Hello dear,
Family problems is what the whole world has in common. Actually, we get along fairly well. My son and daughter-in-law live with me and so does my mother. Every one has their own priorities. So we all have different opinions. Do you live with family members? Also, your English is very good. You must be well educated. My compliments. Best wishes, Linda

Well, I think that women have been programmed not to get along with each other. It seems to me that we have been given almost no authority in our various world's (one common thread no matter what country you come from as far as I can see) and so, as is true with any repressed and oppressed group, we end up fighting with each other for any small crumb of authority or power we can find. Ergo, Mothers fight with daughters and mother-in-laws fight with daughter-in-laws ... etc. What do you think? Do you see this having any bearing in China? So glad you're here!!