Fri 4/25- BANG 4 THE BUCK
presented by Midori, Kelly B, Lydia Mc Lane and Miss Indigo Blue
Start Time: 6:30 PM
For the 4th year, International Star Midori hosts a hot and steamy night for SF Bay Area Women with all proceeds benefiting AIDS/Lifecycle. Kinky SF Bay Area Women still talk about the last 3 San Francisco extravaganzas. This year is primed for another sold out success.
First, Strip-O-Rama! At 6:30 pm a FREE striptease lesson by Burlesque Star Miss Indigo Blue. She will teach sexy moves for butches and femmes. FREE, and guaranteed to be fun!
At 8 pm, Miss Indigo Blue and Lydia McLane join Midori to co-host an amateur women-for-women strip-off! This will be a no-holds barred, wild and abandoned show of women stripping for women, competing to receive the most tips, with bumping tunes by DJ Trouble. The biggest tip-receivers win BIG prize packages from Good Vibrations, Twisted Monk, Xpeeps & Social Kink, Pleasure Chest, ID Lube, Stockroom, Stormy Leather, Syren and Desire.
All women are invited to come, watch, tip and compete! Get there early and sign up before all the strip-off spots are taken! All tips donated to AIDS/Lifecycle.
At 10 pm, the night turns debaucherous! Hostess Midori will conduct her famous "Auntie Midori's Meat Market"! Everyone is invited to stay and play for the women-only play and shag party. This is THE hottest event of the spring! Pull out your spiciest outfit, and throw your toys in a bag to come out and play for a great cause.
Citadel membership not required. Women are asked to RSVP rsvp@bang4thebuck.org.
Cost: $15 Strip-O-Rama only, 8 PM-10 PM $15 Party only, 10 - 2 AM $20 Big Bang Ticket - Strip Show and Party
More Info: www.bang4thebuck.org www.aidslifecycle.org/8081
Sat 4/26- Men only 15 Association Play Party
Start Time: 8:00 PM
Doors open from 8:00 till 11:00 PM, play to 1:00 AM $20 entry. Invitation required, but no membership charge. Let us know at least 24 hours in advance if you’re interested. Click www.the15association.org/Contacts/Cont.html. The oldest continuous male S/M club in the western USA introduces you to some of the most friendly, creative, and experienced leathermen around. Come get to know the guys. We’ll be happy to introduce you around or help you find someone to hook up with. Or just come and hang out and get to know people they way you feel comfortable. Guys dress in leather, rubber, jock straps, boots, masculine fetish, or just jeans, dark shoes and a dark t-shirt. Dress appropriately for a men’s dungeon and you’ll fit right in. Since 1980, our fraternal support has created a safe environment to explore your real life fantasies and wildest scenes. You don’t have to play. Safe sex rules apply. Guests and members over 21 of all experience levels are welcome, as are gay, bi and trans men of all ages shapes and colors. Please bring a picture ID. Bring your favorite play toys and fetish gear if you’d like. Lockers are available. Contact us to request your personal invitation at www.the15association.org/Contacts/Cont.html
Mon 4//28- Whip Works with Darin and Sheila- A Singletail Monthly Workshop
Start Time: 8:00 PM
Cost is $10.00
8:00 till 10:00
Bring your whips to the S.F. Citadel for a fun evening of practice. Learn to get the most out of you whips and whip scenes by learning from others. The purpose of this gathering is to learn from acquire new skills, polish old ones and to learn from each other.
Whips: Any singletail, snake whip, Bullwhip or stock whip that has an Australian measurement of 6? or under. We only have 3 loaner whips to use for Whip Works. If there are more then 3 in need of whips they will be put into groups to share the whips. The purpose of the loaner whips is to allow people that have never played with a singletail to give it a try before making the commitment to buy one for themselves. For this reason we will only loan a person a whip for two meetings.
