I don't know if this subject has been discussed before in the tribe, but for me, I just came to actually understand what it's all about, and would like to share it with you.

Since we watched "the secret" my boyfriend and i are trying hard to get a grip of the law of attraction. We began subscribing to websites that had free trial programs, downloaded all sorts of material, tried visualizing, did some EFT and affirmations... Our first achievement was to move to a bigger better place in a better neighborhood. This also helped us to feel more at ease about wealth and well being.
But things slowed down, we lost some contracts and money just stopped flowing again. We understood that there is a flaw in our way of manifesting. So we began searching again.

Then suddenly this week, my boyfriend asked me to do meditation with him (usually it's the other way round, and he always tries to avoid it :)
15 Minutes finished, and he wanted more. So i left him on the terrace on his own. That night he stayed there for hours, listening to music and thinking. Then he came and said: eureka! :)) he said he finally understood how it actually works.

I'll try to be short :

Everything is in our "subconscious"!
We have brought a lot of information from previous incarnations, and record a lot more in this life, all in the giant hard disk of the subconscious.
But we can only use it when this information finds its way to the consciousness level. But the wall that is in between uses two keys.
1- Fear 2- love
These are the opposite of each other. When love is not there, fear fills the place.

Usually, most of the information that finds its way from the subconscious to the conscious, is using the key of fear. The more fear we have, the more the conscious gets information accordingly, and the mind acts accordingly, and we live this life of fear, and misunderstanding, and hopelessness, all these negative things that block our access to wealth, freedom, happiness, health etc...
We have to re-program the subconscious, so that it replaces fear with love. This is the main step.
Most of us know about NLP, EFT and affirmations. These are used as tools to change our subconscious. But usually nobody tells us what where to begin. We begin tapping "i am wealthy, i am happy etc..." And they don't work. And we get confused.

The main point is to first tap in love!!!
We have to replace all the negative information in our subconscious, beginning with love!

We found out that the best way to really getting it, is to know this:
Before coming to this world in this body, we were all in that great infinite. And our souls made an agreement. This is an agreement that is necessary for our karmic growth. Every single being that comes into our life, is acting upon that agreement.
So, if Bin Laden is here killing people, he is doing his piece in this agreement. If you are fired, your boss does it because in another realm, he agreed to maybe help you finally realize your capacity and stop wasting time working for others. If your mom dies when you are 8, she agreed in another realm, to do so, to help your growth. And of course it's only when we begin to get the point, and get those lessons, that we stop to feel like a victim and wake up to the plan. (but that's another story :)

I know it might sound strange a bit. But as you think better, as i did, this is the only explanation that helped me understand, actually understand, how to love every single being in this world. And how to see all i've been through in a different light.
No one, but no one, is bad. Is wrong. Is cruel. Is ugly. Dirty. Mean. Fill in the blanks....
Everyone is a beautiful soul created by the beautiful creator. And whatever they do down here, is done for a reason.

And this can be a great step to feel peace and love inside. Not to be disturbed by fear, by hatred and confusion caused by fear. To fill in every single space in our subconscious with pure love.

And then, we are ready. Our subconscious can begin infiltrating our conscious with information based on love, not fear. And only then, the mind can actually manifest the objects of our desires.

There is still more to it. But those are details. The core is this: change fear with love. And the doors will open :))


Peace and love to all :D