Yep. I wish I could have said and done a lot more...

Next time i see him, I'll slip him my # and email. ^^

Never regretted as I always acted. Sometimes it turned out OK, sometimes not, but I always thought "Well, at least it's over. Now I can move on."

Here's my $US 0.02 for you, Elle: GO FOR IT! Go and do whatever you wanna do! Tell him/her how you are feeling! The worst that can happen is to get a "No!" for an answer, and it's not the end of the world. Just get it out of your system.

I used to have this girl around when I was in the university and I thought I gotta get close to her. It wasn't exactly a crush but felt... different. I struck up a conversation and soon she invited me to her home for a study session. When we were studying, I told her I wanted to kiss her, and she complied. After that I told her I have to sleep with her. She hesitated for a moment and then took me to her bed. We slept that night and... that was it. We somehow felt that we were not for each other and never got together again. But at least I got it out of my head. She could've said "No" but it wouldn't make much of a difference.

Life's too short and valuable to waste your time and energy to worry about " Should I or shouldn't I..." stuff. Just go and do it, please.

Hope this helps.

Alchemist

i lost him. it hurts. alot.

*sigh*

I have this huge crush on a younger women that I regularly go sailing with. I sure she feels the same way too. But it's hard to get things started. Any suggestions?