The Science of Honesty

topic posted Wed, November 11, 2009 - 12:51 PM by  Nathan
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It doesn't seem to me like there is a rift between people supporting Luana, or not. I don't think really[ any of the rifts are much about what they appear to be about or present themselves to be, but are really about other things instead. I don't think there is all that much honesty happening here, so its really hard to say what the rifts are about... just emotionally polarized charges, I guess. People might have different reasons for supporting luana as a presence here or not that they aren't admitting and that really have nothing to do with whether Luana is or isn't a "valid part of Mother"... or not. people might just support her or not or support anything or not depending on whether it suits their motives at that time whcih they're keeping to themselves about. for example daisy was coming out avidly in support of luana, but this is because she hates andora. she claims to truly love luana, but luana has been here a long time. why all of a sudden does daisy love her so much? if she did before she wasn't being all that vocal about it. why suddenly so vocal about it? cuase it suits her present motives...

why does anyone? hmm, that's a interesting question....

andora claims to hate luana cause she is a liar, but is she really a liar? well technically yes, she says lots of things that obviously are not literally true, and many that are blatant fabrications, but in saying them what is her intent? aftera all is it not intent that makes the difference? is it her intent to actually decieve others and prevent them from knowing the truth of things, or is she using these fabrications for another purpose OTHER than deception? is that other purpose part of why people hate her? hmm..., interesting question...

its obvious luana's intent in these fabrications is not to conceal the truth because she in fact is generally pretty honest about her motives... she doesn't use many pretenses,and if she does, she's even honest about that! i think her intent in fabricating things is to trigger people. for example saying that there's a group of old-timers who dissapprove of everyone here, but approve of her. that is supposed to trigger you into your denied emotions that don't approve of yourself for what you are doing. notice that it actually does bother you when she says such things, even though you know in our rational mind its probably a fabrication.... it still gets under your skin... right? so why does it ? and why does this make you hate her, rather than just dismiss her as rather silly?

cause you don't accept yourself, duh!

if you could notice that it bothers you even though you know it not to be true, that there's a group of "old-timers" who disapprove of this discussion (and even if there is WHO CARES!! right?) and allow this "bothered" feeling your conscious, loving acceptance, you'd get the understand of realizing you haven't approved of yourself in this part of you, have banished and condemned this part of you and held it outside of your love, and you would actually be able to come to appreciate the loving consciuosness with which luana does these things, but since that's NOT your intent, you choose to hate her for triggering you instead!

I say neither of their ethics is "right" or "wrong". each is just what it is. ruow is not a system of ethics! its a translation into english of something that is completely beyond language itself... of primordial experiences, that speak to universal truths and that speak to each individual in a unique way, that can't be gernalized about, but yet, all these unique experiences dovetail with one another in a very speciffic way which can be experience directly... this is called the form of Right Place. if you attempt to apply it as a system of ethics, even if you don't know what you are doing, then what you are doing is taking you further and further away from understanding which is unique to each moment and to the situations in which it is appropriate. if you were to do this process to completeion you would experience these universal experiences from your own perspective and understand them in this way directly, and you would cease in trying to apply ruow as a system of ethics, which it is not. the attempts to apply it as such, simply serve to obscure the electromagnetic patterns underlying the interactions as they take place here... we are God, or rather God is us, but to experience this as reality, we must become honest enough to actually directly percieve these patterns, called Impringts, and change them with intent... if we do not, and attempt to hide them from ourselves and participate in a group agreement to support these pretenses instead of the truth, then we cheat ourselves of healing. The Form of Right Place will come into being only when we realize ourselves through this honesty. Right Place is not a physical place! It is the form that will be given when everything falls into place, in other words when these unique experiences that we each are, finally discover the way we dovetail together with one another.
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Nathan
South Dakota
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  • Re: The Science of Honesty

    Thu, November 12, 2009 - 12:06 PM
    Nathan, it's really interesting to me that you think I only support Luana because I hate Andora or something. What's extremely interesting in this forum in general is the lack of self trust and the projection of mistrust and the underestimating of each other here.

