okay i got a question for all you freaky naked people!!!!
my friend is dating this guy and he loves to get naked all the time no matter where or who he is around.......she is trippin hard!
how should she go about getting him to keeping him clothed? and why do you guys think he is doin it?
much love
melissa
my friend is dating this guy and he loves to get naked all the time no matter where or who he is around.......she is trippin hard!
how should she go about getting him to keeping him clothed? and why do you guys think he is doin it?
much love
melissa
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Re: why b naked?
Tue, October 31, 2006 - 2:42 PMMy question is why should she try and change him? He may get naked for a miriad of reasons, from a desire to be the center of attention, whether it be possitive or negative, to shock others, or because he just enjoys being naked (possible reasons, his may be totally different). I believe there's a bit of exhibitionist in all of us that like to be naked, not in a negative way, but that we love our bodies and wish to share them and ourselves with others. She will not change him. If he loves to be naked and she doesn't "approve" of his behavior, he may choose to hide it from her, which would likely be destructive to their relationship, or she can accept him the way he is and consider joining him.
It's nice you care, but maybe it's her that needs to be asked "Why do you want to change him? If you like him and getting naked if a part of him, why do you want to make him different?"
Bear
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Tue, October 31, 2006 - 10:25 PMI live my life naked and no-one will change me.........maybe she should get used to it, or join him naked....she might just enjoy it and then realise the answer to all the questions. -
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Wed, November 1, 2006 - 7:21 AMPerhaps he should find a Woman who is more compatible with Him?
A good Christian Woman who fears or is embarrassed by nakedness isn't a good match for a Nudist.
Adam and Eve were "naked" in the Garden Of Eden
Every human being is born into the world "Naked".
For a Nudist it is just our natural state of being.
I see nothing but conflict bettween these two,one who is a "Nudist" should never be coerced into modifying his or her behavior or lifestyle or freedom to be Nude for the love of another.
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Fri, November 3, 2006 - 6:26 PMMaybe a reciepe for disaster, but all relationships require some sort of compremise. Why not try telling him that "you feel uncomfortable being nude around others or seeing nude people." Tell them you need a safe space and time to explore those feelings more and need to be supported. If he really cares about you he will be willing to listen and help find a way for both of you to be with in your comfort zones.
note: be careful not to blame him for your insercurities about nudity. Spend time thinking about what really bothers you about nudity and what you need to feel comfortable..even if it is that you don't see other's nude.
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Fri, November 3, 2006 - 6:50 PMFREAKY NAKED PEOPLE???
That was really not what you wanted to say...
your fear is showing.
you are asking how to control another human being.
how would you like it if you were being controled
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Sat, November 4, 2006 - 11:10 AMNaked People are NOT "Freaks" Melissa
Once you get past this stereotyping of persons who are comfortable being Nude,only then will you be able to live with a Man who is a "Nudist". -
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Mon, November 6, 2006 - 5:37 AMThanks jake - very well said! -
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Tue, January 16, 2007 - 11:47 AMhey people!!! :) i wasnt trying to offend anyone by saying freaky naked people........just joking k.....and second i gotta tell you this has nothing to do with me it has all to do with my friend as i stated earlier. her email is alison@buzzoff.us and her website is www.buzzoff.us. i was never gonna post this for her but she would not stop bothering everyone about why her man wants to be naked so i was just trying to help her and it sucks that i get attacked for it. so if you people have anything negative to say to her for this post please forward it along to her email and stop attacking me through my tribe mail account. you all know who you are.
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Tue, January 16, 2007 - 1:54 PMSorry to hear people were 'attacking' you....doesn't sound very true nudist/naturist like. Are we freaky....hell yes...because society is so stuck up, we are labeled that way...but I could careless...I am that secure in my naturist ways. Have I gotten naked at parties and my wife rolled her eyes thinking 'oh god not again'...oh yes....I even had a few others join me. Those that criticize you are a bit too sensitive in this PC world...something that onlycontinues to cause sides to dig in their heels...not understnd or accept. But the best attitude is to not care what others think. Life is not a popularity contest.
Your friend needs to talk to her nudist boyfriend and ask if comprimise is possible, if not then she either needs to accept him for the way he is or move on. Plain and simple. Relationships are about comprimise, but there are some things one or the other may not compromise on...these things must be accepted...if not the relationship will fail.
Enjoy and stay freaky!
-T
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Re: why b naked?
Wed, January 17, 2007 - 9:23 AMwhy are you posting her email and website address? did she ask you to?
this sound fishy. are you a troll?
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Wed, January 17, 2007 - 5:42 AMThis just sounds like they're not a good match. Trying to change a habit or lifestyle that someone enjoys and is harmless is a bad idea. Either she should accept him as he is or move on.
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Wed, January 17, 2007 - 9:12 AMWho are these "freaky naked people" you speak of? Why are you here?,...The name of the tribe speaks for itself. Don't be ashamed of your naked body. Get out and get naked,..it feels great. I hope I don't offend you, Mellisa, you really need to open up and be who you are. Have fun, be the best,...again sorry if I offended,...Rowdy -
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Wed, January 17, 2007 - 9:59 AMI'm a 'freaky naked person' (according to most of society) and a normal naked person (according to naturists). So what? Who cares why she's here? She came in supposedly to get advice from nudists. Is there something wrong with a non-nude asking advice? Let her be who she wants to be....just like we would like to be left to choose how we live.
If shes an advertiser than she should be kicked, banned, whatever.
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Wed, January 17, 2007 - 10:48 AMGot no problem being called freaky. I AM freaky and proud of it. Work at being freaky as a matter of fact. Got no problem with being called naked, either. I AM naked. Got no problem with being called freaky naked of naked freaky either. To be naked IS freaky, in a good way that is. It's the freaky that are the spice in the great big human stew. That stew would be pretty damn bland with the spicy freaks.
