For those of you who attended the Ethics/Logistics of Bellydance workshop, we had a big discussion on bindis (the plain or fancy jewel or dots above the nose that Indian dancers wear.) I got a question yesterday about wearing bindis for the upcoming Hafla.

I had been approached by one of our Indian students and told that that was very offensive when used in context of bellydance - something I hadn't really thought about. Curious, I spoke with several Indian women, including Shainna, on their opinion on this topic. It was said that "reducing" the bindi to fashion is at best ignorant, and at worst, deeply hurtful and offensive." Needless to say, I was shocked and saddened to hear that, as I had always allowed bindis to be worn in our shows prior to becoming more knowledgeable. Shainna explained that the bindi represents the family's honor. Another woman, who wished to remain unnamed, explained that it was also hurtful to confuse Indian and Arabic culture, and that they were different in religion as well as culture. It is also confusing to Arabs to see bellydancers dancing to their music, but wearing something that represents another region entirely.

Shainna explained, however, that it WOULD be acceptable to wear the bindis when performing a Bollywood or Classical Indian dance because it is properly representing the culture. So, in answer to the question, bindis WILL be allowed for the Bollywood, but never again for dances that aren't Indian in origin.

Also, a big thank you to the brave Indian students who came forward to share their concern over this issue. Remember, if we don't know any better, we can't fix it! Thanks for letting us know!