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i got a question about these 2 weirds ive been having for a long time. the 1st dream i always had is my mother and i have sex in the dream. NO, I WAS NOT MOLESTED/RAPED AS A CHILD BY MY PARENTS. i had those dreams since i was 12 and sometimes i still dream about it at 23. my mom and i are NOT close at all, for the record. why am i having those kinds of perverted dreams? the 2nd dream im having recently is mom and i are fighting in the house with our hands and we break the door as we are flying out beating each other.
the 2nd dream always result in us arguing about friends, relationship and education - mostly friends and relationship. thats when put her hands on me and we went at each other. my question is what do these dreams mean? yea i still live at home for the moment.
the 2nd dream always result in us arguing about friends, relationship and education - mostly friends and relationship. thats when put her hands on me and we went at each other. my question is what do these dreams mean? yea i still live at home for the moment.
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Re: weird dreams
Fri, May 22, 2009 - 6:27 AMI'll suggest that your dreams are dramatically indicating serious issues you have with your mother around love/affection/intimacy and issues of power/control. The classical take, however, on the wish to have sex with one's mother, is that it is a latent urge from childhood, to possess one's mother and eliminate one's father (Freud- Oedipis Complex). You make no mention of your relationshp with your father.
From Wikipedia: "Classical theory holds that 'resolution' of the Oedipus complex takes place through identification with the parent of the same sex and (partial) temporary renunciation of the parent of the opposite sex; the opposite-sex parent is then 're-discovered' as the growing individual's adult sexual object." So maybe you need to break away from your mother, temporarily (get out of the damn house!) and shore up your relationship with your dad.
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Re: weird dreams
Tue, July 28, 2009 - 6:18 PMallan, i have no relationship w/ my dad. he was NEVER THERE FOR HIS KIDS! he is hateful, narcissitic, pathological liar, deadbeat, physically and emotionally, has a mistress for 36 yrs, never understanding, never was home growing up, has no real interest in his kids,evil, has no remorse for anything/anybody, etc.
i get no love from both parents, hell never heard the words i love u in my life ever! only like 4 times thats it. when i was a teen at 14, i was meeting guys offline cuz i was longing for love, acceptance, support, and approval for 4 yrs in high school. i get zero love, support and acceptance at home. nothing isnt ever satisfying nor do i get a job well done and if i do the happiness last for a while then its from my mom if u wanna fail i dont give a damn - her words.
she ruined my life never lets me grow or do anything, so i grew up with no direction in my life why? cuz my mom has zero direction in her life! the miserable cunt. ive lost everything in my life including my soul and i lost human emotions. i surpressed my emotions for so long that i didnt feel anything, well i felt happiness but with sadness i wouldnt express it. now im expressing it more and more.
i dont speak to those ppl about anything, it makes no sense. nobody EVER even listens to a damn word i say. i seem to be the crazy, lunatic, the one who just wants attention and has to make up stories. sorry, i wont be like the other family members who would rather sit there and act like we are a loving family. id rather live the truth than to live a lie!
so, i slept around alot in hs and nobody knew. the feeling of a guy in bed putting his arm around u felt good until i got called a whole bunch of names and those ended very bad to the point some of them are still lookin for me and want to contact me when i want nothin more 2 do with jerks.
thats why im back to lookin for a job so i can save up the money to move out. another reason why i was in chatrooms was to find a guy who will take me away for good with no job and have him take care of me since my mom doesnt even want me to work at all. she has this entitlement of not workin cuz she refused to keep a job cuz my dad was spending his money on his hoe.
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Re: weird dreams
Mon, June 15, 2009 - 10:25 PMI have to disagree there. Your Mother is a symbol of something to you, what does she represent? It's not like we all have the same take on the article we use in dreams to represnt something, so you have to ask yourself the questions. Like "what does the door mean"? Is it a specific door? Details of the incestuous encounter are more likely to provide you with insights as to what you are making your Mother symbolize than us. -
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Re: weird dreams
Tue, July 28, 2009 - 6:08 PMhello david. my mother means ABSOLUTELY NOTHIN TO ME! as far as im concern, she is dead to me even though i stil live at home. she ruined my life growing up and i have bitter hatred for both parents.
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