My life sux worse than yours...

topic posted Fri, January 20, 2006 - 12:08 PM by 
Here's a thread where we can all compete to see whose life sux the worst ;~)

I'll start.

The highligt of my day so far was watching a puffed-up cardinal chase all the little finches away from the bird feeder. Later on I might freshen up their bird bath just for fun!
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    Fri, January 20, 2006 - 12:13 PM
    Highlight of my day so far:

    A tie between

    Picking up my barfing kid from school. Yup, our third round of the barfs this winter is beginning.

    And

    Talking to my mom on the phone; she was diagnosed with another recurrence of cancer yesterday.

    Okay, I admit I'm not playing fair. My life sux right now, but it ain't boring.
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      Fri, January 20, 2006 - 12:36 PM
      Awe, Andrea! You win ;~(

      I KNOW you can handle a round of the barfs no problem. But I am SO sorry to hear about your mom. I'm gonna say a prayer for her & you right now. Mind over matter, so keep your thoughts full of hope, not fear, & your heart full of love.

      Keep your chin up, sweet Mama!
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        Fri, January 20, 2006 - 12:47 PM
        Thank you so much. She says she can feel the prayers people send her, and they seemed to help before.
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          Fri, January 20, 2006 - 5:19 PM
          Hi Andrea,
          I'm sorry to hear about your mom. I would like to share my story with you.
          I was driving home on a Thursday night thinking about the "random acts of kindness" that I regulary perform and how this made me feel good. I know it was my mom's influence (she did charity work all her life) that made me this way and I wanted to thank her next time I saw her. I was awakened in the morning by a phone call saying they were rushing my mom to the hospital. By the time I reached the hospital, she was only semi-coherent. After they installed an emergency pacemaker for her heart, while she was in the recovery room, I held her hand and thanked her for making me the kind & compassionate person I am today. Even though she was on ly semi-conscious and semi-coherent (her brain function was a fraction of normal) she opened her eyes and seemed to nod to me as if she understood what I had told her. She was never lucid or coherent after this and died a few days later. I like to think her last thoughts were hearing me thank her for her gifts of love and compassion.
          My message to you and others would be to tell those who you care about how you feel now before your oppurtunity is gone to express your true feelings.
          Every day tell someone you love them.
          I hope your mom recovers and you can share many more happy moments together.
          Much love to all of you.
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            Fri, January 20, 2006 - 5:30 PM
            Awe, Freddie, that's so beautiful. Your story touched my heart & brought tears to my eyes. And your message is so wise. I never had the chance to say goodbye to my mom, but every time I hear a moving story like yours Freddie, I feel my heart heal a little more. Thank you.
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        Fri, January 20, 2006 - 2:01 PM
        Andrea, I will *never* forget that phone call I got from my parents about my mom's cancer, when we were all leaving to go wine tasting that one day.... So I get kinda shaky just thinking what your phone call today must have been like.

        Your mom's been really tough in fighting this crap so far. One can hope that she will continue to be tough and continue to be able to fight it off. Especially with the huge improvements in technology and treatments and all..... Otoh, its easy to get more scared each time it comes back.... What an emotional rollercoaster. I guess the one, maybe hopeful, thing is that I'd imagine that the healthcare in Florida is top-notch....

        Here's as many hugs as I can send, virtually.
        {{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS!!!!!}}}}}}}}}}}}
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    Fri, January 20, 2006 - 7:32 PM
    >The highligt of my day so far was watching a puffed-up cardinal chase all the little finches away from the bird feeder.

    And that sucks... how???
    :)

    Andrea definitely wins this one (unfortunately..) I am so sorry to hear that.

    And Freddie, what a beautiful story!
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      Sat, January 21, 2006 - 7:28 AM
      Thank you, everyone, for your perspectives. Having people to talk to and to offer suggestions really makes a difference. It's kind of shocking to me how many peopel I car about have already lost a parent ... yet another sucky part of getting older. I will definitely tell my mother I love her, and work out ways to see her more often. I appreciate the reminders :-).

      Sulana, it is roughly 18 hours from here (Maryland) to where my parents are in Florida. Not an easy drive with kids between 2 and 9 years old, even with the car video player. My mom said seh will pay the airfare for us to visit during spring break if she's not too taken out by her treatments. I might figure out a way to hope on a plane with just Arwen (who is still nursing) before then for a long weekend or something. The trouble is finding someone who will look after the other kids while I'm gone ... Marcus' vacation time is sorely lacking. We'll work it out somehow; my nieghbor does daycare, and I could probably get someone to walk the kids from school to the neighbor's house, where they could stay until Marcus gets home.

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