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Do you ever feel like you have to tone down your flirting?
I'm very friendly but, I find that a lot of guys take it as flirting. I'm gregarious and out-going. I have no problem walking up to anyone and talking, even strangers. I like talking to people so I'm usually smiling when I'm doing it. I'm Italian, we naturally tend to talk with our hands and/or touch people when we're talking. I try to give everyone the benefit of a doubt and I dislike being out-right rude unless I have to be so I don't always break-off conversations that perhaps should end.
I bring this up because on three separate occasions in the past week I caught myself reigning myself in and as a result being un-me-like. It bothers me that I feel the need to do that but at the same time I don't want to send the wrong signals and give some guy false hope.
Is it me or is there always some level of flirting going on between guys? The funny thing is, 95% of the time I'm truely am just being friendly, if I really WAS flirting they wouldn't know what hit them!
I'm very friendly but, I find that a lot of guys take it as flirting. I'm gregarious and out-going. I have no problem walking up to anyone and talking, even strangers. I like talking to people so I'm usually smiling when I'm doing it. I'm Italian, we naturally tend to talk with our hands and/or touch people when we're talking. I try to give everyone the benefit of a doubt and I dislike being out-right rude unless I have to be so I don't always break-off conversations that perhaps should end.
I bring this up because on three separate occasions in the past week I caught myself reigning myself in and as a result being un-me-like. It bothers me that I feel the need to do that but at the same time I don't want to send the wrong signals and give some guy false hope.
Is it me or is there always some level of flirting going on between guys? The funny thing is, 95% of the time I'm truely am just being friendly, if I really WAS flirting they wouldn't know what hit them!
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Re: Calling all natural flirts!
Fri, June 30, 2006 - 11:58 AMYes, that's me. But I don't want to say that I'm not flirting when I'm being friendly, but rather when I'm being friendly I do it in a flirty way. Frequently this isn't just the case with men, but with women also. I guess I'm just good with my eyes and my smile and it comes off as a little frisky...
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Re: Calling all natural flirts!
Wed, October 25, 2006 - 8:58 PMhmm. your comments strike a familiar chord: i tend to be playfully flirty with everyone...hence probably confusing the ones that i'm more interested in getting to know better. 'also love to cook for groups and kiss. as to the 'casual intimacy' and not being taken seriously; that, too sounds all too familiar, though in my case wearing ankle bells and a bone in the nose probably doesn't encourage being takens seriously, either.
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Re: Calling all natural flirts!
Wed, October 25, 2006 - 9:28 PMOh, no, Kwai: some people know you're absolutely serious... not that I would ever kiss and tell... ;-)
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Re: Calling all natural flirts!
Fri, July 7, 2006 - 9:09 PMYea i think I am now quite a flirt! A natural?? Hardly i got in to it because when I first came out 10000 years ago! no one would talk to me in the bars They did not trust a 6;8man
Now it comes with the territiry BUTI only flirt for flirting sake If i am really into the man It is for real!!!
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Re: Calling all natural flirts!
Wed, September 6, 2006 - 5:35 AMI flirt with most everyone. It's a great feeling. That spark.
I think 80% of my "straight" friends have flirted openly with eachother, even if they thought they were just kidding.
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Re: Calling all natural flirts!
Thu, January 18, 2007 - 7:10 AMFirst of all, just be you. You can never 'send' the wrong impression. The only person who can choose to take the wrong perception is the person recieving it. (Just like you can never 'hurt' anyone's feelings, weather you are trying to or not. You could have the best intentions but someone may choose to take offense. You could have the worst intentions but some optomistic joe will just laugh.)
That said, however, being as cute as you are, if you were as 'friendly' with me as you just described, I probably would be smitten by you :) and if that wound up not being your intent I would be dissapointed, but I would know that if it's not ment to be it's not meant to be. :)
Never ever ever be less than who you are, that's the biggest rule I feel everyone should follow.
