How is it possible.......

topic posted Fri, May 9, 2008 - 8:07 PM by 
.......that I am on a tribe that I didnt join? I used to join and unjoin innas Politics tribe off and on but havent been on it in months. I had unjoined it and was on her Allnighters tribe and then B came in and did his special work and I didnt want to be on that tribe anymore because of his mere presence. Then somehow I got in a tift with inna and called her a bad word. : ( I don't blame anyone but myself for that but that's how I felt at the time. Anyway, we havent spoken since. And that was a while back. Months ago. Now all of a sudden I am on the Politics tribe again. I sent her a pm to inquire but she never responded. I don't want to post if she doesnt want me too. I honestly have no idea how I am back on that tribe. Even if she was cool with me posting I'm not sure if I would or even stay on the tribe. I may just unjoin again because of the volatile way it used to be. Who knows maybe it's not like that anymore. I don't know as I havent checked it out for a long time. ANYWAY, I was just wondering how it is that I am all of a sudden back on there again. And then I didnt want her to think I had "snook" back on in that way that some people know how but I do not. I don't want to be on there if she doesnt want me on. But honestly I have no idea how I am back on her tribe. It just started popping up on my tribes list again. Or who know, possibly I sent a request in the past and she just now accepted me back? No idea.
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  • Re: How is it possible.......

    Fri, May 9, 2008 - 8:09 PM
    pssssssst it's a conspiracy!

    sorry seemed appropriate ;-)
    • Re: How is it possible.......

      Fri, May 9, 2008 - 8:12 PM
      I'm guessing that tribe partially reverted to a previous state.

      AS I know nothing about computers, this guess is probably meaningless.

      I like to have an explanation to help me sleep at night.
      • Re: How is it possible.......

        Fri, May 9, 2008 - 8:14 PM
        Possibly it has nothing and everything to do with quantum physics simutaneously. : )
        • Re: How is it possible.......

          Sat, May 10, 2008 - 12:25 AM
          Maybe you did ask to join months ago and forgot. Is it a moderated tribe? If not then that wouldn't make sense. But since you said you might have asked to join a long time ago and perhaps she only now accepted your invite that would explain it.

          A few weeks ago I suddenly found myself in a tribe I didn't remember asking to join. It turned out it was a tribe I had asked to join nearly a year previously. The moderator finally got around to looking at their tribe again, she explained, and let in dozens of people at once that had asked to join it. I had long since forgotten about the tribe, thinking all those months ago that my request had been denied.
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          Sat, May 10, 2008 - 6:40 AM
          I think it's a conspiracy to make you more paranoid, M, and the flux capacitor of the Tribe machine hiccuped and you fell victim to the belch. It's all an evil plan to overthrow the world using confused gay males. <snark>
          • Re: How is it possible.......

            Sat, May 10, 2008 - 7:38 AM
            Total snark. Borderline offensive. I guess it's a good thing I don't know you well enough to give a damn about your opinion. lol j/k : ) Funny huh? Feels so good.
            • Re: How is it possible.......

              Sat, May 10, 2008 - 8:23 AM
              just joking with you M. The confused part meaning you talk about women so much and thinking about switching. Who knows why you ended up on that tribe. That used to happen to me on Yahoo sometimes with the groups. No idea how I would suddenly end up in a group and receive email updates from them. Either from blackout actions or someone playing tricks on me. One can always "unjoin" the tribe.
              • Re: How is it possible.......

                Sat, May 10, 2008 - 8:32 AM
                I posted a couple things. Seems like not alot has changed in there since I was on last.

                Switching? Oh no. I may be predominantly homo but have always loved women too. So it's not like "switching" to me. If I could find love with a woman that was okay with me being predominantly monogamous but occasionally having sex with a buddy that would be ideal. lol One that understands and loves me for all of who I am. I think it sucks how many supposedly straight men lie to their wives and mess around on the DL. I wouldnt want to lie to the one person I supposedly love more than any other person on earth. I'd prefer to be honest and open about everything. And maybe she would like three way and could be our dominatrix or a French maid or something. Life is supposed to be fun right? I deprive myself of none of my desire. Butt, if something is unattainable, I can accept that. I often sing that NIN line to myself, "I just want something, I can never have!" There's a guy at work I'm totally in love with and I'm pretty sure nothing will ever happen. He knows I think he's handsome. He's a really nice guy. But probably nothing will ever happen with him. He's probably str8 anyway. He has one of those Christian fish thingy keychain too so not sure if we would be totally compatible anyway. lol
  • Re: How is it possible.......

    Sat, May 10, 2008 - 2:17 PM
    One should expect bad words and bad feelings in the Politics tribe, methinks. How can you have a political discussion these days without name-calling?
    • Re: How is it possible.......

      Sat, May 10, 2008 - 3:47 PM
      Name calling is fine if it's not ALL the time. Now that DVDburner guy is on there just calling everyone a closet racist. He is totally racist and just starts arguments non-stop. Totally stupid and irrevelant. Same thing he was doing months ago. Actually he's probably been up to that same old shit on that tribe for over a year or more now. It's annoying and sad.

      And inna pmd me earlier. It wasnt like some big make up friend thing but I'm glad she messaged me. I've missed her. She's cool. Even though I was upset with her before. It is possible to get upset with people even if you think theyre cool. : )
      • Re: How is it possible.......

        Sat, May 10, 2008 - 6:37 PM
        DVDburner has been annoying people since at least 2003, that I'm aware of. Full disclosure--he's on my friends list, and he's never gone after me, but you're not alone in your dislike.

        As for the closet racist stuff. I am a racist--not in an ideological sense, but by virtue of growing up and living in a racist society. But it's such a loaded subject, so I don't like to talk about it, even though I'm pretty damn sure that being able to talk about would root out some of the stupidity and make it look pathetic in the light of day. Calling people closet racists doesn't seem to be an effective tactic, if ending racism is your goal.
        • Re: How is it possible.......

          Sat, May 10, 2008 - 6:56 PM

          it also happens to be the best politics tribe on tribe.

          you're going to have to deal periodically with jerks just like any tribe. but the vast majority are cool people that only want to debate.

          the DVD guy pops up now and then. but it is pretty unfair to judge the tribe based on a couple isolated flare-ups.
        • Re: How is it possible.......

          Sat, May 10, 2008 - 7:23 PM
          It perpetuates it. It can even turn people that arent racist into racists. They be like "OMG! F this mutha fucka!" But it is just ASSHOLE, not ALL. Individuals are who they are and DO NOT represent any entire group. MLK would set some bitches str8 if he were here on Tribe with us fo show! HELLO!!!

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