your last kiss

topic posted Sat, April 12, 2008 - 7:10 AM by  jennjenn
where is the last place you kissed?

this sounds kind of highschoolish, but hey........i'm trying to spur some conversation in our quiet tribe......

as for me, it was in his condo, in napili.....

;) and you??
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jennjenn
  • Re: your last kiss

    Mon, April 21, 2008 - 4:14 PM
    okay, this is lame folks........the tribe seems pretty dead and quiet.

    is anyone out there? is anyone interested? if so, i guess this is a roll call.......

    and for those who respond, what do you want from this tribe???

    mahalo,
    jennjenn
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    Mon, April 21, 2008 - 6:24 PM
    my last kiss was in February from the guy i use to talk to.... he then later tried to hook up with my best friend... but thank god for loyalty.. because she turned him down and made him look like the fool he is. lol =]
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      Wed, April 23, 2008 - 9:36 AM
      my last kiss was ... in bed this morning....
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        Wed, April 23, 2008 - 12:26 PM
        what i would do to wake up to kissessss lol
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          Sun, May 25, 2008 - 12:22 PM
          ooo me too, haha
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            Sun, May 25, 2008 - 3:22 PM
            At this point I rather get a kiss from a child also. They tend to be more real that from a man. Not that I have been kissed by a real man
            lately. (how sad i ask) I think the last time I got kissed fom a man it was a kiss good-buy. (how even sadder is that I ask) I like to think
            that my kisses are like money. They are hard to give out cause they coast me so much. (along with the gas prices) But I have high
            hopes for a good coastly kiss if you know what I mean.. LOL
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    Fri, April 25, 2008 - 6:46 AM
    I don't really have any romantic love in my life. Guess that's why I've been quiet. My last kiss was around St. Paddys, and he was gay, lol. Sweet kiss though! Before that I kissed my ex boyfriend. This was January. We'd been broken up since August. It was a wonderful kiss but I felt a sense of dread behind it. A few weeks later we broke all contact. It was best...
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      Fri, April 25, 2008 - 5:59 PM
      hi melissa......well i guess a kiss from a gay man is better than no kiss at all, eh? i know whatcha mean about the sense of dread behind a kiss. that is a very sad and scary feeling. i had the same experience with my babys father, and my intuition was right......when i got pregnant, he left the relationship. but as in your case, it turns out that it was for the best. amazing how things work out, isnt it??
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        Wed, April 30, 2008 - 5:06 PM
        I'm supposed to have coffee with my Ex this Friday. WHY I agreed I have no clue. He wrote me on our one year anniversary (of first date.) He remembered. Damn. Why did he do that?

        I shouldn't have that coffee. I'm still way too hung up on the guy. Sigh.
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          Thu, May 1, 2008 - 2:00 AM
          ooh-weeee, that sounds very very special.....to have coffee w/the ex, and that he called on your anniversary. whats up with him? is he stringing you along? or were you the one to end things??
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            Fri, May 2, 2008 - 6:44 AM
            No, he's trying to make himself feel better for hurting me. He keeps saying he's just not relationship material, blah blah blah. And really, knowing all I know now, he isn't, lol. I was completely unfulfilled in that relationship, so I don't know what it is I pine for. Probably what I thought he was in the beginning, when he was snowing me. Sigh.

            I shouldn't go. I'll go because I am too nostalgic not to. But I really shouldn't.
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              Sat, May 3, 2008 - 1:06 AM
              melissa, it sounds like you know yourself really well. you know you will go, but you know you shouldnt. arrrrrgh, it sounds frustrating. sounds like he was amazing to you in the beginning......maybe he will be amazing to you on this "date." maybe you can just take it for what its worth. no expectations.......i know how tough that can be though, esp. when your heart feels fond of someone. this love stuff aint easy, is it.....

              please keep us posted!
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                Sat, May 3, 2008 - 4:24 AM
                just recently met up with my ex... yes the kisses may be good... but they werent that good as me turning him down and totally leaving him "hanging" ... my little "HAHA" back at you for dissing me months ago lol
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                Sat, May 3, 2008 - 8:15 AM
                Well I have to update my last kiss, lol.

                It was very iffy at first. Sooooo strange to see him. We'd not spoken since MLK holiday weekend. He just looked freakin' adorable, the bastard. We discussed "dating" again without all the psychological expectations of a heavy relationship. I told him it would have to be dating, none of this friendship crap because basically when we tried that before it was me sitting around listening to him play music, pining for him to touch me. I said there would have to be sex, lol, because it would be ridiculous for me to spend all that time with him without that possibility. Neither of us have slept with anyone else since the break last August, so it's not as if we want anyone else anyway.

