprise you. "Well, that explains it, then."

      Any other questions, just ask.

      Jonathon
  • Hi Guys,

    I'm a transgenderbender from Atlanta, GA. I am female bodied but male identified. It's been a while since I've been on tribe so I thought I'd re-introduce myself. I'm into gay men and am looking for a gay man to play with especially in Atlanta, preferably one who is into some sort of BDSM.

    I'm glad to be back in the tribe and would like to hear from anyone out there who is interested in chatting and hanging out either on line or in person. I am willing to travel if it's within driving distance. I'm a switch, but am in submissive mode right now.

    I hope that's not too specific, I don't want to rule any friendships or playmates out because of my predilections.

    Cheers!

    Leatherman1960 aka Bucky


  • Hey Guys,

    My name is Jeff, and I am a queer bio boy in Dallas. By day I'm a courier, and in my spare time I volunteer for a couple programs dealing with hiv/aids education. I am currently working on growing a small indie label, promoting a book I just published, and working on other small projects. I'd like to meet an ftm, even if in another city or state, who'd like to get to know each other. I have many different interest, and I love to have fun and learn new things. If you're interested, shoot me a reply, and let's exchange info.
  • Hi guys!

    My name's Ryan. I'm a 19 year old pre-everything gay FtM from NYC interested in bioguys. I'm kind of shy, and I can get pretty geeky at times, I guess, but honestly, I'm just your average fun-loving boy. I love movies, especially psychological thrillers and just silly gorehound-type stuff like "Saw" (I'm a special effects makeup artist in training -- how could I not love that sort of thing? hahaha). I'm also a pretty big music buff (I teach and play guitar and I sing).

    I'm in the market for a relationship with a bioguy who is around my age (19-23) and doesn't mind that I'm not yet completely where I want to be physically as far as transitioning goes. In more detail, I'm looking for a guy who's the more dominant one in the relationship, but isn't just in it for the physical stuff. What can I say, I'm a romantic! :)

    And, while I'm really looking for a relationship, of course I'm open to friendship as well!

    Can't wait to hear from you guys!
  • Hey guys,
    My name is Chuck and from what I have learned so far I am a gay bio-guy. I have just recently discovered that I have an attraction to FTM guys. I am not sure of what the attraction is because I have never been out with a trans-guy. I live in Mississippi and not sure if there are very many around. It burdens my heart that even in our community of LGBT there are so many prejudes something that we are trying to fight against from the straight society. I would love to meet more trans-guys to meet as friends or to date. I am just a normal guy not femme nor am I super butch. I can shoppe and decorate a house, but I also like to fish, hike, camp and love to sit on the back of a tailgate throwing back a few brews out by the creek or in the country. I hope to make some friends on this site.

    Looking forward making friends
  • Hi guys...bio gay man here. I love FTM men! Live in NYC. It also took me a while to decide what I like, but once I was with a couple FTMs, I realized these guys are really what I like after all. Would love more FTM friends or even boyfriend.
  • PJ
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    I guess you can say I'm an old fart.

    I put everything on hold the last 10 years dealing with my SO's heart disease. He died in Jan.

    I'm just starting to get back into the community. Had I a choice, I would gladly have him back. He was gay and full accepted me as a gay guy. They did have a hard time understand why on earth I would want to be a guy if I liked men. I didn't. Everything just fell in place as soon as I realized it.

    I always say there must be a God because only a god with a sick sense of humor could make a Gay Top a female. Somedays I wonder what on earth I might have done in a past life to deserve this. The other half always said it was to prove we actually loved each other. I like that thought.
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    FTM transguy here. 5' 4" 145lbs very muscular from New Haven, CT (close by NYC and Boston). I am looking to meet friends and more. I am into black, asian, latino and mediterranean men who are intelligent, politically relevant, witty, and fit. I am up to try almost anything. Contact me!
  • My name is Jake, and despite my looks, I'm 21 and I'm from Southern Ontario, Canada. As of 4 years ago, I came out as a ftm and have been on T for 2 years. I identify as primarily gay, but I am bisexual, it just complex to explain, cause I say "I'm bi" and the world thinks I like guys and girls, but truthfully I prefer guys and girls who look like guys but still identify as girls.

