Hey Isis,

I'm a novice in astrology, but I found this from my astro program pertaining to just "Venus conjunct N.Node" synastry. Maybe you can test if this is somewhat accurate? Hopefully someone with more experience can fill us both in.

"This is the combination for lovers. The North Node and Venus are both highly significant in relationship astrology indicating that this association was written in the stars. It is also likely that A and B are in love, desiring to form a close and romantic bond, rather than remain friends only. Passion, romantic love and an intense desire to relate are central to this relationship. Within moments of meeting A and B feel they have known each other for years. They enjoy each other's company, discovering pleasures in common. If circumstances dictate that their relationship can only be a friendship, they would be wise to tread very carefully. This is not an association to take lightly. It could easily take over A or B's lives. In some circumstances this combination of Venus and the North Node can indicate an association formed for artistic or creative projects."

Hello, I've been trying to find the significance of one person's Jupiter conjunct the other person's South Node. There seems to be plenty out there on moon, sun, and venus conjunctions on the nodes, but nothing with Jupiter. Anybody have an idea? Thank you.

Hmmm...

My partner is going through his Saturn Return. His Saturn squares my N.Node. Also his Uranus is conj. my N. Node in Scorp. Finally, his moon is trine my N. Node. (Consequently, my moon trines his N. Node, too.)

I've always hesitated to say too much about the Nodes in synastry.
I can only talk a little about my own experience (as good a place to start as any, I guess).

In my own relationship my Venus is in the same sign as her North Node with a wide orb about 15*. I also have my Vesta in Pisces, much closer to her North Node in a true loose conjunction. I have been trying to figure out what this means for the duration of the relationship, because it definately does play a strong role in it. Of course Venus is Earth's sister and Vesta is just an asteroid but Vesta is closer to the Node...so it's hard to say which is getting more expression. My guess is that Vesta acts like a bridge which carries my Venus energy to my girlfriend's Node.
We have always had a way of being very soft, relaxed and "dreamy" together...and honestly the only way I can describe it sometimes, is like a nocturnal scene on a tropical Island. A kind of quiet haven with nothing but the mesmerizing sounds of the waves and the faint glow of a sunset. That is TRULY the ways it feels, and I know she would describe it the same way...because the ocean is her favorite thing...and somehow I get the same impressions from the feelings we share.
My GF's South Node is in Virgo, also at her Moon/Pluto midpoint. She tends to try to find haven in cold hard factual analysis, but it is never enough. She is missing the Pisces element, and feels profoundly soothed and relaxed by the presence of Pisces energy. (we all know how abrasive and needling Virgo can be - Pisces is the soothing anaesthetic which is the antidote or antithesis of that approach).

I have known several people, including my GF, who have planets on or near their S.Node...or a midpoint there, etc. Such people always seem to fall back into certain behavior which they do well out of pure instinct while a person with a planet conjunct or near the N. Node tends to need to conciously apply theirself progressively. There is a constant Dharmic "calling" for a N. Node person be in such&such a way. (With my Mercury conjunct my N. Node, I MUST look at analyze things broadly, objectively and fairly...or I will just get pulled into South Node patterns which I understand too well and and also DREAD.
A South Node person has no problem being the way he or she is at the core...but because it is SOUTH Node behavior it tends to create negative patterns in the long run, and it seems that S. Node people have a hard time figuring that out because they are SO instrinctive. They may really come to depend on people to contact their N. NOde in order to show them the way. South Node people may be slightly arguementive because they instinctively feel that their instincts are always correct....a catch-22 situation. So things which go against their way of looking at things are unthinkable to them.
North Node people tend to be more combative than arguementive...because they are fighting a concious uphill battle to remain above the negative traits of the South Node. They can seen somewhat willful or rebellious or simply independent because their instinct is to break free of the South Node, not to hide there.

In my own case, I have Moon in Scorpio EXACTLY square my Nodal axis. This is interesting to me because the Nodal Axis is NOT really a place where we have to choose sides...it is like a wire or a magnet with a positive pole and a negative pole...and will not work unless both poles are balanced. (Here's one for ya: Is a Nodal Axis a DC-circuit...or is it really an AC circuit?! I'll introduce that idea at a later time.) Anyway, I think my Moon gets really churned up by the energy in my Nodal Axis...kind of like a diode...which is basically the same concept as the filament in a light-bulb. So I guess my Moon gets "lit up" by my Nodal conflict.

I have:
Moon in Scorpio/11
South Node in Leo/8
North Node in Aquarius/2
Moon square Mercury-conjunct-N. Node

I have always attracted partners who have strong Leo components and/or Taurus components (almost NEVER Aquarius or Scorpio, although Scorpio sometimes seems to be a mutual sub-component between me and another.) It seems to me that maybe ANYBODY would tend to attract partners who balance their Nodal conflict toward the Nodal pole where they are lacking. My Venus/Vesta/PartOfFortune are in my GF's N.Node sign...and her Moon/Vesta/Lilith are in my S. Node sign (Leo). We both seem to tip each other's scales toward the deficient Node.

I think that Venus conjunct someone's North Node (especially someone with a deficient N. Node) could mean that they effortlessly coax them or lure them to try new things on for size. The North Node person just feels that when the Venus person is doing his or her thing, so to speak, that that they want to be there for that because it breaks them out of their routine and pattern. It's like the S. NOde person is riding around with their emergency brake on without realizing - they had NO IDEA where all the fritction and smoke was coming from, not to mention the burning smell! And the Venus person has a gentle way of helping them unwind. It is not a chore to be aruond the Venus person - the N. Node person actually feels a "relief" because they have been going against the grain and Venus person automatically shows them how to lighten up. Of course, that just creates an idealistic scenario, and other aspects woven into the pattern could complicate things.

Male sun conjunct female NN in Pisces?

Especially if it is a double whammy, that is, the aspects go both ways in the charts.
this is indicative of a possible soul mate connection. You have been together in past lives
working together on love issues. This does not mean however that the relationship with be problem free or without pain. You may have come back to work on painful lessons, and this will be indicated by difficult aspects to this nodal axis.

Hi all...Jan Spiller just came out with another of her books on Nodes, this time with respect to synastry. I believe it is called "Cosmic Love". This could help you with this question.
Jennifer