What are the top Lifestyle support groups in the KC Metro area?
Looking for those that fit the following:
* are not clique-ish
* are actually open to new membership
* willing to explore many topics
* are active with meetings and activities at various times of the month
* have outside speakers/demonstrations each month
* have an online presence accessible to prospective members
* have a regular "open" meeting/munch/etc where prospective members may mingle to find out if they may fit with the group
* do not discriminate due to age, sex, marital status, body type, or experience level
* and those who seem to have a stable leadership that guides the group according to group desires and needs as opposed to feeding egos.

I know this is a lot to ask but these things are important if I am to consider bringing my slave to a local group function.