                He was totally blown away I'd make such a condition. Flattered, he said, and then he did a really neat thing. He asked if we'd both think about it a day, as his mind was going in a million directions and he was so afraid of hurting us both. I realized this was a good idea, so I wouldn't hate myself in the morning, lol. And I don't. I feel strangely empowered.

                Didn't stop him from making out in the car, though. Lord how I've missed those lips!

                Thanks for listening everyone. It's been a tough month. Happy anniversary to me.
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                  Sat, May 3, 2008 - 11:59 AM
                  holy crap, how exciting!! it sounds like you two have some serious chemistry.....i think everything goes so much smoother w/o expectations......its just so hard to keep those expectations at bay. not sure why. so cool that you guys connected and even decided to wait to make any further decisions. im thrilled for you! "but theres nothing half so sweet in life, as loves young dream."

                  (quote by thomas moore)
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    Sat, May 3, 2008 - 4:50 PM
    My last kiss was about an hour ago with my partner in his car (we were eating a very late breakfast after staying in bed all morning). I am waiting for my next kiss, when he gets home from work!

    -H.
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      Sat, May 3, 2008 - 5:51 PM
      halcyon, wow.......sounds like you have a marvelous thing going!
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        Sat, May 3, 2008 - 6:27 PM
        Yes ma'am. He is a great partner all the way from the way he kisses to the way he supports me in my daily life. Can't go wrong with a man like the one I am so luck to share my life with.

        Yes...I get all sappy. ;0)

        -H.
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          Sat, May 3, 2008 - 10:47 PM
          you give me hope that there are indeed *wonderful* men out there.......thank you....
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            Mon, May 5, 2008 - 4:23 PM
            update on my last kiss as well....


            sean kingston was in town... went to go see him in concert... after the concert it was still early soo i called my ex who lived in the area... i havent chilled with him since before he was with his exgirlfriend - whom in which he left me for- but hes single now and i went over to chill for a little while... we kissed it was great... he has such soft lips... totally in sync with one another.... he did try to go further... but i denied his ass... which made me feel fabulous- since he had made a fool of me before... i sooo wanted to do that for such a long time... thumbs up to woman empowerment haha
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              Mon, May 5, 2008 - 7:00 PM
              damn, you girls are all reconnecting with your ex's and setting things right......makin it on YOUR terms. so empowering. i feel so encouraged. who wants to feel all sad and lonesome over someone who trampled all over your heart before? not me.....you girls are so rad! keep up the good work in remembering who you are n what youre worth!!! girrrl power!!
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                Tue, May 6, 2008 - 6:17 PM
                girl power is right! haha POWER TO THE VAGINA lol
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                  Wed, May 7, 2008 - 11:57 AM
                  hi katya,

                  haha, you crack me up. you know, for how often you hear that "men rule the world," the vagina has some crazy unspoken power, doesnt it? like WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY more than any man would ever admit.
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              Tue, May 13, 2008 - 7:39 AM
              Lol, Katya, I just don't have your strength! I just had to get me a little! Well, a lot. It's been EONS!

              "Denver" and I are in our second week of this strange reconciliation. No fights, in fact very little talk of the past. He's calling every day. We have our fifth date tonite . . . i'm allowing myself to be happy, but I am cautious. I think he is, too, but this time around he is careful not to hurt me. We still don't know where this will lead, and all the issues from before, well they'll be waiting for us when we come down to reality. But that is another day . . .
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                Tue, May 13, 2008 - 12:04 PM
                melissa.....it sounds like you are realistic about things......so enjoy this "la la land" while its here......its one of the absolute sweetest things in life!! we're rootin for you!
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                  Wed, May 14, 2008 - 12:27 PM
                  LAST KISS UPDATE!!


                  little background information... i had broken up with my last boyfriend last october... he left me for OC's and cocaine. (i sure know how to pick em) but evver since then its been a game of reconciliation with past flames and new ones ones. I recenty was set up with a boy that works with my friends boyfriend. Hes really funny. but he had just broke up with his ex girlfriend like amonth ago... hes reallly reallly nice and wikked funny (imma sucka for a guy who can make me laugh) and the chemistry,,,,, ohhh instant panty gravy haha (not serious) sooooo after our date last nite... our goodnite kiss lasted like a good 30 minutes. =] --- but im still left feeling very cautious... i dont wanna get hurt... even tho i KNOW not to persue anything at themoment with summer rolling on in... but the passion is just so hard to turn away from lol FABULOUSSSSSSSS kisser. stressss then fabulous lol

                  thanks for letting me share my useless information girls! =]
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                Wed, May 14, 2008 - 12:31 PM
                i feel that you need to have that kind of inner strength... Makes you feel confident (my opinion anyways) and if you start with that attitude from day one with men... then they know not 2 fuck with you... and not walk all over you... kuz if they do wrong you bet your ass i wont be crying over you but rather running over you haha


