Advanced Pegging

topic posted Sat, June 26, 2010 - 7:42 AM by  daniel
I thought it would be good to start a thread for people to talk about "advanced pegging" topics. There is a ton of stuff out there about beginning pegging, and what to do to start out (and much of it is the same), but there is very little for those who have been doing it for awhile and want to explore ways to make it even more fun and exciting and fulfilling.

So what are some of your tips, suggestions, and questions for "advanced pegging"

I think that the enjoyment of pegging comes from two sources. There is the physical aspect and there is the mental aspect. I think that most people enjoy both aspects, but for many, one side or the other is at least slightly more dominant. For me - I love the physical pleasure but the mental aspect of it is even better. That being the case, I am always looking for ways to increase the mental aspect of pegging. Along those lines, sucking on the dildo is a great way to increase the mental aspect of pegging. There are other posts about this subject and it looks like there are a wide range of feelings on that topic.

Another mental aspect I have found exciting is setting up a mirror so you can see yourself getting pegged. I have never done it before, but I would love it if my girlfriend would make me bend over the counter in the bathroom in front of the mirror so I would have to watch myself as she . . . well . . . you know . . . :)

Anyone else have any thoughts, tips, suggestions, or questions about advanced pegging?
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  • Re: Advanced Pegging

    Sun, June 27, 2010 - 7:57 AM
    I'd say that one of the great things to do once you are moving in to more advanced pegging is to play around, especially with positions and strokes. Pegging is a lot like penis-vaginal sex in that you start out with a basic, easy to work with position and probably a simple thrusting motion, but there's so much more.

    Another thing that I think might make a nice change is some light restraint for me. I'm not usually into restraint, but men are so used to being in control and the expectation that we will be in control to some extent (moving to counter her thrusts, masturbating during the pegging, etc.) that it might be nice to not be able to do anything except enjoy what she does, perhaps even being blindfolded (maybe remove it at the very end so I can orgasm looking into her eyes.
  • Re: Advanced Pegging

    Tue, June 29, 2010 - 10:02 PM
    One thing that my girlfriend and I have enjoyed is delaying the pleasure.

    She will put on her harness and dildo. Then she'll put on something OVER it. Maybe a pair of spandex shorts or a skirt or tights. She'll have a nice bulge going. It lets me know what she plans to do to me later.

    Then we'll sit together and watch a movie, drink a glass of wine, or do something else to delay the inevitable. As we sit on the couch, first she'll just let me look at her bulge. Then she'll let me start stroking it. She'll ask me little questions like, "do you like what you see?"

    By the time we're ready to escalate, we are both VERY turned on and into it.

    There's just something about seeing her wearing her strap-on and knowing what she plans to do with it that's incredibly sexy. One time she even cooked a meal for me while wearing her dildo. When both of you are comfortable with pegging, this can be a fun way to build excitement around the act.
  • Re: Advanced Pegging

    Tue, August 31, 2010 - 6:28 AM
    I can tell you about my bf's pegging fantasy. He asked me to blind fold him and tell him not to move as I take off all of his clothing. He wanted me to handcuff his hands behind his back and then move him toward the bed and tell to get on his knees. I pull his open mouth towards my warm vagina at the same time opening up the bottle of lube . I start lubing up his anus and insert a finger for stroking it in and out ...
    then I pull out my finger and spank his butt gently... Of course, he must be punished=)
  • Re: Advanced Pegging

    Tue, August 31, 2010 - 2:43 PM
    Recently pulled a low upholstered bench (large ottoman) up to a full-length mirror in a hotel and it was not only the perfect height for him on his hands and knees and me behind him, the mirror was awesome...because up until that point I had him blindfolded from the moment he walked in the door of the hotel room. I slowly worked him up to fucking him in the manner described, and in the middle of it took the blindfold off...quite a thrill for him.

    Also - there is the whole concept of being able to have a hand-free orgasm with just strap-on stimulation. We have come close to that but are still practicing. I have found it helps to find a chart of the male anatomy (cross-section) to see exactly what you are "aiming" at (prostate gland) for the Peggers. If you get the picture in your head - then it seems easier to think about positions and angles that hit that magic spot for your guy.
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    Re: Advanced Pegging

    Tue, August 31, 2010 - 8:18 PM
    I like the physical aspect of it. Not so much on the sucking part. Never have sucked on the dildo when it's on the wife. I've done that a few time when I've been alone.

    But for me, some days I like it deep and wide, other days I like it short and on the prostate. Depends on my mood. :)
  • Re: Advanced Pegging

    Fri, November 12, 2010 - 7:40 AM
    So one day I had to leave the house for about an hour. When I get back my girlfriend is sitting in the chair watching porn on the computer. She only has a pair of jeans on. I sit next to her and start watching the porn with her, of course it was a chick demolishing a guys ass with a strapon. All of a sudden she grabs the back of my head and jams it in her crotch, where I found the biggest bulge from her strapon. After rubbing my face in it for a while she undid her jeans, pulled it out and made me suck it. Had to be one of the sexiest, hottest damn things ever. I was so freaking horny I couldn't stand it!!!!
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    Re: Advanced Pegging

    Sun, November 28, 2010 - 4:55 PM
    It takes much practice to call yourself advanced thats for certain. I think the key to the best experience for both, is to find the right harness. Needs to give the female pleasure and stay on without tons of adjusting thoughout the session. We have tried many harnesses over the years this is by far the winner.
    Usually requires adjusments once you get at it but its just a small tug on the straps. It has an open crotch he can fuck me then I can fuck him and so on without having to strap on and off.
    DILDO is super important (and various sizes are wonderful) but Cyberskin is the best. You can bang as hard as you want and its so super soft inside him. It feels more like the real thing than any other dildo we have ever found in our 18 years of pegging.
    And practice, practice, practice. The best thing is to hit that spot and make him cum without touching that cock. LOVE IT!!!!!
    • Re: Advanced Pegging

      Mon, November 29, 2010 - 9:43 AM
      Is that a Sportsheets? Sportsheets makes pretty good value harnesses.

      I respectfully disagree with your recommendation of Cyberskin. Anal play brings the toys in contact with sensitive mucous membranes as well as potentially nasty and smelly stuff (for lack of a better term). Silicone doesn't leach any chemicals, is easy to clean, and is sanitizable. While it can pick up smells, they're only on the surface and can be cleaned off. Many silicones are stiffer than Cyberskin, but I find the softer silicones (such as the ones Vixen uses) to be very comfortable, and if you can afford them there's always the real-feel silicone (O2 and VixSkin).

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