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Sex,Littles,Relationships, and Taboos

topic posted Tue, August 4, 2009 - 8:58 PM by  Irish Daddy 		Share/Save/Bookmark
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Heres a biggie, its a tough one to start because there are so many different opinions based on so many different, personal relationships.

I know people who are little for everything but work, I know people who are little for everything but sex, I know people who are little for everything but their own kids, I know people who are only BIG for all of the above mentioned scenarios ....

The focus of this post is to explore where the respondants draw the line.

I will start ....

I am a daddy, period, i have always been a daddy, i fix things, i solve problems, i take care of people .. its what i have always done, I love the role and embrace it in every way.

When it comes to my own little girl (Marie who is 11 or so depending) I take on the role of daddy seemlessly and easily ... then comes intimacy.

at risk of sounding like a perv or something, (which is what I assume all daddies go through) I enjoy the intimacy that I share with Marie, its not a huge difference between big and little for her, so most nights, I am having a very "personal" relationship with a child. Obviously, in the laws eyes i am not practicing pedophilia because she is physically a full grown woman. We have a very sweet relationship and I have had to concede in my own mind that there is no greater expression of your affection with another person than to show that sort of intimacy with them.

Its tough for me to express, but this expression of intimacy for me, includes the gentle probing of my little girls body so long as she is comfortable.

Anyone else care to express their thoughts on this one? I still have a rough time sometimes

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  • Lisa
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    Re: Sex,Littles,Relationships, and Taboos

    Tue, August 4, 2009 - 9:49 PM
    I understand what you say.
    Sometimes it's hard to get totally out of the little girl mode and we aren't bio little girls.
    Sometimes sex is bonding and not just sex.

    I wanted to answer you so you don't feel bad cause everyone is quiet and help others be brave and answer..
    but it's very difficult and overwhelming to find the right words or even know how to express some adult things.

    Usually I'm my biggest when I am doing grown up things.
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    Tue, August 4, 2009 - 9:49 PM
    Sometimes sex is good, sometimes it is bad. It depends on my mood. I am ALWAYS little right after sex, though. No matter what. Sometimes it's fun being in that mode. The act is not so serious. I noticed Daddy is a little bit less inhibited I'm behaving more childlike. Like I pretended I was a Zombie one day and I was gonna eat his brains, and Daddy told me that men's brains are in their pants, so I went and ate his brains there and it was silly and goofy and loads of fun, but it works.

    I am little almost everywhere. I am little at work too. I can't help it, I just am. It's weird b/c I have a very motherly kind of job, but I do act little, just in a different way than at home. One of my patient's has recognized this and has taken to taking care of me (as best as she can), she straightens my shirt, fixes my hair, and gives me hugs and pats me on the butt quite a bit (I'd never let someone do this, but we are like crazy close). She calls me, 'My little black-headed gal". lol.

    I don't have kids. I will probably be little around them b/c I could get away with it.

    I don't mind being little in any situation, to be honest. People rarely look at it weird. They may just think I'm immature, and to be honest, I suppose I really am.
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    • Lisa
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      Tue, August 4, 2009 - 9:59 PM
      I understand about the being little right after! That happens to me too!
      I am little 99% of the time, sometimes more strongly little, and sometimes mildly little, but almost always little.
      People think I'm innocent, naive, immature, silly, or strange.

      I have kids, I've only know I was little since November, but I've always like watching kids movies, I know what the girls will like because I like it!
      I call still say Daddy when I talk to Daddy, and this isn't weird because it's common with people who have kids.

      To them I'm just a really neat mommy.
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        Tue, August 4, 2009 - 11:00 PM
        oh, we don't have kids, so the Daddy thing gets a little weird sometimes around other people. He will use it more than I will. I say Mr. Man most of the time b/c I can get away with it anytime and people think I'm just using a pet name or something.

        We'll be with family and he'll be like, "No, Jaki, let Daa....er Me cut that up for you. That bite is too big."

        And he's SUPER Daddyish around his family. I don't know why, but I always feel like a child at my in-laws. He cuts my food up, lays me down for naps n stuff. I don't know if they know or what?
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  • littleb
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    Re: Sex,Littles,Relationships, and Taboos

    Wed, August 5, 2009 - 9:20 AM
    Taboooooooooo!

    i love taboos.

    Cover your ears if you don't want to heeeear....this:

    i'm the biggest taboo there is! i want the whole thing, incest, sex, mimicked pedophilia (not real), rape, spanking.

    cha cha cha


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    • Kailee
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      Wed, August 5, 2009 - 11:29 AM
      I agree - taboos are HOT. I love feeling like daddy is molesting me (even though its totally okay in my mind because I *want* him to). Sometimes he is rough, but when I am little, I don't have to get 'raped' because even if I am trying to be quiet and be a good girl, I still want daddy to touch me and he doesn't have to be violent or mean.
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      Tue, September 8, 2009 - 6:26 AM
      I knowwwwww!! Me too, littleb!!

      I love the painting and the playing and the stuffed animals, but I also love all those thing you mention, littleb.

      I think it's wonderful when a daddy can get into those things, too. I want to be safe and secure and snuggled, but I want all the naughty things too, from a daddy.

      I do think it's good, though, when the daddy is someone who every now and then says to himself "Uhhh .... is this a good thing?" I don't want him to get so lost in wanting to do those things that he steps over a line with someone who isn't consenting and an adult.

      Andrea
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  • Chrissy
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    Re: Sex,Littles,Relationships, and Taboos

    Wed, August 5, 2009 - 9:54 AM
    I rarely need to come out of little space and become big for any reason. Since my little is tween-teen I can handle most of what I encounter day to day in whatever space I am in. Even when I need to, it only takes a baby step to the right and I am big so the transition is usually easy for me. Sometimes I am even better at stuff when I am feeling younger it'ss usually more fun too!
    When I am anxious I regress even younger. In the kitchen or around figures of authority I am at my youngest and have trouble controlling that. I get quiet and sleepy and feel helpless.
    When it comes to S-E-X, it's usually up to the mood of whoever speaks first or is initiating. If I look at Daddy with big eyes open wide, then start smooching his neck and saying "Yummy" he will start saying sexy stuff and telling me what I should do to Daddy. We still have plenty of Vanilla encounters, but at least 75% of the time we have D/lg tone during nakie time.
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    • Chrissy
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      Re: Sex,Littles,Relationships, and Taboos

      Thu, August 6, 2009 - 8:58 AM
      Now that I've thought about it more, I think the 25% of Vanilla encounters we have is when I am not feeling strong enough to be vulnerable to him or show my little side, or be obedient and submissive or or or he is not up to dirty talking or ordering me around.
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    Fri, August 7, 2009 - 3:50 PM
    Now this is interesting topic... actaully, my mommy have been wondering about this and how the whole LG thing works during sex without her feeling weird, ya know. I told her that I am actaully not sure because I am still fairly new to LG thing and I am not comfortable have sex anymore for a long time because I am pre-op transgender girl, so you get the point. Several months after the surgery (my surgery is on Sept 21st) I should be able to have sex again for first time as a girl, so this will be brand new experience and see if I can do in LG mode, I don't really know. After reading those posts on this thread does help to get the idea and it look like it's all right to be LG during sex without being weird. =)
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