I do prefer depth over physical beauty when it comes to my partners but that's because I'm a cerebral person.

Do you ever find yourself writing someone off because of how they look? I have caught myself sneering at pretty girls with all the hair and make up and pointy toed shoes thinking "yes but can she carry on a conversation or understand philosophy?". And then you get the experiences like I did on CL-Seattle where I put out an ad to meet someone new only to get a lot of "your fat/ugly/gross" and so on when I am none of those things.

To honor my own desire I have to admit I like thin men with big dicks, but many of my lovers have had neither of those qualities. I also honor some physical qualifications like bathing often, clean clothes with some effort at style, and some interest in a healthy lifestyle, but for the most part I appreciate what's inside and you have to actually talk to the person to find out what that is.