    I grew up with a dysfunctional family, but enjoyed my childhood. I longed for more years to be a kid, and never let my age stop me from having fun. Because of bullying and other personal reasons I left high school at 17. My mother supported my dream in becoming an artist but making it in any art form for me seemed like a dream that would never become a reality. I only recently at 21, decided on what to do with my life, but have to work a minimum wage job for the time being until I can make it happen.

    I'm currently volunteering and looking for work so I can get my own place, or perhaps a shared place with roommates. This year has been the best one of my entire life and I'm looking to make it even better. I want more friends, especially guys. I enjoy music - preferably alternative/rock/indie. I like sports, but I'm not a fan. I have a wide variety of interests and hobbies. I'm strongly opinionated, and very shy but an open book.

    I'm not exactly looking for a boyfriend, I just figure whatever happens will happen. But I will not deny that I feel alone a lot of the time. Perhaps it's that I'm surrounded by women, or that craving to hold somebody close or be affectionate. People find my personality to be contradictions as I'm shy but outgoing, and affectionate but not, and so on. It just depends on how comfortable I am and how the world makes me feel that day. It's apparent I live by my emotions, they rule my life. But you'll rarely see me do anything other than smile and laugh hysterically, or get really pissed. Crying is just something I can't do in front of others.

    I'm not very feminine, but I'm not macho and would not want to be. I'm also vegan and working on getting as fit as possible before my top surgery which I am getting for my 22nd birthday, hopefully in February! Feel free to chat. I'm in need of friends, just guys to talk to or hang out with. I know I may look like a kid, but I assure you, that has nothing to do with who I am, unless your a very childish person... in which case I will probably bring out my immature side just for you. But I can be deep and have intelligent conversations. So yeah...

    How's this for an introduction? Probably too much eh?
  • Hi just joined this site. Im a bio gay guy lived in Sf, now In Boca Raton FL Currently near Pitt, PA till september.Ive unknowingly met a few trans ftm guys in sf and have had great experiences and frienships. So was hoping to meet some more here.:)
  • 25! i love music, film, the interwebz, comedy, and enjoy fishing and taking my doxie for walks. i'm currently seeking employment (yawnfest) and trying to socialize, at least online. i'm on t for around 5 years and had top surgery over a year ago. i consider myself homoflexible. i have accounts on various websites. i play wow, to much. and read, too too much. i live in rural pa (more yawning) and use the internet to have a pseudo-life until life starts falling into place.

    nice to meet'cha! =)
  • Hey guys I am a gay bio-male and I am attracted to FTM. I am looking for a long term relationship and think the man on the inside is what makes the man not whats on the outside. I am in Kansas the ftm's here all date women. I feel that it is time to broaden my horizons and seek FTM's that are attracted gay men in other states.


    I am still working on my profile so if you want to know anything feel free to ask.


    Thx
    Jeremy
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    Hey folks, I'm a bio guy and FTM lover. I'm really happy to know that there are people who share similar interests in here, cause I've been feeling quite undocked and kinky because of my sexuality.
    I'm 19 years old, I come from Brazil, and I know most of you guys are from the US, but I'm fine making friends only on the internet - actually I need to make friends like me or I will explode!

    Anyway, I'm sexually attracted to the male body, but not sexually attracted to the male genital. I worship pussy, so the combination of a man with a pussy is the epitome of the sensuality and my biggest sexual attraction. Infacts, I'm more attracted to gay FTMs than any bio man or woman. I'm here to befriend bio guys who have similar sexual taste and specially to befriend/date gay FTMs. I'd like to leave my Facebook and msn to everyone who wants to chat, but first, please send me a message asking for it.

    *I would like to apologise for my english since I'm not a native speaker nor have taken english lessons, but I think you all can understand me. Cheers. :)*
  • I haven't been on this site in years but here I am again.

    I'm a gay ftm guy looking to meet bio guys. I'm 31, Latino and love a top! I live in a rural area which makes dating hard. I enjoy meeting new people so please send a message, even if you don't live near me.

    I work as a firefighter and emt. I like outdoor activities and just relaxing. Message me and I'll happily tell you more.

