First Pegging Last Night

topic posted Thu, April 28, 2011 - 7:04 AM by  Ryan
My wife and I did our first adventure in pegging last night. We both had fun but are wondering something. She bent me over the bed and I enjoyed the psychological aspect of it very much. Just the thought of her bending me over and pounding me is very erotic. My question is what are the best positions for stimulating the prostate?
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  • Re: First Pegging Last Night

    Thu, April 28, 2011 - 11:00 AM
    You might wanto to get on ANEROS website and search those forums, as that device is prostate specific.. But I am new to the whole hting myself, however I found a lot of prostate info there.
  • Re: First Pegging Last Night

    Thu, April 28, 2011 - 3:54 PM
    Congratulations on your first pegging experience!
    Have your wife use her fingers to locate your prostate first, so that you know what it feels like to have it stimulated, and so you both know where it is. As she searches around and with her finger(s) - stay in good communication with each other - lots of checking in and feedback. Once you do that you will have more of an idea what pegging positions work for you.

    If you need a visual to get oriented -

    Standing up from behind and pseudo-missionary get rave reviews, but so much depends on how your bodies are built and how they fit together. What works for one couple may not work for another.
    • Re: First Pegging Last Night

      Fri, April 29, 2011 - 7:07 PM
      A few days ago a lady friend was aking about where the prostrate is and deep down she was a little more "curious" than that, After putting on a exam glove and feeling her way around inside me with 2 fingers she fond it very quickly and started tickling me. Let's say she knew I enjoyed it by my "purring". She definetly was better than some of the guys who did me.
  • Re: First Pegging Last Night

    Mon, May 2, 2011 - 7:12 PM
    I'm so excited!

    My girlfriend and I finally decided on what strapon harness & dildo to purchase. We've been talking about it for nearly a year and have scoured the thousands of choices available. We decided to go with the Aslan Jaguar harness and the "Leo" dildo by Vixen Creations. She's nervous that it's going to be too big for me to handle, but I'm sure it'll be great! We have a few other toys that are slightly smaller than the Leo and I have had no issues taking those.

    The order went though today so it should be about a week before it gets here (although I hope its sooner!!). I'll be sure to follow up with this post to let you know how things turn out.
    • Re: First Pegging Last Night

      Mon, May 2, 2011 - 8:23 PM
      Wow - nice choices.You definitely followed the advice, "buy once and buy quality".
      • Re: First Pegging Last Night

        Tue, May 3, 2011 - 4:10 PM
        Thanks for you advice Ruby!

        I shopped around for a while and found that had the best prices and a great selection.

        Can't wait to let you know how things go!!!
        • Re: First Pegging Last Night

          Mon, May 23, 2011 - 6:08 PM
          So our first time with the strap-on was amazing! I thought it'd be awkward but it wasn't, not in the slightest. My gf loved how she looked in the harness even before she inserted the dildo. Once she did, though, her dominant side came out immediately. It was so sexy!

          She commanded me to get down on my knees and suck her cock. She shoved it down my throat, which caused me to gag. She laughed and called me her bitch. I had never seen this side of her before! (and we've been together 4 years).

          After giving her head for about 5 minutes she bent me over the bed and proceeded to give me the fucking of a lifetime! My ass accepted the fairly large dildo (abt 7" long x 1.5" wide) with ease. I suppose I was already so relaxed and turned on that there was no need to be gentle. She ended up fucking me for about 30 minutes in a half dozen positions. I know it sounds boring but doggy style and missonary were my favorites. She had the best access to both my cock and ass and she got to be in control in both cases.

          Overall it was a great investment. We've also become closer to each other and more open about our sexual desires. Next step in our fantasies is adding another person (s) to the mix. Just not sure how to find someone for that just yet!

          We're also looking for another, larger, dildo to add to our collection. I feel like I could take one a little wider and she'd like one a little longer so we could try more positions. Now she knows what it's like to be a man and always want a bigger one lol!!!
  • Re: First Pegging Last Night

    Fri, May 27, 2011 - 6:04 AM
    You'll find your favorite way/s simply by doing. All the reading & pondering may whet the appetite, but the discovering is in the doing and there's no substitute.

    I'm a "half celibate bi guy" if you will and have never told my wife I had a few same sex trysts in my past. My way past like Feb of 1985 was the last time I was with another guy to be exact. I just didn't want her to ever worry about it and believe me she's the type. So imagine my surprise one day when she asked me if I'd ever had my prostate messaged. This is a woman who didn't even know she had a spot until we got married. After I got her off that first time she started buying Kama Sutra books and every other kind of sex position & sexual this sexual that she could find. Nothing kinky she just really became this sexual tigress. I was loving it.

