so i just finished reading "date or soul mate," which was written by the founder of eharmony. it has you compile a list of the 10 qualities you must have in another, and the 10 qualities you cant stand. it wasnt easy, and its taken a long time, but i am finally satisfied with my list.
have any of you ever made a list like this? and if so, did someone with all of those attributes show up in your life?
have any of you ever made a list like this? and if so, did someone with all of those attributes show up in your life?
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Re: "shopping" list
Sat, April 26, 2008 - 10:05 AMI made a list.......YEARS ago I had to throw it away, I just wasn't meeting anyone that fit any criteria
I now just go with the flow, I have learned to open my heart to so many "different" people and it feels really nice -
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Re: "shopping" list
Sat, April 26, 2008 - 7:42 PMthats awesome, sand.......i can see how the list is just such a rigid way of meeting someone.....
i do have a few items on the list that i am feelin pretty firm on though.....like someone who accepts my son as their own, and someone who is free of serious addictions. but all twenty (must haves and cant haves) might just be askin for too much....hmmmm....... -
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Re: "shopping" list
Sun, April 27, 2008 - 11:36 AMI can see your point on that, those are most important
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must haves:
job (or some kind of avenue for receiving their OWN income)
not married
no prior felonies
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