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Do you come from receptive anal sex?
As with any sexual topic, people's experiences and feelings about "catching" are varied and individual and complex. So it'll be interesting to hear from people who do (and don't) have orgasms from receiving anal sex. If you do, can you describe how it's different from other orgasms you have?
As with any sexual topic, people's experiences and feelings about "catching" are varied and individual and complex. So it'll be interesting to hear from people who do (and don't) have orgasms from receiving anal sex. If you do, can you describe how it's different from other orgasms you have?
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Fri, March 6, 2009 - 11:40 PMI had had a lot of orgasms (and a good number involving other people) before I first came from having something up my butt. That was a solo experience, and it felt pretty darned nice, but I wasn't very well-informed about anal pleasure and was a little unsure about what I was doing and how it was "supposed" to go, so it was a relatively cautious and restrained session (with a wax banana if you must know.)
I was really surprised by the way it felt very different from the other orgasms I'd had, and was surprised that I was getting off at all. It was sort of hummm, this feels interesting, maybe I'll rub put my other hand to work, and just as that thought came into my mind, I found myself coming. It wasn't a big huge O; (of course, I had a long way to go before I'd discover really "big huge" Os). I was sure I wanted more, and did it quite a few times with other objects (this was before 13 year olds could get their horny little paws on sex toys on the internet... in fact hardly anyone outside of big cities could get *any* sort of sex toys). But as I experimented more and more, the orgasms got more intense, until I got my girlfriend to do me and I just went nuts with the intensity of it. She was just totally amazed. She loved to make me come, and was really impressed by how hard I came, and so she got really into playing with my butt (and I with hers, but that's another story.)
My boyfriend at the time wasn't at all sure about "going there," and it took a bit of coaxing to get him to do it, but he was very enthusiastic after the first time we tried it. Like a lot of early-teen dudes, he could keep fucking even after he shot and would keep doing me for quite a while (bless him). We both had multiple orgasms. Sadly, he wouldn't let me put more than a couple of fingers in him, but he got to where he could admit that he liked it and would even ask for it.
So yeah, I liked getting it, and came, and the orgasms were on the stronger end of the scale. It's kind of hard to really describe the difference in feeling: it was this really diffuse feeling that'd spread and spread and then all of a sudden concentrate to a big intense climax.
Other orgasms would be pretty focussed on the one place that was getting the most intense stimulation.
Butt sex was a big part of my sex life up until, um maybe my middle forties, when all of a sudden I just stopped coming from anal fucking! Thank heavens I could still have plenty of orgasms other ways, and still loved getting anal stimulation, but there had to be something else going on for me to get off. And that's pretty much where I am today. I've gotten really really close in the last few years, but still need a little something extra to get over the top.
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Sat, March 7, 2009 - 12:56 PMI love anal... I find that I almost always cum harder if there is some kind of anal stimulation, and that anal orgasms are entire-body affairs as opposed to my lower abdomen, like with vaginal...
i've been playing with my toys ALOT... gonna get a more suited plug for wearing to school
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally). Size matters?
Sat, March 7, 2009 - 1:26 PMI know guys are always hung up on size but was wondering what size/shape you all think is better and if that effects the orgasm. I have definitely noticed the sound changes as wider items go in and also know that things can be too big. Maybe this is a good thing for another thread but this reminded me about that debate so I figured I'd ask. -
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally). Size matters?
Sat, March 7, 2009 - 6:29 PManally, things can deffinately be to big. Jesus.
I've played anally, conistantly for 2 years and I have a hard time taking my lover; he's very large.
It has been my experience that whatever toys you're sticking up there need to be 25%-50% bigger then whatever cocks you're shovin up your ass. I've been playing with a toy about the same mass as my lovers' cock, but taking the organic penis is much harder then dead plastic.
I haven't noticed any differences for shape, as far as anal goes. Taht's all about intensity. In vaginal, things might change because of hitting different areas...
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Mon, March 9, 2009 - 8:43 AMI am able to get an intense long lasting full body O from stimulating the inner sphinxter and massaging the penis bulb (located at the base of the penis in the rectal cavity)....I really need someone to peg me though! Never done that.
