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He or She Just Aint That Into You.
If you have herpes and have the integrity to tell someone about it before you get sexually involved and they reject you because of it, it is one of the most devastating forms of rejection imaginable. Just as bad as being rejected because of your race, or physical disability or anything else not under your control, and just as ignorant and intolerable.
When the people I treat tell me their rejection stories I feel for them. Some are so shaken by it that they stop dating for years or ghettoize themselves to only dating others with herpes.
What I say to them is that "He or She was Just not that into You". No one who really wants a person, and I do mean want the person, the whole person and the package that comes with them, will reject them just because they have herpes. Who would want that kind of superficial love anyways.
Herpes is a great litmus test to let you know who really cares about you and desires you.
It reasonable for someone to want the risks and consequences explained to them. It's reasonable for someone not to be enthusiastic about you having herpes- who would be? But anyone who really loved or or though you were sexy before finding out about your herpes will still think so afterwards.
When you further explain to them that you are managing your herpes with herbal medicine or drug therapy and that you practice safer sex with a condom and an anti-viral gel there should be no reason for them not to want to sex you up right then and there.
Dear member of the Herpes Nation: Hold you head up high. Remember who you are. How special you are. How deserving you are of love and it's fruits. Don't let anyone diss you or make you feel less than. Anyone who wants you must accept the whole package of your life. Don't settle for anything less than that.
If you've been rejected or made to feel less than. Reach out to me and I'll encourage and support you.
Christopher Scipio
Homeopath/Herbalist
Holistic Viral Specialist
www.natropractica.com
www.antiviralgel.com
If you have herpes and have the integrity to tell someone about it before you get sexually involved and they reject you because of it, it is one of the most devastating forms of rejection imaginable. Just as bad as being rejected because of your race, or physical disability or anything else not under your control, and just as ignorant and intolerable.
When the people I treat tell me their rejection stories I feel for them. Some are so shaken by it that they stop dating for years or ghettoize themselves to only dating others with herpes.
What I say to them is that "He or She was Just not that into You". No one who really wants a person, and I do mean want the person, the whole person and the package that comes with them, will reject them just because they have herpes. Who would want that kind of superficial love anyways.
Herpes is a great litmus test to let you know who really cares about you and desires you.
It reasonable for someone to want the risks and consequences explained to them. It's reasonable for someone not to be enthusiastic about you having herpes- who would be? But anyone who really loved or or though you were sexy before finding out about your herpes will still think so afterwards.
When you further explain to them that you are managing your herpes with herbal medicine or drug therapy and that you practice safer sex with a condom and an anti-viral gel there should be no reason for them not to want to sex you up right then and there.
Dear member of the Herpes Nation: Hold you head up high. Remember who you are. How special you are. How deserving you are of love and it's fruits. Don't let anyone diss you or make you feel less than. Anyone who wants you must accept the whole package of your life. Don't settle for anything less than that.
If you've been rejected or made to feel less than. Reach out to me and I'll encourage and support you.
Christopher Scipio
Homeopath/Herbalist
Holistic Viral Specialist
www.natropractica.com
www.antiviralgel.com
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Re: He or She Just Aint That Into You
Sat, December 3, 2005 - 4:31 PMthank you. your love for all of us is amazing.
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Re: He or She Just Aint That Into You
Sun, December 4, 2005 - 2:30 PM>"He or She was Just not that into You"<
This is very true. Kinda helps weed out the ones who aren't interested in being with *me*.
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Re: He or She Just Aint That Into You
Tue, December 6, 2005 - 6:43 PMi fully agree that it does help weed out the less positive acquaintances in our life.
raven
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Re: He or She Just Aint That Into You
Sat, August 30, 2008 - 10:12 AMhi all,
i wanted to bring this topic back to the front, because these are such powerful words.
herpes prompts us to live more consciously, and part of that is who we share energy physically with.
the more i feel this topic, the deeper i can think about what this means to me.
being rejected for having herpes has forced me to not always be able to relate, show love, and/or heal in the physical realm or keep the love and touch energy flowing through sex (which used to be the way i would do this as a poly person and some type of healer); i now can, or have to, mingle with people's spirits out of body or through other kinds of connection like talking, touching, eye gazing, coaching, etc.
remember, anyone who is getting rejected, there are others out there who will be your love, you just have not met them yet.
xo
