Titles...?

topic posted Thu, July 6, 2006 - 2:43 PM by  Cat
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Oh my Gothness, we've been so quiet. I know, I know, "Percy," says you, "You and Henri haven't given us anything to discuss!" Hm...

One of our lovely ladies, Rowena, had mentioned something about titles and the granting of such? Does this become something that is bestowed, or something chosen? I think that the YaYa Sisterhood girls around the world choose their own titles, and I rather like that since there is no actual hierarchy (beyond age) in our group anyway. So, I'd feel free to choose whichever titles you like. I personally have Countess/ Contessa because it was "given" to me by some local younger gothlings a few years back.

I'd suggest that one choose Duchess, Countess, Viscountess, Baroness, Lady, Vicaress, Mistress, whatever you like, and remember that titles hold no meaning at all (other than that they sound delicious). Ergo, Duchess Gothique is of no higher "rank" than Baroness Morticia. The only thing I would ask is that members refrain from using the titles "Empress", "Queen" or "Princess" -- the only Queen of Goth I know is Siouxsie Sioux! Also, this is of course only for our Black Hat Society, any titles implied are only in that venue and should not be frowned upon if one is perhaps in, say, a certain historical recreation society that takes titles very seriously. I know that all our members would not use their names and titles in other societies, so the notation is rather superflous, but... if anyone gives you trouble, just tell them that it was all the fault of your naughty cousin [insert BHS name here].

Still working on info about future ideas. I know it's so hot now that it's hard to think about sewing and dresses and such... wait. Who am I kidding?? However, I would like to put the following event out there for consideration... On Friday, October 13 -- what a delicious date!!! -- the Old Sacramento Cemetary is doing a Friday the 13th tour, as well as their usual evening tours on Friday, Saturday & Sunday October 27th, 28th & 29th... Something to think about, yes??? I'll get more info as I may.

Stay tuned!

~ Countess Persephone Strangewayes-D'arc (Percy)
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  • Re: Titles...?

    Thu, July 6, 2006 - 2:50 PM
    I shall mark my calendar for Friday October 13 7 PM

    We do have a Sister on the East Coast, in Brevard County, who will be with us spirit, however, I do encourage that she and whomever else she knows partake of a similar event.

    Don't forget next Tuesday Ladies.. July 11.... As it is National Black hat day..

    For those of us who don't have our hats... yet.. I suggest, that we all get a length of black grosgrain ribbon and tie it on as a choker, or as something to tie our longer hair back with. In representation of our day, and to celebrate the GodFather of Goth's Birthday!
  • Re: Titles...?

    Thu, July 6, 2006 - 2:50 PM
    Oh, oh, oh - I'd love to go on that tour in a floofy dress. Keep us posted?

    Also, what sort of title should we use if we feel quite far from any sort of royalty? I can't imagine myself (whether Bo or Miss von Vunderbar) as a courtly lady, just a classy broad. Suggestions?
    • Re: Titles...?

      Thu, July 6, 2006 - 2:57 PM
      Mistress was actually not a "title" but used for anyone. Also, "Mrs." was common at one point for everyone as well - a lot of the theatre actresses would call themselves "Mrs. So and So" to give themselves an air of respectability. Either would work. :-)
      • Re: Titles...?

        Thu, July 6, 2006 - 2:59 PM
        Hmmm. What about more obscure sources, such as pirates and other cultures? I don't have any specific one in mind for myself, but I'm wondering what our options are, and what seems too far-fetched.
        • Re: Titles...?

          Thu, July 6, 2006 - 3:15 PM
          Hm. I don't know much about more obscure titles for women... sounds like a fun project, though. Oh, I forgot another one: Dame. There's "Goody" but that means "Good Wife" and while some of us may be, I don't know whether anyone wants it as a title. I'll have to poke around some more...
          • Re: Titles...?

            Thu, July 6, 2006 - 3:16 PM
            Although titles in other languages, THAT I can help with if anyone is interested (it's still the usual Duchess/ Countess/ Viscountess/ Baroness/ Lady/ Mistress)...
          • Re: Titles...?

            Thu, July 6, 2006 - 3:20 PM
            Oooh. I just had a lovely idea - perhaps one could be the Your Name Here, Duchess of Place?

            For instance, my real ancestors had an estate called Timsbury, so I might be Ava von Vunderbar, Duchess of Timsbury?

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