Tues,4/29- Burn Baby Burn
Class: 8:00pm-10:00pm
Doors: 7:30pm
Admission: $20
Have you ever wanted to heat- things-up, literally? 'Want to learn about a sizzling sensation-loaded edge-play that includes a serious reason to command, "don't move?" Join us for Fireplay, and learn how to safely play with fire. In this class, you will be mesmerized by blue flame and experience the power of fireplay as flames lick across a bottom's rump. The hands-on class includes demonstrations and the opportunity to try-out fireplay as a Top or as a bottom.
Rope Wolf has taught classes at NLA-Dallas, Exiles, IMsL, S.F. Citadel and privately on a variety of topics including: Erotic D/s, 24/7 Beg.-Intermediate transitioning your play D/s to 24/7, knife play, beginning bondage, beginner fisting and Mind Fucks/Mental Games. Hy is a member of Exiles, MasT (Masters and slaves Together) and co-founder of www.ButchFemmeSocials.com, a local social group for butch/femme folk.
Wed 4/30-The Way of It: Establishing and Maintaining Protocol Within Relationships
Admission: $20
Doors: 7:30pm
Class: 8:00pm -- 10:00pm
"What's the number one reason given for dissatisfaction in an ongoing formal SM relationship?" asks Laura. " Lack of consistency from the top. What's one tool in a top's mental toy bag to keep this from happening? Establishing and maintaining a protocol of behavior." In her humorous, but deeply insightful discussion, Laura gives an introduction and personal views on issues of etiquette, protocol, and their place within personal relationships and our community.
Laura is best known these days for her "Marketplace" series of novels, but back in the beginning, when pickings for good and readable porn was slim, Laura created the groundbreaking "Leatherwomen" anthologies, and edited several others. Some of the work she created for those anthologies are reprinted in The Catalyst and Other Tales. Laura's work has been published in the United States, Germany, Japan, and Korea, to international acclaim. Her short stories and non-fiction essays also appear in other anthologies. Laura will be bringing books to sign.
Fri 5/4- Themed Open Play Party!
"Pimps Up, Ho's Down!":
SF Citadel has been known for innovative themes with
many Open Play Parties over the years...& this night
is no exception! Join us as we add a little extra
"raciness" to the night. Although costume attire is
not mandatory, we encourage you to "dress as you dare"
for the evening--extra sexy, extra provocative, extra
alluring---but your best fetish attire is more than
sufficient! Prizes will be awarded for the best male &
female themed costumes of the night!
DJ Mystic Moods, "The Most Dangerous DJ", will be
spinning flashback '70s funk & R&B as well as today's
dark, dungeon sounds, & delicious snacks will be
provided. As always, safer sex & dungeon furniture
cleaning supplies are supplied...you simply provide
the energy & the fun times!
DISCLAIMER: Due to the sensitive nature of the theme,
SF Citadel & Master Erik
release this disclaimer:
*This is only a costume-themed event, & in no way,
shape, or form encourages the glorification of the
negative aspects of the "sex-for-money" industry. For
guests who do come in themed costume, SF Citadel &
Master Erik sincerely request that you please respect
the people, & images of those that you're imitating,
as well as those who chose to attend, but for various
reasons chose not to dress in costume.*
Admission: $25
Membership required and always available at the door for just $10
8PM-1AM
To volunteer (for free admission!) please e-mail sfcitadelvolunteers@gmail.com
Sat 5/3- Tops Are From Gor; Bottoms Are From Roissy
Admission:$30.00
Doors: 1:30pm
class 2:00pm -- 5:00pm
We frequently draw our relationship models from fictional universes, forgetting that those universes don't always work the same way. What happens when concepts like "master," "slave," and "service" are filtered through the Marketplace, Gor, Roissy, or other fictional universes? Laura will help separate fantasy from reality, discuss effective communication of roles, and explore how to borrow from fiction honestly while we craft our relationship styles. There's good stuff in our fiction as well as bad - be prepared to laugh at the unrealistic expectations, smile at fond memories of our dearest inspirations, and grimace at how we can turn something we did as a lark for a few years into a colossal waste of time. (With a nod to Bill Shatner.)
presented by Midori, Kelly B, Lydia Mc Lane and Miss Indigo Blue
Start Time: 6:30 PM
For the 4th year, International Star Midori hosts a hot and steamy night for SF Bay Area Women with all proceeds benefiting AIDS/Lifecycle. Kinky SF Bay Area Women still talk about the last 3 San Francisco extravaganzas. This year is primed for another sold out success.