    I'm looking for a guy who is kind, open and honest, someone into learning about themselves and others, quick to laugh and smile.
  • Hey there. I'm Kayden and I am mad late lol. Im trans 26 and in Philly. Also very very very gay. & in a commited relationship with a cisgendered guys whom I love very much. Anygay, would love to meet some folks in my area to hang and whatnot :)
  • I'm Tony from Fremont, CA. I have lived here for about 6 years now but living in the bay area my whole life. I am looking for friendships, positive sexual encounters, or anything else that passes in my life. I love to eat. drink beer, make zines, write, and read anything about feminism or queer theory. I hope to meet someone one day I can possibly call my true love.
  • Hey! Great to find this tribe. I'm a gay bio-male living near Albuquerque, caring for my fave aunt & uncle in their final years. I'm a CNA by profession, so it's not a stretch. Some years ago when I lived in Portland OR I met a hot guy at a gay bar and we hit it off. He was everything that turns me on in a man - small, hairy, beard, firm-bodied, great smile, smart and talkative. After awhile he told me he was ftm and hadn't had bottom surgery. By this time we were already making out, haha. I had a lot of questions and the more answers I got the hornier I got :) I'm mostly top so hearing about his junk really got me going - guess I'm not that big into cock, I just like masculine looking bottom guys (I don't care about masc/fem behavior), have hit on girls before who looked really masculine (no luck, they've all been lesbians) so still don't have any experience with vagina or non-bio pre-surgical cock. I'm sure there's better terms than what I'm using, but I don't know them. Anyway, this guy in the bar was actually put off by the level of interest I displayed in his junk. Still not sure why, but I think it may be that he wasn't comfortable with his cock and that made him uncomfortable that I was so interested. We talked about it a couple times over a couple years when I'd bump into him, but we still didn't get anything going. After I met him, though, I started noticing lots of other slim little guys who I thought may be trans - and when I asked them about it more than a few were willing to talk with me. Still, they were all former lesbians now hetero men. On that note, I've always wanted more lesbian friends, but they seem to find my company awkward, not sure why. I'm a feminist who sees that the hatred of gay men stems from misogyny - that we're traitors to our perceived superiority as males because we're perceived to be acting like wimmin. As a result of this understanding I believe the support and creation of wimmin's power is the most direct and successful way to change attitudes about gay men. For instance, when talking about an animal or bug or stuffed animal, I always assume it has a female gender (just the opposite of what most people do) and encourage males who use words like pussy or cunt derogatively to see the beauty and power in female reproduction and female gifts/strengths. I'm steeped in radical faerie culture (since '85) and queer/genderfuck culture. Still, I present as typically masculine male, which I like and am comfortable with. Anyway, I'd like to at least have a ftm guy friend to hang out with (gay or straight doesn't matter), and at most an ftm lover, but like most people I'm attracted to certain qualities (as above) and not others so not so sure that'll happen. There's more about me on my profile, so check me out. Cheers!
  • Hey! Great to find this tribe. I'm a gay bio-male living near Albuquerque, caring for my fave aunt & uncle in their final years. I'm a CNA by profession, so it's not a stretch. Some years ago when I lived in Portland OR I met a hot guy at a gay bar and we hit it off. He was everything that turns me on in a man - small, hairy, beard, firm-bodied, great smile, smart and talkative. After awhile he told me he was ftm and hadn't had bottom surgery. By this time we were already making out, haha. I had a lot of questions and the more answers I got the hornier I got :) I'm mostly top so hearing about his junk really got me going - guess I'm not that big into cock, I just like masculine looking bottom guys (I don't care about masc/fem behavior), have hit on girls before who looked really masculine (no luck, they've all been lesbians) so still don't have any experience with vagina or non-bio pre-surgical cock. I'm sure there's better terms than what I'm using, but I don't know them. Anyway, this guy in the bar was actually put off by the level of interest I displayed in his junk. Still not sure why, but I think it may be that he wasn't comfortable with his cock and that made him uncomfortable that I was so interested. We talked about it a couple times over a couple years when I'd bump into him, but we still didn't get anything going. After I met him, though, I started noticing lots of other slim little guys who I thought may be trans - and when I asked them about it more than a few were willing to talk with