A friend of mine here is having a cyber relationship with his GF on net, they both do video conferencing through web cams and cell phones and masturbate and lots and lots of erotica, my friend says it is more rewarding and satisfying to do it with your own partner, even if she is far away than to do it with some one local, my point is, is it morally or ethically bad? whats the feed back of Tribe on it? Please give your views
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Re: Can you have a cyber relationship?
Tue, October 3, 2006 - 8:57 AMIt depends on what kind of rellation they have. He misses the intimicy that,s hard to have with people you dont know. -
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Re: Can you have a cyber relationship?
Tue, October 3, 2006 - 9:55 AMbut is getting the kind of satisfaction and pleasure which one gets in the real sex? and love? -
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Re: Can you have a cyber relationship?
Tue, October 3, 2006 - 11:39 AMBy jacking off infront of a computer screen? Is that guy a virgin or something? LOL She sends a blurry tit pic and of he goes like the duracell bunny..
That part about online stuff really sucks, it,s pretty frustrating not beeing able to touch people. But i think there is another aspect to it to. Staying in contact as much as possible helps to deal with the loonely feeling and the lack of cloosenes. Cyber sex is silly.
Like i now take a finger, make it the right finger.. i put it in your ear.. ohh.. ahh.. 4 hours later.. i take of your sock... Besides, how the hell do people do stuff with both their hands on the keyboard!?? You got to ask him that. But i think they use the webcam..
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Re: Can you have a cyber relationship?
Tue, October 3, 2006 - 5:53 PMWhat about if you get diverted to the local pub in real time smack in the middle of a sports game. You know, those pubs with the huge saucers. It has happened before. I guess it would earn you a lot of cheering and real life love propositions so you wouldn’t be as lonely with the local winking at you every time you come across them at the grocery store and cleaner.
There is simply no privacy anywhere and it would be risqué to say the least. However, you could be serving a noble cause as you are shoving your blurry tits on the Internet. You could be occupying the information agents that are keeping tabs on the subversive political stuff. They are not the sophisticated type so anything blurry would do. You could be resurrecting free speech as the subversive anarchist revolutionary elements can be fully heard once more (along with that illegal recipe for bathtub gin).
We need an unsung hero here. Who wants to shove his blurry penis on the CAM first?
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Re: Can you have a cyber relationship?
Sun, October 8, 2006 - 4:11 PM"Like i now take a finger, make it the right finger.. i put it in your ear.. ohh.. ahh.. 4 hours later.. i take of your sock..."
Oh Yesssssss Baby....Reaaaaallll looong foreplay....like I like it............(oh f***!). Let us laugh now, for lack of better things to do.
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Re: Can you have a cyber relationship?
Sun, January 7, 2007 - 10:10 PMYes it is possible if both sides are sincere in love
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Re: Can you have a cyber relationship?
Mon, October 16, 2006 - 3:53 AMBefore I go throwing my opinion around, you must know that I have been involved in a LDR for about 2 years. I met the girl online from 4000 away. Today she lives 400 miles away, so it is still an LDR by most standards...but we have met each other, kissed, shared meals and many hours together. Now we talk mosty by phone, as I have convinced her to use the same cell-network as me...and therefore it is free for a us to talk. I'd say we yak for about 4 - 8 hours per week.
For most of that 2 years prior to this, we were using Instant Messaging and E-Mail.
We have deep feelings for each other, but long-distance mutual masturbation sessions never occurred to us. While I have nothing morally against someone doing this, I do somehow consider it a cop-out. ...and while sex is very important in a relationship, it is really the emotions you share and bring out in each other which determine whether love can endure.
I think in the long run it would extremely satisfying to allow those emotions build up in us and share them WHEN we see each other instead of engagin in too much fantasy. In that case, the relationship will begin to revolve around "fantasy-sex" and not the anticipation of REAL sex.
I am old fashioned. I am conservative. While I am American-born, I really don't share much in common with liberal American ideas that people can just create whatever un-orthodox coditions they want against nature and against God, and expect it to work. It is for that reason, I think, that I have chosen this person in the first place, as she comes from a country with more conervative old-fashioned values. It seems to me that if anything, Americans are the most impatient, jaded people on the face of the planet...a true unhealthy "fast-food" culture, and same goes for their attitudes in relationships.
In some cases, an LDR might happen to some people as a TEST of patience, resolve, and whether they can truly separate simple love from the need to have a sex-partner. I am discovering, much to my surprise that I can....and it makes me feel strong and blessed.
Myself and my LDR gal are not at all impatient with each other. While it is nice to know that she is THINKING of having sex with me, it really isn't neccessary for us to strip our clothes off while on the phone or in front of the computer. The simple thought itself is very satisfying for now, and I don't need to prematurlely have a surrogate substitute for the real thing. That is where I feel it is a cop-out.
Also, I really do not know the ages of these people in question. I am in my mid-30s and so is my significant other. I have been aroudn the block a few times. To me, satisfaction comes from having the spiritual bond first. We have discovered that this can be a reality even from 4000 miles away. Sure, in the past I had relationships which were lusty and everything revolved aruond sex. Sex is the BEST! ...which is why it is worth waiting for the right moment.
If you need to get your rocks off in the meantime, I think that is something best left to the shower.
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Re: Can you have a cyber relationship?
Tue, March 13, 2007 - 4:45 AMI am looking for a girl to be in cyber love with me.Any one willing?
Good day Good luck