I have three healthy boys (16, 18, 23), all of whom I believe to be strong Indigos. I raised them all the same way . . . my oldest and youngest are adventurous, out going and generally happy . . . my middle sons has been frustrated since he was born . . . Chris disappeared 9 months ago without a trace, and during this time I have gone over and over in my head why he was so different and what I might have done differently . . . this came up for me again today, and as I have been realizing recently, maybe treating him the same as they other two wasn't the best way to help him . . . I am not beating myself up over this, just trying to understand . . . when I ran across this tribe today I felt that I should post this insight . . . not that I have any answers, but I felt it was important to share it . . . your welcome to view my profile and blogs for more details on Chris's disappearance, but ultimately I just wanted to encourage parents to spend time with their kids, everyday, listen to them, and find creative ways to help them learn and grow . . . there is no manual on how to parent awake children.
Anam Cara, Bonnie
Anam Cara, Bonnie
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Re: They are all different
Fri, May 30, 2008 - 7:22 PMwow...i am sorry you are going through this...it must be so hard! i pray for his safe return home (or at least that he contacts you and is safe and fine and happy). best wishes.
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Wed, June 4, 2008 - 10:23 PMwow, Artistpriestess, I simply can't fathom what that must be like for you and your family. Sending a big heart~hug out to you, and transmitting waves of prayer that Chris is held in a space of peace and love, guided by the wisdom of his highest self. May he be reconnected* w/ you soon...
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Sat, June 7, 2008 - 10:18 PMagain, thank you so much . . . my Tribe friend have been so amazing, one even started a Tribe to raise money for a PI/reward and all . . . we are following up on old leads etc. but I am reling on faith in Chris and the Universe . . . I have my moments but overall I sense that this is Chris's journey (ours too),that must play out . . .
Anam Cara, Bonnie
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Sun, July 13, 2008 - 2:53 PMAll I can say is that my heart is with you. May the answers you need be given. Blessings, Jessie
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Sun, September 28, 2008 - 10:49 PMi am reading this for the first time today...
has your son returned?
thank you for the reminder for all the parents out there.
my children are both still young, but already ... even from pregnancy, i realized that they were very different.
our days together usually consist of how to keep our younger one happy.
i hope you do have good news.
as a mom, i cannot even imagine...
i'll pray for your family...
luv miki