Wow, Walt, I love what you wrote! One of the beautiful things about this tribe is how EVERYONE here shares and expresses so much wisdom!!!

So, welcome Eniad! I'm just the moderator and a fellow learner. Under extraordinary circumstances, I've been lucky enough to learn a version of the Ho'oponopono process from Ramsay Taum, of O'ahu, who learned from the late Morrnah Simeona, a kahuna la'au lapaau (healer). She was an amazing person by all accounts, and through spiritual guidance re-created the traditional group Ho'oponopono process for modern individual practice.

From the beginning, I've been directed by spirit to share this process. However, it's difficult, because I have come to it through a lineage where the founder has passed on and those who studied directly with her do not seem to be training teachers. From Ramsay, I have permission to share this in ritual settings, but not to teach it, which is sometimes hard to sort out. And to speak from my own experiences honestly (which may not end up being similar to yours or anyone else's!).

So I have been trying to share from what is already openly available in books, and from my own insight. And I've been hoping to ask Ramsay back here to the Bay Area so he can do a third workshop. But he's a very busy man, with much to do in Hawai'i.

So here is what I can say to you now. Morrnah speaks of our "divine blueprint." We all have one. This is, I think, how we may have been at the moment of our first creation as a soul. Unsullied. No glitches. We can return to this blueprint whenever we like. We're encoded with it. But as we go through our lives and karma and all that, we pick up "stuff." Lots of it. But we can jettison it. Using rituals like Ho'oponopono, we can "cut and cleanse" what's been stuck in our blueprint that's no longer serving us.

So in a way, a very definite way, we must cut and cleanse with ourselves first. One way to do this could be to imagine yourself in that unsullied, divine blueprint stage, shining, glittering, radiant, surefooted and nimble. You don't need to look for love, you ARE love.

When you encounter a possible new love, imagine yourself in that state.

Also make use of the capacities of your "three selves:" unihipili, uhane and aumakua. One thing I do know is when we stumble and have difficulties in our normal, day to day mode (the "uhane" part of ourselves), we can still have access, through our unihipili self (the "basic" or child self), to it's wisdom and that of our aumakua (high self) and divine energy. We can ask our unihipili to meet the other's unihipili, and get into alignment that way. We can also ask our unihipili to facilitate a meeting between our aumakua, to ask for wisdom and aloha in all interactions. All this happens without conscious exchanges between the two uhane selves, but this approach has profound effects.

But in order for this to work properly, you really must begin nurturing your unihipili. Ask it for its name. It may be of any gender or gender combinations. Say wonderful things to it. Give it love and support. Try to not violate it with demands and harshness. Be good to yourself. Assure your unihipili that you will be kind and gentle. Send aloha. Do ho'oponopono with it. Give it layers of protective energy -- colors of indigo, emerald green, ice blue and white. (I'll put more of this in another posting.) Make it feel safe and supported, and you will find yourself working together in wonderful ways.

Plus, you'll begin to be able to circumvent snarls with other people's unihipilis. There will be less of that pushing button and old baggage stuff. And when you then add Ho'oponopono to the mix, as a regular practice, things do move along a lot better.

I'm in the middle of a tremendous snarl myself, and this is the only thing keeping me sane...

One other thing. It's not instantaneous. Some situations are profoundly complex. You need to keep working on them. But you will see results.

I wanted time to rethink this.

I thought earlier about the definition of "evil" and one of the two was inertia. I would like to resolve a pattern with inertia. In my case, having been stuck in victim role and having deal with predators because of family history.
I have survived but I would like to do better. I would like not to have such people around anymore and loose the abusers/users. I am dealing with the tail end of this and I want to do it without becoming a predator/user.
I want to meet a different type of people on my path.

I feel a massive shift of energy happening already and this is changing already

I think that as spiritual people we have a tendency to want to be saviours but that does not work. I do not mind being a giver but I noticed that one can become abused instead.

Maybe that is a normal pattern we must evolve through on our way to wisdom.

That is something that some of us are possibly working on now or should be working on.

That could be globally interesting.


My pattern with men is not that bad because I see clearly. I tend to get guys that get netted sexually or by hard-to-get-games by other females when I show interest. They get swept out of the way without my having to do anything. Maybe it means that I do not want to get involved seriously. No matter how intelligent, they are immature that way and often pay a bitter price. They are pathetic, not women beaters nor serious abusers, but I do not want to attract them anymore.

Working on the pattern may get me a better quality mate that I could get involved with. Not carrying the victim pattern means you can be vulnerable with the right person.