my answer is wrapped in a non-answer...

sexy is one-step-closer to my lustful-heart than flirty...

my lustful-heart enjoys persons with self-confidence, self-acceptance, and self-reliance. thus, MY interactions are not fixing some need in them, but rather enhancing their own being. not to say that i dont enjoy fixing someone elses WANTS, just not their needs...

there is a fine-line there between a want and a need which causes me to either come-closer or pull-away and i wish i could control my reactions in RL as well as im able to control these words on the screen... lol

sexiness is a want - i can feel it and the person will be radiating it... otoh, that might just be my need talking... ha.

you want some brass tacks? high heels on a womans foot, a twirl of a flowing skirt, a stare-then-drop of the eyes, the willingness to remove your clothes (in public or in private), the intelligence to know which clothes are better left ON for effect, the maintenance of a conversation by asking questions rather than providing data, a large cup-size or a large cock, the knowledge that sexiness does not have a schedule to maintain...

hth, h.

I admit it, I'm a size queen. Nothing gets me hotter than a guy with a really big, um, brain. Like, freakishly large. Smell is also a really big deal. I love the natural smells that come off a reasonably clean but not perfumed body. I like body hair, little dense patches of fur I can run my fingers through and scritch and scratch gently. Smiling is sexy. I like a man who isn't afraid to smile. I like outgoing people, the ones who laughingly plunge in where others fear to tread. Voice is important, too - a real deal breaker but a huge turn on if the right tone and timber. I like a man who isn't afraid to touch but isn't creepy about it. Bisexuality is hot as fuck. I like a man who knows what he wants and doesn't waste time lying to himself and others. That's sexy.

i think miniskirts are very sexy, on girls and guys, the smaller the better. thigh highs, garter belts, stockings, clubwear, arm and leg warmers. Something about dressing up is so much fun. i like the hip bone on people's bodies, you know right where the pelvic bone is, that spot is so sexy. MMF is definitely sexy, the thought of having it all there in front of you is quite a dream. There is something about double penetration that is sexy to me too, It just seems not faked whenever I see it in porn. The women get a different look on their face when getting the DP, and boys get that same way too just way more intense, the boys aren't faking it at all, it almost looks uncomfortable at first but once it gets going, the men getting it just are engulfed in this crazy energy, and the sounds that come out of them are so sweet and soft and deep, I like seeing men in vunerable states, it melts all the toughness away. I like softspoken people too, I find that much sexier than loudness. I like loud music, but not loud people, unless you're screaming in ecstacy! :)

A nice back... yum.
Consciousness with a capital C -- the kind that doesn't require a lot of words to prove it. Just radiate.
A good laugh.
Knowing looks.
Soft kisses on the neck, and/or hovering just above the skin and letting the recipient shiver with antici..............pation.
The bottom or side of a woman's breasts.
That nook in a man's hip.
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gotta go find my boyfriend now, thanks a lot! ;)

My husband has a larger than average cock, and is very good looking. He was in excellent shape until he injured his back a few months ago and has gained a little weight. I actually like the extra weight on him, I love his heart shaped ass, but what I love most of all is the noises he makes when I use my strapon on him. He make the most amazing noises, and I love the looks on his face. It makes me cum every time.