Hi Bishop,
Nice to see you again.
With each bad experience, we really get fed up but also smarter at picking clues of what not to go for again. We can pick up the warning signs much more quicke and simply get out of the way, not waste our time and move towards compatible people.
We also carry disfunctional stuff that we sort out in time.
The key is to keep trying but in a smarter way.
there are really nice guys around.The question is to meet them and recognise them when we do.
You will meet him in time.
Strangely, all my friends are suddenly hooked up and we are not teen-agers, even the worst cases. .
I am not because I was very extremely stupid and while I was basking in my stupidity, I missed all the better prospects around. The unflashy ones. The ones that do not come on too strong.
(I think that I've made a 180 degree turn on that one.)

It's up to us to give and pick up the right signals.
I think that the ball is in our camp.
You've got to trust yourself to make the right choice.

There *is* some one for you. I Have to believe it because I believe there is some one for me.

Take your time and center yourself for now. Do all those things that we usually scoff at after a break-up because even though they seem trite, they actually are good for us; spend time with good books, do things you like to do, hang out with your girlfriends.... just treat yourself special and focus on you until you feel ready to move forward.

<<I have to believe there is a man out there somewhere that can have all of me. That I can love forever, that I'll respect and that will treat me really well... >>

stop looking

give him a chance to find you