Welcome

topic posted Sun, April 1, 2007 - 11:22 PM by  Libido Lounge
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Welcome to all the new people that are joining this tribe. We look forward to meeting y'all at BRC. I'd like to get some dialogue going on this tribe so I'll start it off with an idea of a topic. There's a thread on the eplaya on SEX CAMP. What are some of your thoughts and experience on camps like this? There's ones out there that say they plan to be "open" to all. I feel that an "open to all" sex camp will just turn into a sausage fest. Hence why Libido Lounge is mainly for couples.

I look forward to hearing your opinions.

Another topic I'd like to hear feedback on is what would you like to see at Libido Lounge?

Mayor Doug
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Libido Lounge
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  • Re: Welcome

    Mon, April 2, 2007 - 11:33 AM
    On burn night last year, after the burn, we headed to of our favorite dance places. Well it seems that on Saturday night they turn it into a sex club, for couples only. It seemed to be a lot of work, as the place was packed, fresh sheets put down after each couple left, etc. But what a joy to be able to spend 30 min w/ my sweety, in such an environment.

    Remember Bianca's.

    Perhaps different levels or area's of the lounge. Keep camping at a gender balance (of course, what about f/f or m/m couples?) have a social area open to all, then a "private" area open to couples only.

    Of course, I say this, and we are not planning on camping w/ the lounge, but simply going to gift the bar and visit.
    I look fwd to the ongoing conversations.

  • Re: Welcome

    Tue, April 3, 2007 - 8:53 AM
    As much as I enjoy sausage, I have to agree that you need to be selective. I'm not sure how you might handle gay male couples (no pun intended :-). Maybe allow as many in as you have lesbian couples.

    As far as what we'd like to see? We are a m/f bi couple and would enjoy any kind of pansexual scene/party. We enjoy all combinations of adults expressing their sexuality. Is there a hanky code for straight/bi/gay? SOME kind of coding might make hooking up in a mixed crowd less awkward.

    -- Clown
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      Re: Welcome

      Fri, July 20, 2007 - 12:38 PM
      Friends of mine planned a camp called Camp G'Bang a few years ago, (did not happen due to a car accident). What they set up was colored arm bands:
      Black = not playing, do not touch
      Purple = open to any/all
      Red = same sex only
      Blue =couples only
      Orange= female only
      Green = Males only

      etc.

      something like this could easily be done, just need a few rolls of different colored elastic, cut & sewn as arm bands. Hope this helps

      cant wait to meet all of you!

      Da' WIZ
  • Re: Welcome

    Tue, April 3, 2007 - 8:18 PM
    While we are virgins for BRC we are not new to the scene. We have been to clubs where single men are allowed, and clubs that are couples only. For us the couple only clubs are the only place we will go, our experience with the places that allow single men is that there are a few who are way agressive, disrespectfull, and take lots for granted. While that is not every single male it only takes one or two to make it a bad experience. Our last experience with an open club that lets every one in, a guy who we never met before tried to have sex with my wife with no condom & no consent while she was giving me a blow job. He got 86'd and we have never gone to a club that allows singles since. New Horizons in Lynnwood WA (Seattle) has a policy of only letting single men in if there is a single women going so there are never more men than women, and men are not allowed into the play area withoug a woman with them, and that seems to work great.

    Things will be way different on the Playa I am sure, there will be every lifestyle out there from vanilla to gay to the BDSM crowd and probably some stuff I have never even dreamed of lol. For us we will be looking to associate with a mostly couples camp. We don't have any issues with what others want to do, we just want to feel comfortable, and safe, and hopefully hook up with some other couples and make new friends.
    • Re: Welcome

      Sat, July 28, 2007 - 2:14 PM
      The core members of Libido Lounge have all been around when "that guy" ruined the night for someone. Rest assured, we will be taking every available effort to please everyone visiting our camp. We have no desire to be "that camp".

      Rat Bastard

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