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Tue, March 10, 2009 - 3:19 AMA normal orgasm is a peak experience, but one in which I essentially control the show. We don't have a favorite position or anything, but just the nature of hetero sex means I am giving and she is recieving. I have had some incredible orgasms that way, but even tied up, I still control the action.
When she is pegging me, the difference is immense. Psychologically, she controls the action, and she likes to take her time. She'll take me from behind, and I bring myself to orgasm. I like it best when she fucks me throughout. The orgasm is amazing, and unlike anything in hetero sex. But I still am masturbating, essentially, and controlling the action. So the p-spot feeling is kind of there, but not the whole package.
That is similar to when I'm on top. I can cum without touching myself, but I am still driving the bus. That's a step up, but by far the best is when she is riding me missionary. I have all the advantages of her controlling the show, and the added stimulation of her body rubbing up and down and almost enclosing my cock, and the p-spot stimulation. It is really the total package. What is best about it is that it generally doesn't sap my stamina, and I can come right back and take her ass minutes later.
T
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Sat, March 14, 2009 - 11:30 PMi certainly get off from it, i dont even have to touch my cock all it takes is the anal, im not really gay because im not attracted to guys but i love anal -
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Hey, it's a common myth...
Tue, March 17, 2009 - 12:16 AM... this deal about liking anal sex meaning a guy has some gay tendencies (not that there's anything wrong with that!).
It just fuckin' kills me how many men miss out on some incredible pleasure because of this silly-ass myth! -
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Re: Hey, it's a common myth...
Tue, March 17, 2009 - 10:59 PMi agree, i'm not attracted to men atall. but i've recently (within the last year or so) learned how good orgasms can be from recieving anal stimulation. and i dont think there is anything wrong with that... i'm young and the stereotype among people my age is that anal stim is unnatural............... but anyone who feels that was is missing out -
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Re: Hey, it's a common myth...
Mon, March 23, 2009 - 11:38 PMIt takes me longer to cum from prostate massage, but when I do, it is much harder, and is really incredible. My ex-wife used to use an e-stim butt plug on me while I was doing her vaginally. She was playing with the voltage and the speed of stimulation, and then when I came she always said she could feel it so much harder inside - she could feel my semen squirting out way deep into her.
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Re: Hey, it's a common myth...
Fri, May 15, 2009 - 7:57 PMI love taking it anally the orgasms are the best. Alot of guys I know won't try anal are more afraid of being called femine than gay.
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Re: Hey, it's a common myth...
Mon, May 18, 2009 - 10:55 AMand women to..........mine thinks I want to get fucked by men cause i want her to strap on......... ridicules! and believe me i know I'm missing out -
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Re: Hey, it's a common myth...
Fri, May 22, 2009 - 4:49 PMIt took a good while before my husband was comfortable with me playing with his ass. I wanted to fuck it for a while and he was
not sure about it at first. What changed his mind was reading posts from men on the subject. I joined the several tribes on the subject of pegging to learn about it. Then he started reading with posts with me and finally we bought a feeldoe and I have been fucking his ass since. I love it! Huge turn on to see him moan and thrust from the pleasure. I still think he's a little embarrassed that he likes it but I hope that never gets in the way of our play time. I want to keep his prostate healthy!
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Tue, August 25, 2009 - 9:25 AMI've tried making myself cum from anal stimulation alone but can never quite get over the edge. You have any advice that might help me out?
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Sat, March 21, 2009 - 8:09 AMI cum harder from anal sex than vaginal sex. -
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Wed, March 25, 2009 - 2:41 PMI would cum very hard having anal sex with someone as sexy as you
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Wed, March 25, 2009 - 10:54 AMI've never orgasmed during anal sex, but I'm thinking it might be because it has never lasted long enough. -
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Wed, March 25, 2009 - 5:25 PMlol.... for me, anal sex usualy doesnt last long enough because i cum too fast, and then am oversensetized
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Wed, March 25, 2009 - 2:47 PMI don't get off from just getting well fucked, at least never yet but....