                And good thing your thinking wisely. I would never put my "ALL" in before i knew it was okay to do so. Make sure both of you are on the same page rather than being in different libraries you know? thinking in that perspective will save you both headaches and heartaches. =]
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                  Wed, May 14, 2008 - 12:32 PM
                  oh that last post was in reference to you melissa =]
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                    Sat, May 17, 2008 - 1:17 PM
                    Thanks Darlin, and I think Denver and I are in different libraries in MOST aspects of life. He also has drug issues. Just pot as far as I know but it rules him to the point of having NO motivation to fix his life, in fact he just keeps taking the easy solutions. Last year dumping me was the easy solution because I challenged him. But he keeps me out of all that shit now. He works his schedule around me, keeps the darker elements far out of my sight. Will he ever fix them? Probably not, and for this I know we will not make it in the long haul. Sigh, but for now he is the one I love and want. I have to work my way through (and out) of this in my own time. Lord, lord, who knows?

                    Ironically I met someone last week while out with Denver, and we've become great friends. He's another sexy musician, but is the polar opposite in his life decisions. Denver had to break out date last night so I went out with this guy OPENLY (as in I told Denver and he was fine with it - we are exclusive so he knew I wouldn't do anything stupid.) Well I had the time of my life! What an awesome guy! We've agreed to be friends and let our respective lives toodle along as they are for now. His wife died of brain cancer last Nov so he is NOT in a mental state to be in love anyway. So the timing seems right for whatever . . . I kissed this guy goodnight (good kiss) then went to spend the night with Denver, who just wanted to spoon. I do well to motivate him for sex (it's the curse of the weed, sigh.)

                    Life is strange. But at least I am back in it! Geesh, I was a hermit this year.
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                      Sat, May 24, 2008 - 1:46 AM
                      melissa........it sounds like you are being smart about you n "denver." realistic.......so just have fun and ride with it! and wow.....your connection with the other one sounds really amazing. its crazy how right when you start somethin with someone......something even better can come along. but you said the timing wasnt right, right? so just being friends sounds like what will happen, and what could be better than a love that began as friendship??? your love life sounds like its boomin right now! i will live vicariously through you and katya (i am a single mom with a toddler and have a pretty nonexistent love life right now........).
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    Fri, May 23, 2008 - 11:05 AM
    Well what kind of kiss we talking here, we talking a lovers kiss or a kiss from a friend or family member?

    Mind was on mother's day from my nephew who told me I was a good mommy...(even though I am not a mom yet)
    LOL he is only 3 but it was still a good one..
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      Sat, May 24, 2008 - 1:48 AM
      kari.........hahaha, now i dont feel so bad, because my last kiss is the one my 1 year old gave me this evening. he bit me and we dealt with all of that, and then i asked him if he was ready to make it better with a kiss or a hug and he kissed me!

      so even though there is no kissy face romance in my life right now, ive got ooooodles of it from my perfect son, and it fills up my heart like i have never experienced.

      heres to kisses, no matter what kind they are!!!
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        Sat, May 24, 2008 - 6:42 AM
        wow ... i would rather get kisses from a child then a man. I honestly can not wait to have children..... it is def. something to look foward to.
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          Sat, May 24, 2008 - 9:10 PM
          katya......wow, that makes me feel happy! i know what ya mean though........there is something so very grand about kisses from little ones....it isn't limited to a physical thing.....it feels like a big big love....awwwwwwwww
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            Sun, May 25, 2008 - 6:40 AM
            welll jenn you must be truly greatful to have that kind of love to surround you everyday. Sometimes i think, wow i would have a newborn child by now, (i had a misscarriage last year). The whole idea really bugs me out. I def. believe everything happens for a reason and thank god every day that what happened last year was a positive thing. Few months after my misscarriage i found out my boyfriend who i was living with developed a bad drug addiction & i now have a restraining order against him. Funny how things happen. But back to what i was saying.... I'm jealous that you get to have that experience of that undescribable love you feel for your own child. But i am an optimistic person sooo i believe that maybe it was like god saying... hey you know that guy was a dcik head you needed to learn from him and maybe your next guy will be the guy for you. and you know what... when i do find him.... im gunna make sure my kisses are to come by and reel that bad boy him and have a bunch of beautiful babies in a nice big white house with a wrap around porch... haha i think wayyyy to much. lol

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