What got YOU dancing?

topic posted Wed, December 13, 2006 - 8:30 AM by  Bob
How did you start? What caused it to become a regular part of your life?

In my case, a friend told me about her dance experiences, but the style didn't interest me. I decided to try waltz (I had taken ballroom lessons years earlier) and followed the instructor to east-coast swing and eventually to contra, which became a passion. I got hooked through the sense of community (as Zach pointed out) and not feeling like an idiot on the dance floor.
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  • Re: What got YOU dancing?

    Wed, December 13, 2006 - 8:48 AM
    My mother was a dancer and I think the gene got passed onto me. I started w/ ballet at 5 yrs old. then i got into modern dance in high school. once in college, it went on the back burner for a couple years and then i discovered all sorts types: african, hip hop , funk, butoh.it's something that i never had a problem picking up. for instance, last friday i went to see a cuban band w/ some friends and they had salsa dancing. never took a lesson and i got the basics down. however, once i got twirled around it became disorientating. Ha ha it was fun! Now i want to take lessons.
    what i liked about the atomsphere was the sense of community. everyone was just about being together having fun no matter what. people switched partners and it was great. Hey, i felt like an idiot too at times but if you're having fun, who cares! i guess you have to feel comfortable w/ yourself and your body to learn to relax when dancing/moving. not everyone gets it on the first try when starting something new.
    all i can say is, Keep Dancing and don't give up!
  • Re: What got YOU dancing?

    Fri, December 15, 2006 - 1:50 PM
    It was Wagner. When my family was away I would put the Ride of the Valkyries and start to move. It was great until my parents caught me and in utter shock my mother screamed. "BOYS DON"T DANCE!"
    • Re: What got YOU dancing?

      Mon, December 18, 2006 - 10:34 AM
      "BOYS DON'T DANCE!"

      Oh, man. That is SO painful. I often bemoan the fact that in the U.S., men don't learn to dance or worse, it is unmanly to dance. Comparing that sentiment to, say, Macedonian or Hungarian cultures, where men dance and it is really macho, I think how unfortunate it is when our culture makes dancing a gender - identity issue.

      I remember being somewhat shocked at being told by a couple of women how rare I was - a guy who can dance. (This was at a dance festival, too.)

      Craig in Arcata
      • Re: What got YOU dancing?

        Thu, February 22, 2007 - 10:56 PM
        I think it's more accurate to say that in the U.S., *white* men don't learn to dance (unless they're gay). Black and Hispanic men sure can dance, including moving their hips, which is often challenging for white guys. And for me, there's nothing like watching a male African dancer to see movements that are both graceful and athletic as well as very manly!

        christina
        • Re: What got YOU dancing?

          Mon, February 26, 2007 - 9:29 AM
          Christina:

          Yes, you're absolutely right. I was born and grew up in Salt Lake City, so my exposure to African-American and Latino culture was REALLY limited. At the time, the black population in SLC was seven tenths of one percent! I started doing South American folkloric stuff when I ran into a co-worker from Uruguay who got me to join her group for a short time, long before taking salsa lessons.

          Craig in Arcata
  • Re: What got YOU dancing?

    Wed, December 20, 2006 - 6:37 PM
    Essentially, it was good music. Music that infiltrates first your body, then your soul.....and stays with you.
    First, I jwas just rocking out wherever, then steppin' it up at the club....whatever got me moving.

    But it was bellydance that really introduced me to interpretation of music through movement as a true art form.

    Now, it's almost a compulsion. I'm just not as happy with a day unless i've danced.
    It is my joy.
  • Re: What got YOU dancing?

    Thu, December 21, 2006 - 8:27 AM
    As a kid, watching the Fred Astaire movies on TBS planted the seed.

    Then learning how to dance Salsa "On2" did the rest.
    • Re: What got YOU dancing?

      Sun, December 24, 2006 - 11:01 AM
      "All Along The Watchtower" played by the Grateful Dead, OAKLAND 1994

      later...

      "Mother Earth" by Dubtribe Sound System. Played by DJ Big Sam (XXXL) at NYC, Santa Barbara 1996
  • Re: What got YOU dancing?

    Sat, January 20, 2007 - 3:39 PM
    Chiming in a bit late, I'm new to the tribe, is my excuse ...

    Being immersed in the sounds and the vibrations of a circle of drumming and chanting, I just could not help but get up and move. The fact that no one else was up and I had no idea what I was doing was not enough to keep my body from propelling me around and amongst the drummers. I danced until I wasn't there and back again and ever since my life seems empty without a regular dose of that ecstasy.
    • Re: What got YOU dancing?

      Thu, February 22, 2007 - 10:51 PM
      I kinda sorta used to dance -- I remember having a great time at the college pub, learned the hustle, loved Parliament Funkadelic and the Gap Band...but I didn't get "serious" about dance until I went to California (I was living in New York) to visit my sister. She took me to all these wild and crazy places...a Zen meditation center, a club where all the performers were Latinas who used to be men, Disneyland, and I got my first astrological reading. The astrologer asked me what I did for a creative outlet, because he said I had all this creative energy in my chart. I said "Nothing." He said "You have to do something -- paint, write, play music, do something." So that's when I decided I was really going to dance.

      I got back to New York, found the School for Creative Movement, which helped me find my own dance rather than learning someone else's, and I also found Barefoot Boogie, which was a community as well as a place to "do your own dance." I also started studying African dance, the one structured form I have stuck with over the years.

      Then I got involved with Dance New England, moved to Boston, got involved with Dance Friday and Dance Freedom, and then moved to California, where I got involved with Dance Jam and Dance Spirit and Barefoot Boogie SF, and then started the Northern California Dance Collective so we could have dance camps out here too. Lately I've been taking waltz lessons and going to vintage dance events, all dressed up Victorian-like -- who woulda thunk?

      So it wasn't so much a song, or an artist...it was a discovery and an intention and then it became a way of life. I think of my life in terms of BD and AD -- before dance and after dance. It sure is a whole lot better AD! Now I dance and deejay and organize events that get other people dancing, because I think dance and community are powerful ways of healing ourselves and this planet.

      christina
      • Re: What got YOU dancing?

        Mon, March 26, 2007 - 11:02 AM
        my parents used to put on boney m, culture club, cindy lauper, and random funky east german music, and my brother and i would regularly dance in the living room...then, came the summer camp disco in germany where i got into doing lipsinging and dance choreography with my friends for show ( we did saltnpeppa "push it" when i was 9 and i did all the rapping and my two cousins did the push it good, push push it real good!!!)
        then came the highschool dances where all the boys were shorter than us and too shy, so we sat in the hallways and did hand and face massages...
        then came the raves, ooh...at first i thought it was weird, full of zombie looking folks (blacklight effect), but soon learnt to close my eyes and make myself a safe space on the dance floor from where to lift off from...wow, what a trip...today i dj and rarely dance high energy as i did b4, mostly rocking myself all night, because i keep energy for my sunrise music sets...looking forward to learn tango one day..
        as soon as i saw that everyone was doing what they want, i realized that we are all free on the dance floor and to dance with other kin is great, the interactions are awesome...

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