Allow me to jerk off while getting fucked and I'll do a fair imitation of a fire hose.
Not the width or the length as long as my prostate gets SOFTLY pounded. Too hard hurts quickly. Finger, cock or dildo. All will do the job. My boy friend can get me there in minutes! He KNOWS just angle and depth to use :)
Hugs,
Rig Daddy
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Wed, March 25, 2009 - 5:20 PMKim,
I am a bisexual male and honestly it is possible to orgasm from anal sex. I, myself, have from receiving a excellent round of anal intercourse, he was just a perfect fit. He touched me once maybe twice before we started and before I knew it I was shooting a large load on the bed as he was making my backside feel really excellent. Before this I was skeptical it could happen and I haven't since but anal play for me a very rare event when another man is involved. It was more of a relaxed and flowing orgasm than my regular forceful thrusting orgasm.
X
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Thu, May 7, 2009 - 2:02 PMMy girlfriend plays with my ass on a regular basis and I love it. Our favorite is when she fists me and yes I can come that way but not always. How is it different? It's like being on another planet is all I can say.
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Tue, May 26, 2009 - 8:07 AMI'm having both the ejaculatory as well as the dry orgasm from receptive anal sex. I have been trying hard to achieve the dry orgasm through normal intercourse but sofar no success. Also the anal orgasms are much much harder quantity as well as quality wise.
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Wed, July 8, 2009 - 8:24 PMNo matter what other kink I may be experimenting with,
anal is always my number one turn on. Of course it
can't be gentle. I like it deep and hard. In this way the
g-spot is actually engaged. The Os from anal are always
massive for me. I get so tight it's hard to move about
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Thu, July 9, 2009 - 6:44 AMJust the way we like it. A tight ass clamping around our cock as you cum hard and I for one would be filling you shortly after you cum that way -
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Thu, July 9, 2009 - 3:26 PMyummm....
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Sat, August 1, 2009 - 7:21 PMMy wife uses the Doc Johnson fuscia (pink) dong on my ass. We've been playing anally for years. She used to wear the strapon harness all the time, but I bought her a handle for the Doc Johnson pieces and now thats all she uses. I do miss the feeling of her body slamming into my ass, but she has MUCH MUCH better control of the stroking and depth when she is doing me with the hand held.
Last weekend I came (for the first time) from hard anal pounding. She worked and worked and worked on me until I exploded and shot 3 feet in the air without ever touching my cock. Then she fed it to me.......... -
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Tue, August 25, 2009 - 8:48 PMDoes your wife have a sister??? :)
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Sat, August 1, 2009 - 11:34 PMBeing fucked anally is like nothing else. I can cum while a buddy or girlfriend is going at it. It's so intense as the body spasms are so intense. I get a stone hard hard-on when there is someone or something in my ass. It's sensory overload when have one person in your ass and a second working my cock. It's totally over the edge as the orgasm is all consuming as it seems that your whole body is pulsing and you're on the edge of collapsing from the orgasm.
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Sun, August 30, 2009 - 10:10 AMI seem to cum harder when I'm in a woman's tight ass, especially when she clamps down around my cock when she cums
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Sun, November 8, 2009 - 10:24 PMi had one of the biggest, most insane orgasms of my life because of anal sex.
he was very good at it, plus he was really thick, which made it all more exciting.
he knew what to do to push me over he edge
i do feel like orgasms from anal fucking are more intense
maybe because there's some pain involved? (atleast for me)
plus, when i was with him, there was so much submission involved, esp. for anal, that added to it, i think.
i love anal sex
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Re: Gettin' off from gettin' it (anally).
Sat, November 14, 2009 - 12:49 PMI think most people combine anal with cock or clit stimulation. There were times I ejaculated with anal alone but it was less intense.. maybe I was milked by penetration.
With combination it is the most amazing pleasure I ever experienced.. my hips rock automatically, two sensations melt into one.. I can't help making moans and noise, it is longer and whole body type of orgasm.. I can go on and on.