Sea

topic posted Tue, December 18, 2007 - 4:06 AM by  Lori
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i keep having the same dream where im standing in the middle of nowhere, surrounded by a big body of water, which is dark blue and there is nothing else. i just try to ran away from the huge tides that seems to be swallowing me. can anyone tell me what this means? by the way, i cant swim.
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Lori
Australia
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  • Re: Sea

    Tue, December 18, 2007 - 7:15 AM
    Great sea has associations to the Unconscious and the Great Mother, but given that you are in your late teens, and the flooding image - the engulfing, swallowing tides - I would consider that it may be some kind of growth and regeneration that you may be reluctant to move in to?

    Floods, like the biblical floods and primordial flood imagery of ancient times washed away old ways, and regenerates new Earth.

    In psychological alchemy the flood is the Solutio, the stage where hot conflicts and emotions are dissolved, anticipating a new direction, imaged as coagulation, Coagulatio, again the new Earth - and all that;)

    It is not necessarily a pleasant experience. You may be overwhelmed, but courage and a sense of adventure are the way to go... May be an exciting time of transition...

    Interesting I did an I Ching reading in relation to you and this situation. It read first (5) CHUN: "Difficulty at the beginning, perseverance", then (11) TA'I: "Peace, the small departs, the great approaches" with the 5th line changing in CHUN, indicating that the difficulty at the beginning is caused by others interfering with your path, so that you must take small steps in the right direction, your own direction, to persevere, so that peace comes in your own individuation.
    • Re: Sea

      Tue, December 18, 2007 - 10:06 AM
      I agree with Greg about the Great Mother Sea and its associations to the Unconscious, That you are also feeling some kind of dread in this dream and are trying to escape might infer a time in your life where you feel oppressed or somehow dominated by an overbearing mother figure. Themes of isolation come up for me, as well. Maybe the dream is simply reminding you how important friends are and that you may be needing to be in the company of your peers now.
      • Re: Sea

        Wed, December 19, 2007 - 5:13 AM
        Sherpa

        Too true! I grew up with my grandfolks and I was never close with my mum. But she is the dominant one in the family, and indeed a very controlling person. We do have a lot of conflicts regarding the most trivial thing and she plays the guilt game very well. Even though Im already a very independent person, I still often feel oppressed by her.
        • Re: Sea

          Wed, December 19, 2007 - 7:26 AM
          Wow, I screwed up a little here. I realized the first Hexagram I threw is (5) but that it is "Hsü" not "Chun" so that it implies "Waiting, perseverance" rather than "difficulty at the beginning" and the 5th changing line suggests "while waiting we are sure of our cause, and therefore do not lose the serenity born of inner cheerfulness". So not necessarily small steps but patience and perseverance.

          I would say, given your resonance with Sherpa's thoughts and your mother, that you are gradually moving out of her "shadow", a shadow which might carry with it expectations that she has, that are about her, not about your own individuation and independence. She may be living a bit of her unconscious, unlived life through you with her expectations - I don't know.

          The Great Mother is a sense of that maternal presence that would "mirror" you for what you are or what you are developing into as your independent self. Sometimes, another older woman, not in the family perhaps, someone you admire can help (the wise old crone as archetypal projection of the great mother, etc.).
    • Re: Sea

      Wed, December 19, 2007 - 5:06 AM
      Wow, thanks alot Greg, thats an amazingly accurate interpretation. Its relevant to my life in every way!
      Ive been trying to gather my feelings for this guy that Ive liked for a whole year, which I think is pointless to hold on to. But at the same time I am reluctant to breakaway from the passions I feel. Perseverance, thats definitely me. I wonder what exactly is 'small steps in the right direction'.

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