Ok, how do you all feel about dating in the program? I have put it out there in the meeting after the meeting that I am submissive, so this is no secret to my friends in the program. But I have some struggles with a certain dominant male in the group that I need to stay away from. Has anyone seen this kind of dynamic before and seen it change? How?
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Re: Dating in the program?
Fri, March 28, 2008 - 6:01 PMIt changes only as I change and face the things that stand between me and God, especially regarding my patterns and behavior in relationships. As my consciousness raises so does the type of lover I'm attracted to, which I would've been previously blind to before. Conversely I will also be less drawn to my previous status quo of dysfunction. Remember, water ***always*** seeks it's own level. The denial of that is to deny the 1st step. -
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Re: Dating in the program?
Fri, March 28, 2008 - 6:08 PMWell this younger man had the nerve to comment on my patterns! I was offended. And I am having online problems too. I just turned my wall off on Facebook because I don't want people in the church gossiping about me anymore.
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