    The truth about my support of Luana is something that took place off line. Unlike many of you here, I have spoken with her on the phone and I have felt the truth of her vibration; it is some of the most loving essence I have ever felt....also, she feels really similar to me in certain ways. She is a most valuable part of Mother, and she shows her love for Mother by expressing honestly and spontaneously, by not sacrificing herself in favor of anyone else.

    If you get her, if you feel her true heart, you too can know her, or me for that matter. As long as this place can only express hatred without the willingness to evolve it, that is all anyone will ever see here about any of us.
    • Re: The Science of Honesty

      Sun, November 15, 2009 - 2:08 PM
      Mahalo for your aloha Nathan

      to me....you really showed some heart

      after all is said and done -- in my not so humble opinion * the only person that is important when it comes to whether or not i have been honest........................... is my own Self..............................period

      if i harbor shame/guilt about lying (for whatever reason) then i am the one who is harboring self-rejection/doubt that conditions all of my perceptions and decisions. I am the only judge that will kill my Will to Live....the rest is simply heresay...
      even Spirit has given me enough rope to hang myself - which explains why i awoke upon a prison planet working feverishly to find my Lost Soul. sometimes its too hot and the other times it is fucking cold! today, it is just right and this i do not wish to over-look or miss the opportunity to give some gratitude for this.
    • Re: The Science of Honesty

      Wed, November 18, 2009 - 2:26 PM
      "The truth about my support of Luana is something that took place off line. Unlike many of you here, I have spoken with her on the phone and I have felt the truth of her vibration; it is some of the most loving essence I have ever felt...."

      Daisy, I've felt her this way too - talking to her right here, online.... so I get where you're coming from.
    • Re: The Science of Honesty

      Sun, December 6, 2009 - 4:42 PM
      Hi Daisy,

      Its not that i really think you don't have real love for Luana. I am just pointing out patterns on the tribe which from my persepctive, we can't afford to let go on without noticing.... i'm obviously not getting a very good reception for it! but anyway what i am saying is that more that your public support of Luana felt more like alliance than on alignment, NOT that you don't have real and deep Love for her.
      • Re: The Science of Honesty

        Sun, December 6, 2009 - 8:33 PM
        Nathan, I DO have alliance and alignment with Luana. I love her, I appreciate her, I understand where she is coming from, and she helped me with my boy when I needed it. NO one else knew what to do but her. She deserves all the love and support she can get and so do I.
        • Re: The Science of Honesty

          Mon, December 7, 2009 - 8:27 AM
          no argument here. i don't have much good experience with alliances, but maybe they aren't always a bad thing.
          • Re: The Science of Honesty

            Mon, December 7, 2009 - 11:02 AM
            I don't think so either, especially when that seems to be part of what we are going for. I can't have relationships where I feel I have to compromise myself. I don't make agreements that say, if you do this on my side, then I'll be on your side. I don't see sides, I see perspectives, and every one is valid for where that person is.

            Alliance and alignment feel similar to me, though not the same. But these are words that we can change any negative association we may have with them, like the words ego and negative, etc.
            • Re: The Science of Honesty

              Mon, December 7, 2009 - 11:47 AM
              Hi Daisy,

              yeah i see your point that they are words, and really i am talking about experiences and generalizing. i guess i don't really like talking in gernaliztions, but here i am doing it anyway...

              maybe i don't like alliances, but all the same i find myself wanting to seek them with others here sometimes for protection and appreciating it at times when i feel protected or sheilded from things that would otherwise feel like harmful fuckovers to me.

              i don't really know what to say. I guess your support of Luana seems okay to me, and I dont see anything wrong with it. it is what it is, I guess.... not like you need my approval or anything... its just that you replied and seemed to feel i was selling you short, and so i guess that's how i feel: rather mixed, but i don't mean to sell you short.

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