First, Strip-O-Rama! At 6:30 pm a FREE striptease lesson by Burlesque Star Miss Indigo Blue. She will teach sexy moves for butches and femmes. FREE, and guaranteed to be fun!
At 8 pm, Miss Indigo Blue and Lydia McLane join Midori to co-host an amateur women-for-women strip-off! This will be a no-holds barred, wild and abandoned show of women stripping for women, competing to receive the most tips, with bumping tunes by DJ Trouble. The biggest tip-receivers win BIG prize packages from Good Vibrations, Twisted Monk, Xpeeps & Social Kink, Pleasure Chest, ID Lube, Stockroom, Stormy Leather, Syren and Desire.
All women are invited to come, watch, tip and compete! Get there early and sign up before all the strip-off spots are taken! All tips donated to AIDS/Lifecycle.
At 10 pm, the night turns debaucherous! Hostess Midori will conduct her famous "Auntie Midori's Meat Market"! Everyone is invited to stay and play for the women-only play and shag party. This is THE hottest event of the spring! Pull out your spiciest outfit, and throw your toys in a bag to come out and play for a great cause.
Citadel membership not required. Women are asked to RSVP rsvp@bang4thebuck.org.
Cost: $15 Strip-O-Rama only, 8 PM-10 PM $15 Party only, 10 - 2 AM $20 Big Bang Ticket - Strip Show and Party
More Info: www.bang4thebuck.org www.aidslifecycle.org/8081
Sat 4/26- Men only 15 Association Play Party
Start Time: 8:00 PM
Doors open from 8:00 till 11:00 PM, play to 1:00 AM $20 entry. Invitation required, but no membership charge. Let us know at least 24 hours in advance if you’re interested. Click www.the15association.org/Contacts/Cont.html. The oldest continuous male S/M club in the western USA introduces you to some of the most friendly, creative, and experienced leathermen around. Come get to know the guys. We’ll be happy to introduce you around or help you find someone to hook up with. Or just come and hang out and get to know people they way you feel comfortable. Guys dress in leather, rubber, jock straps, boots, masculine fetish, or just jeans, dark shoes and a dark t-shirt. Dress appropriately for a men’s dungeon and you’ll fit right in. Since 1980, our fraternal support has created a safe environment to explore your real life fantasies and wildest scenes. You don’t have to play. Safe sex rules apply. Guests and members over 21 of all experience levels are welcome, as are gay, bi and trans men of all ages shapes and colors. Please bring a picture ID. Bring your favorite play toys and fetish gear if you’d like. Lockers are available. Contact us to request your personal invitation at www.the15association.org/Contacts/Cont.html
Mon 4//28- Whip Works with Darin and Sheila- A Singletail Monthly Workshop
Start Time: 8:00 PM
Cost is $10.00
8:00 till 10:00
Bring your whips to the S.F. Citadel for a fun evening of practice. Learn to get the most out of you whips and whip scenes by learning from others. The purpose of this gathering is to learn from acquire new skills, polish old ones and to learn from each other.
Whips: Any singletail, snake whip, Bullwhip or stock whip that has an Australian measurement of 6? or under. We only have 3 loaner whips to use for Whip Works. If there are more then 3 in need of whips they will be put into groups to share the whips. The purpose of the loaner whips is to allow people that have never played with a singletail to give it a try before making the commitment to buy one for themselves. For this reason we will only loan a person a whip for two meetings.
