i am thinking of this one, trying to wonder any connection. haha.
there were three or four beautiful bushes/trees in a large field across from a house i work at. i asked the lady (and i understand that having strangers come to your do to request of your weeds is a little odd, and may throw a few off) if it was alright if i were to harvest a bit, but she declined saying she was afraid i would get hurt. i told her i understood, but if she would think on it, i could come back with a note saying she wouldn't be held responsible....but she was weirded out and said no. so i left.
a little up the road there was another field and wayyy off in the field were a few more. so i went to pull off of the road to go check it out and maybe harvest a few. ha. but there was nothing to pull off onto. so my van goes boom on its axles on the edge of the road. i got the girls out through my door, afraid the van would tip, haha- i was shaking! so i walk around to see, and the weeds come up to my knees. geez i have to be more careful!
so three hours and 95$ later while sitting in a nice patch of poison ivy, we got to go home. and i *think* my car will be ok. i hope.

so twice denied elder. i couldn't leave the girls in the teetering vehicle while i checked out the elder and it was too far off in the deep grass to lug them along through it all too, so i did no communing with the plant. i am left wondering why, and what the message may be.