The act of bondage itself is a turn on IF you are wired that way. The act of putting someone into bondage is a turn on IF you are wired that way too.

So if I like tying people up and I tie you up, I get the yummy sensation of watching you squirm while I:

caress you or
tickle you
or eat that Ben and Jerry you been saving and watch you suffer and threaten me

while I laugh at your situation.

Fun for me. I am wired that way.

Fun for you?

That depends on you.

I'm with Mary - things *will* come to mind!

Most of my beginning bondage scenes were sensual domination or sexual teasing since I was doing them with an SO. If you are wired that way (or even if you're just open to trying something new for someone you love) you can think of things the "tied up one" would enjoy. A note about bondage though - safety first. If you are planning on using anything like rope or bondage tape be sure to have a pair of shears nearby. Here is a link to some basic safety info - the page is for rope, but the info on circulation and nerve compression is something I think every newbie should read. students.signalflare.ca/ctarms...l.shtml

and have fun!!