Naked freaks are freakin fantastic.
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Fri, February 9, 2007 - 11:50 AMI'm sorta selective to where I'm naked. I enjoy being naked outdoors mostly, though. Clothing is (in reality and symbolicly) a method of restriction. It's meant to cover parts of your natural body from exposure. Exposure from what? You may ask. Exposure from the elements or exposure from each other. It doesn't matter. Clothing, by design, is meant to be restrictive. Even when we dress up sexy, what are we doing? We're exposing just a little in hopes of exposing more later.
I'm somewhat modest. For me clothing protects me from others. I'm a little insecure about my body these days (for reasons that are my own), but I love being naked around others who don't see in terms of being clothed/unclothed. But as I mentioned before, I love being outdoors and naked. It feels so liberating to be out of the restriction of clothing and to be completely at one with the world around me. It feels wonderfiul to go to the desert and strip with nothing but you, the earth, and the heavens around you for miles. In a world where thousands colonize a few square miles and have rules and regulations bound to them. It feels as close to true freedom as anybody can experience.
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Tue, January 15, 2008 - 1:10 PM"Why be naked?"
To me the question is more, why not be naked.
But on: "Why be naked?"
I say, because it is fun. I don't have any big philosophy, well maybe I do, but it's just fun.
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Thu, January 17, 2008 - 12:24 AMI once was invited to a Wedding at a Naturist club. I had never been before.
But I went out of curiosity and becuz my friends were getting married there!
At first, I was a bit uncomfortable and surprised by all the naked bodies around me,
of all shapes and sizes. But they all acted so normal and calm, and I also acted similarly.
I participated in the "nudity" thing, hesitatingly at first. Eventually, I became more and more
confortable especially when I looked beyond the bodies to see the person inside.
By the end of the day, I did not feel naked at all, nor did I see the others as naked.
We were all just people celebrating a wedding with friends. It was a great experience.
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Sat, January 26, 2008 - 5:16 PMHi Melissa,
I guess I have a question for ya. Why be clothed ALL THE TIME? We have SO MANY venues for clothing. BUT,
so little, for being naked. So, why don't YOU ask this GUY, WHY he likes to get naked???
And, I got another question for you. Do YOU like to be NAKED? What does nakedness bring up for YOU?
Thanks for asking the questions. I get frustrated sometime in my circles because everything is either
BEHIND CLOSED DOORS!!!! Or PUBLIC ARGGGHHHH......
So, it was really nice to come across a discussion about being comfortable, naked, AND intimate. What would that
feel like in a group?
Oh yeah, getting naked all the time no matter who is around CAN and WILL eventually get ANYONE in trouble.
We live in a paranoid naked culture. AND, GOD FORBID IF WE SEE ANYONE'S GENITALS....... Just take
a look at the recent issue of Psychology Today.
Lastly there are parts of me that are definitely freaky. But, I don't characterize all groups of naked people freaky. Some
folks have so many rules about being naked it is simply NO FUN. And these people aren't that feaky; I think that is part
of the problem.
Luv,
Freaky Lugh lover Green Man and God/dess worshiper,
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Fri, June 27, 2008 - 11:45 PMWOW! No condoning of he attacks here Melissa......Please just accept the diversity, and chose to befriend the comfy and like.
I so agree with the, "Freaky being on the positive note..." as I did not hear anything bad about that. I hear you asking on behalf of a friend, who is attracted to a being, who has different likes. HELLO:?????????????????????????
but I also hear all of you who get your panties all up in an uproar over all the little things in life, or fail to listen to the real cry of help through the smoke screens of misconception that are a true reality of the consequences of jumping into verbal conversations at different times, locations, ambiances, and not having the benefit of non-verbal hints and physical clues to conversations.......
Anyway, Melissa, why be naked? My reason, most indefinitely, because it feels good. That, I believe is what it is about. Where it feels good might be different for everyone however, it could be sexual, thermal, claustrophobial, mental, or a myriad of reasons all put together. I also like the physical feeling of super comfortable furry, soft, warm, texturous clothes, or silky, satin, cool, or slippery coverings, depending upon where I am, and what I am doing.
I definitely know that I really love the mental joy of being able to do whatever I feel like doing whenever and wherever I want; I believe that is my true attraction to Nudity, or the bare naked truth.
Melissa, to me, being naked is about bearing your true self, whether it be your body or your mind. A truly healthy partnership is one where both can feel comfortable with expressing themselves in the bare naked reality of their being together. They should respect ones desires, and dislikes. Until, and perhaps, if ever, they need respect each others' feelings about their expressions. They must mutually respect each others' reality of expression if they love and want to be each other. If they grow together on this one, and become connected on that deep level where they either accept one another because of their differences, or find ways to change how they feel and act, they can survive.
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Mon, June 30, 2008 - 6:46 PMseems like a hot woman might inspire a man to be naked. does me.
but what was i thinking...
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Fri, July 4, 2008 - 5:14 PMLOL My "Thought's" exactly!!!!! =) -
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Thu, July 31, 2008 - 10:37 AMMy answer to this is: We are all born naked..why not!!! At the same time here are some places people live that it's just too flip'n cold!!!
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Thu, July 31, 2008 - 4:16 PMUm, not to go nuts on the Devils Advocate here....
...but anyone happen to notice she dropped in, created a big stir, then dropped the URL for an insect-repellant site?
Insect Repellent, Nude Foks
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Thu, July 31, 2008 - 5:06 PMI think that was because of the negativity that she felt was coming at her...I think, lol.
Either way...some people just prefer nudity and if they find a partner...it's good to be like minded as relates to the topic.
Betcha
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