me. Still, they were all former lesbians now hetero men. On that note, I've always wanted more lesbian friends, but they seem to find my company awkward, not sure why. I'm a feminist who sees that the hatred of gay men stems from misogyny - that we're traitors to our perceived superiority as males because we're perceived to be acting like wimmin. As a result of this understanding I believe the support and creation of wimmin's power is the most direct and successful way to change attitudes about gay men. For instance, when talking about an animal or bug or stuffed animal, I always assume it has a female gender (just the opposite of what most people do) and encourage males who use words like pussy or cunt derogatively to see the beauty and power in female reproduction and female gifts/strengths. I'm steeped in radical faerie culture (since '85) and queer/genderfuck culture. Still, I present as typically masculine male, which I like and am comfortable with. Anyway, I'd like to at least have a ftm guy friend to hang out with (gay or straight doesn't matter), and at most an ftm lover, but like most people I'm attracted to certain qualities (as above) and not others so not so sure that'll happen. There's more about me on my profile, so check me out. Cheers!
  • Hey! Great to find this tribe. I'm a gay bio-male living near Albuquerque, caring for my fave aunt & uncle in their final years. I'm a CNA by profession, so it's not a stretch. Some years ago when I lived in Portland OR I met a hot guy at a gay bar and we hit it off. He was everything that turns me on in a man - small, hairy, beard, firm-bodied, great smile, smart and talkative. After awhile he told me he was ftm and hadn't had bottom surgery. By this time we were already making out, haha. I had a lot of questions and the more answers I got the hornier I got :) I'm mostly top so hearing about his junk really got me going - guess I'm not that big into cock, I just like masculine looking bottom guys (I don't care about masc/fem behavior), have hit on girls before who looked really masculine (no luck, they've all been lesbians) so still don't have any experience with vagina or non-bio pre-surgical cock. I'm sure there's better terms than what I'm using, but I don't know them. Anyway, this guy in the bar was actually put off by the level of interest I displayed in his junk. Still not sure why, but I think it may be that he wasn't comfortable with his cock and that made him uncomfortable that I was so interested. We talked about it a couple times over a couple years when I'd bump into him, but we still didn't get anything going. After I met him, though, I started noticing lots of other slim little guys who I thought may be trans - and when I asked them about it more than a few were willing to talk with me. Still, they were all former lesbians now hetero men. On that note, I've always wanted more lesbian friends, but they seem to find my company awkward, not sure why. I'm a feminist who sees that the hatred of gay men stems from misogyny - that we're traitors to our perceived superiority as males because we're perceived to be acting like wimmin. As a result of this understanding I believe the support and creation of wimmin's power is the most direct and successful way to change attitudes about gay men. For instance, when talking about an animal or bug or stuffed animal, I always assume it has a female gender (just the opposite of what most people do) and encourage males who use words like pussy or cunt derogatively to see the beauty and power in female reproduction and female gifts/strengths. I'm steeped in radical faerie culture (since '85) and queer/genderfuck culture. Still, I present as typically masculine male, which I like and am comfortable with. Anyway, I'd like to at least have a ftm guy friend to hang out with (gay or straight doesn't matter), and at most an ftm lover, but like most people I'm attracted to certain qualities (as above) and not others so not so sure that'll happen. There's more about me on my profile, so check me out. Cheers!
  • Geo
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    Hi All,
    I think I replied to this post a while back, but in case I didn't, I'm Geo, Gay/ Pansexual FTM living in the southern NH area. I'm about 1.5 hrs from Boston and fairly close to VT as well. PLEASE NOTE: I am open to making connections of all kinds from, friendship to love to NSA sex. I am very serious when I say I am adaptable, tolerant, and friendly and fully acknowledge that sometimes a good friend is a better thing to have then a great lover. Whatever you're goal, if you live in my area, hit me up.If you're not a complete psycho(I have met a few on the internet), maybe I'll buy you coffee. :) cheers!
  • I'm Jake, FTM, as far along transition as I will probably go(top and testosterone!). Fairly attractive, GSOH, athletic build, high sex drive! London, UK based. Actor, writer, and manny! :)
    Looking for cis guys for friendship, sex, and more. Anyone UK based?

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