Tues,4/29- Burn Baby Burn
Class: 8:00pm-10:00pm
Doors: 7:30pm
Admission: $20
Have you ever wanted to heat- things-up, literally? 'Want to learn about a sizzling sensation-loaded edge-play that includes a serious reason to command, "don't move?" Join us for Fireplay, and learn how to safely play with fire. In this class, you will be mesmerized by blue flame and experience the power of fireplay as flames lick across a bottom's rump. The hands-on class includes demonstrations and the opportunity to try-out fireplay as a Top or as a bottom.
Rope Wolf has taught classes at NLA-Dallas, Exiles, IMsL, S.F. Citadel and privately on a variety of topics including: Erotic D/s, 24/7 Beg.-Intermediate transitioning your play D/s to 24/7, knife play, beginning bondage, beginner fisting and Mind Fucks/Mental Games. Hy is a member of Exiles, MasT (Masters and slaves Together) and co-founder of www.ButchFemmeSocials.com, a local social group for butch/femme folk.
Wed 4/30-The Way of It: Establishing and Maintaining Protocol Within Relationships
Admission: $20
Doors: 7:30pm
Class: 8:00pm -- 10:00pm
"What's the number one reason given for dissatisfaction in an ongoing formal SM relationship?" asks Laura. " Lack of consistency from the top. What's one tool in a top's mental toy bag to keep this from happening? Establishing and maintaining a protocol of behavior." In her humorous, but deeply insightful discussion, Laura gives an introduction and personal views on issues of etiquette, protocol, and their place within personal relationships and our community.
Laura is best known these days for her "Marketplace" series of novels, but back in the beginning, when pickings for good and readable porn was slim, Laura created the groundbreaking "Leatherwomen" anthologies, and edited several others. Some of the work she created for those anthologies are reprinted in The Catalyst and Other Tales. Laura's work has been published in the United States, Germany, Japan, and Korea, to international acclaim. Her short stories and non-fiction essays also appear in other anthologies. Laura will be bringing books to sign.
Fri 5/4- Themed Open Play Party!
"Pimps Up, Ho's Down!":
SF Citadel has been known for innovative themes with
many Open Play Parties over the years...& this night
is no exception! Join us as we add a little extra
"raciness" to the night. Although costume attire is
not mandatory, we encourage you to "dress as you dare"
for the evening--extra sexy, extra provocative, extra
alluring---but your best fetish attire is more than
sufficient! Prizes will be awarded for the best male &
female themed costumes of the night!
DJ Mystic Moods, "The Most Dangerous DJ", will be
spinning flashback '70s funk & R&B as well as today's
dark, dungeon sounds, & delicious snacks will be
provided. As always, safer sex & dungeon furniture
cleaning supplies are supplied...you simply provide
the energy & the fun times!
DISCLAIMER: Due to the sensitive nature of the theme,
SF Citadel & Master Erik
release this disclaimer:
*This is only a costume-themed event, & in no way,
shape, or form encourages the glorification of the
negative aspects of the "sex-for-money" industry. For
guests who do come in themed costume, SF Citadel &
Master Erik sincerely request that you please respect
the people, & images of those that you're imitating,
as well as those who chose to attend, but for various
reasons chose not to dress in costume.*
Admission: $25
Membership required and always available at the door for just $10
8PM-1AM
To volunteer (for free admission!) please e-mail sfcitadelvolunteers@gmail.com
Sat 5/3- Tops Are From Gor; Bottoms Are From Roissy
Admission:$30.00
Doors: 1:30pm
class 2:00pm -- 5:00pm
We frequently draw our relationship models from fictional universes, forgetting that those universes don't always work the same way. What happens when concepts like "master," "slave," and "service" are filtered through the Marketplace, Gor, Roissy, or other fictional universes? Laura will help separate fantasy from reality, discuss effective communication of roles, and explore how to borrow from fiction honestly while we craft our relationship styles. There's good stuff in our fiction as well as bad - be prepared to laugh at the unrealistic expectations, smile at fond memories of our dearest inspirations, and grimace at how we can turn something we did as a lark for a few years into a colossal waste of time. (With a nod to Bill Shatner.)