I thought I would post some rules of engagement here. I felt it was pertinent, not that anyone has gone beyond what is appropriate yet, but why wait until it happens? Here they are:

1.) No pointing out other peoples denials. We face them when we are ready in our own time.

2.) No blaming rage directed at individuals.

3.) Rage expression is good........but, I want it given it's own space in it's own thread with plenty of warning to others so they can choose to read it or not. In my experience, rage needs space to express where it can't cause more wreckage and has a chance to take responsibility for itself.

4.) Take responsibility for your own feelings.....we are trying to bring them in and accept them, projection is the opposite of this.

5.) When you get triggered, step away from the keyboard and move as much as possible privately before posting.


Thanks everyone!

Daisy