    So she began fingering me occasionally when she'd give me a blowjob (giving head is something she's just not very good at but the fingering really stepped it up a notch) and whenever she'd do that I would always fantasize about getting fucked by a guy or another woman with a strapon while she was giving me a blowjob. One day I suggested we buy some toys so we logged into amazon and began looking around. I had plotted this of course, so I knew which toys would bring up strap-ons in the "Customers who bought this also bought ...." sections. After a few passes with the strap-ons coming into that section and she didn't bite, I was finally about to say "Oh look at that! You could see what it's like to be in charge of the fucking from my angle" or something of that nature.

    But just as I was about to say it, she said "Ohhh hehe. Look at that monster. If you're a good boy maybe I'll get that for your birthday." Man I got so horny immediately that's all it took. I kept my composure though and said something like "Whoa there." Now I'm not a fem type guy at all. I'm very masculine in all respects and no one would suspect I like bisex by appearance or mannerisms. I think most of us bi guys are like that. But she persisted and said "It would mean you were a queer if we did that. i'd really like to try." (She's old school & says "queer" not "gay")

    So I reluctantly (while screaming YIPEEE!! inside) agreed I'd try it if she was really interested. I'm already typing a damn story and that wasn't my intention so I'll cut to the chase. The first time she pegged me she wanted to bend me over and although that's not my favorite way (I already knew how I liked it best from being with one particular male lover several times that way in the past) I agreed and we did it. She said it was alright but the harness was hurting her. We bought several more types and one was nearly $100 and she seemed to like that one.

    But here's why I think it came to a sudden halt. The first time she fucked me missionary - my all time favorite way to take it, I had multiple full body orgasms wave after wave after wave and in hindsight it freaked her out. She saw her husband having rapturous orgasms like I give her (she multi-orgasmic since marrying me) and she's never pegged me again since. Everytime I would ask she'd say "The harness hurts me too much honey I've told you that 100 times!" She fingered me a few times after that but now that's stopped also.

    That was the best sex I'd ever had in my life. I liked it even more than a man doing me. I've never liked to give anal to anyone although I did a few times with some women who were into it, I just prefer a woman's vagina much more, or a man or a woman's mouth. But spreading my legs way wide apart and seeing this woman scooch up inside my V and slowly enter me, slowly pump me, all the while messaging her lovely breasts and her stroking me while picking up the pace pumping mer harder and deeper and faster . . . . YOWWWWZA that orgasm was so intense. Truly, I had an orgasm and ejaculation equal to the simultaneous vaginal/clitoral O's that we give her that way. It just freaked her out but she won't admit it. I've tried to talk to her about it but she's always just real short and moves on to another topic.

    I have no idea what my point is. I guess just to say break your babe in slowly. If she see's you having a massive on-going O like she has, it might freak her out and you'll be left to deal with this longing that never gets filled. I still love her, but I occasionally have to pull out the big Cody Rider that's too big for her but just right for me, and fill my need. I usually time it so when she comes home I'm so horny and my P-spot so messaged that I give her a great session. I don't know if she knows I ride that thing sometimes but if she does, I guess she's content to let me do it. It's not the same as being pounded by a beautiful woman though. Good luck.
    • Re: First Pegging Last Night

      Fri, May 27, 2011 - 6:08 AM
      There doesn't seem to be a way to edit posts. Where I wrote "It would mean you were queer...." should have read "It *wouldn't* mean you were queer...."
    • Re: First Pegging Last Night

      Fri, May 27, 2011 - 10:57 AM
      Simon - great story - thanks so much for sharing it. But sad how things ended up...I keep thinking there has got to be a way you can talk with her about it and see what freaked her out...but I'm sure you tried. Counseling? Maybe tell her that the price of admission to your giving her the multiple O's is that she do you at least one a week so you can experience the same...and you will make sure the harness is comfortable. Good luck to you.
      • Re: First Pegging Last Night

        Sat, May 28, 2011 - 10:04 AM
        Thanks for the thoughts. I did consider the "soft barter" method, but I've never enjoyed sex, or even just a conversation with someone unless I know they're fully in it because they want to be. I really don't understand why it freaked her out as it did especially seeing how much pleasure it gave me. I thought I might actually die at one point and didn't care!

        My best guess is she may sense my bisexuality and is afraid I'd act on it. I love her and she knows it, but I'd never cheat on her and I think she knows that too, but maybe even just "the slim possibility" that I would (in her mind) just scares her. If that's the case though you'd think she would be more willing to satisfy that desire in me so I end up arguing with myself. We can't all, have it all, so I'm just resigned to enjoying what we do have. And while I do still have those desires, I don't feel neglected or ripped off. Besides, like I said when I'm really in need for it I can do myself!

        Ruby Ryder, your man or woman is very lucky to have you from what little I can tell. ;-)

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